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Archived questions from: December, 2009 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

Unsure what to do...pregnant at 15!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - well without a doubt im pregnat. 15 years of age thats the bad thing about it. with me being sexually active i had only one partner wich is my boyfriend. we have been together for two years now, and we always used a condom. i just dont know what to ...

We had sex, he pulled out, but could I be pregnant?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 December 2009 (?) - i had unprotected sex last night and he pulled out onto my backside... i was wearing a thong tho (he jus pulled it aside when we were having sex) and he got his cum on it. i didnt take my underwear off until about 30 mins later. i jus had my period ...

Small sharp pain in my left ovary, is this a sign of pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - I have this sharp small pain in my left ovary similar to what I used to get at the beginning of my last pregnancy that ended in a miscarriage last June.. is this one of the early signs of pregnancy? Has anyone experienced a similar pain b4 finding ...

A mini period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - I am due on in a few days but i've been having little period like cramps. At first i just thought that meant i wasn't pregnant but then i read about women who do have cramps during the first couple of weeks of pregnancy. I had sex right in the ...

The sex felt different and now I'm scared about being pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 December 2009 (?) - please helppp! tonight my ex bf came over and we had sex. only like 2 hours ago. he is 18 and i jus turned 16 2 weeks ago. just by the way. and hes moving away to a different state this week. so anyway we had sex tonight (excuse me for this) but ...

Can using condoms & morning after pill be effective to prevent pregnancy and STDs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - out of genuine curiosity. my first time having sex with my boyfriend and we been together just over 9 months. we are long distance relationship but live only like 20 miles. we had our ups and our downs but we love each other nonetheless. ...

He said he wants a divorce over my refusal to have sex without a condom...how can I prove I love him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my husband since i was 15. we have been togethor for 5 years. and married for 1 year. we have 2 children. a 3 year old and a 6 month old. we have been through alot together. after a huge fight last year we were able to patch things ...

Sex w/o condoms safe?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Well, I'm a 15 year old male that has a very honest girlfriend. For the past year or so, we have been expiramenting with sexual touching, oral sex, ect,. When we we're on teh phone the other day, she asked me if I wanted to have sex. I told her I ...

Will I go to jail if I had sex wit my exgirlfriend who is 17 and now pregnant.??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Well i met my ex at 16 yrs of age at a 18 yr and older club she lied to me and told me she was 18..She looked 18 and was at a 18 yr and older club.We started dating had unprotected sex now shes pregnant.And she bearly decided to tell me her age.I ...

Can I tell my family I'm pregnant without disclosing the relationship information?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Okay - i am preganant and living with my folks. Most of my family still believe me to be a virgin, they have no idea that i had a boyfriend for a few months a little while ago. This is gonna be hard because they will not exspect it at all - if i was ...

Pregnant: yes or no?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I am shantha am an indian 33 years old i have irregular period, i took a treatment vide ayurveda. After treatment, past five month i have regular period. last month i missed my period and also i got pregnancy symptoms, like frequent urination, ...

Advice on sex and pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Hello all, I had a quick question concerning sex and pregnancy. I'm 36 weeks pregnant with our first baby and my boyfriend and I still have sex, its not as often as it once was, maybe only 3-5 times a week. My doctor never told us that we should ...

Could these be early symptoms of pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Last Wednesday night my boyfriend and I had sex. It was the first time for both of us and it was something we were shy about but we wanted to do. We have been together for a year and we take things slow but, the night wasn't perfect of course ...

Might be Pregnant again after break up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - ok here goes... I've been in an on again/off again relationship with a mn 11 yrs older then me since February this year... its been a wild ride including a miscarraige ... the thing is before I found out I was pregnant I had given up on the idea of ...

Morning after pill will it affect me if I'm already pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - i had unprotected sex a a week ago wid my ex and i think i might be pregnant n then i had unprotected sex again monday morning with this guy i was seeing n am thinking of taking the morning after pill tomorrow will it effect me if i am already ...

Should I let the ex see his baby, even though he says it's not his?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - ok so im new here and just want to know wat u people think i should do? ok here goes... i have a three yr old child and im currently pregnant again my babys dad and i arnt together he left me wen i was pregnant. hes a dumb @ss. n e wayz about a yr ...

I'm staying for my son basically but I Want to know how to remove myself from this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have only dated my bf for a little over a year. He had previously dated the girl before me for 4 years. 4 months after we started dating we found out I was pregnant and 3 months into pregnancy I started having nightmares about his ex, ...

I just started birth control and haven't had my period yet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - so i started birth control the end of last month/ the begining if this month. and this sunday i should have started my period, but its tuesday and still nothing. i havent fully had sex yet. like my boyfriends when half way in. but he never ised a ...

Could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - hi i'm 18 an my bf an i had been dating for over a yr,i am suppose to be ovalation on 27th of dec on tht day a drop of sprem hit my vagina, could i prego, i dont want to but if it is i'm ready for the responsiblity plz help me in answerin the ...

Am I living in a little world of my own? I want to have a baby...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Hey Cupid, I just need some advice. I will put the picture together for you.. Im 20 years old and am from and living in the UK. My boyfriend who i have been with for just over a year, is in the US Navy and living in california with work. We fly to s...

5 months later we find out she's pregnant after cheating

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

29 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend cheated on me and got pregnant.......she didn't know she was pregnant until five months later..........if u were in my shoes would u forgive her or leave. We tryn to work it out going to counseling and all. Am I'm a bigger man by tryn ...

What are some of the early signs of pregnancy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - my question is about before a missed period and pregnancy ... what were some mild symptoms before finding out ur preggo... not the throwing up stuff but more like ain in ovaries and stuff like that?...

His ex had a baby and now everything is all messed up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - i met my bf 3 mnths ago,and we were so in love and talked about a future together,everythin was fine ,then he found out his ex has had a baby 3 mnths ago and ius saying it is his,he says he needs time to sort his head out till after the dna test,but ...

I'm 20, girlfriend worried she's pregnant and I'm not ready to have a kid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend once 'cuz I ran out of condone that day, but I took it out when I came. I was in a worry since after that time. Now, my girlfriend said that she hasn't have her period yet, and it is already time for her ...

2 periods in October and none since, am I pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - hey im a 16 year old girl and i am always feeling sick all through out the day an through the night to and really tired all the time just always feel like sleeping i had 2 periods in october but since then i havent had one am i pregnant?? please ...

I am producing a lot more discharge, could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I am 16 years old and i had sex for the first time last week. The condom split and i am scared that i might be pregnant. The only symptom i have had so far is that i am producing a lot more discharge. Does this mean i am definitely pregnant? What ...

What's the safest way to cum inside my girlfriend without getting her pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend really wants me to cum inside her, while yes this sounds very hot, Im at the same time very apprehensive to do it because i'm not ready for a kid, she said she is going to get on the pill so we'll wait 7 days before we have sex, but my ...

I took sperm off his condom and inserted it into my vagina. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - i'm 18 and i want to get pregnant so bad, my boyfriend came in me but it wasnt my ovalating date, a week after he knew it was my ovalating day an he didnt come in me, but a drop of sprem hit my vagina, after that he put on a condom when he was done ...

I'm 14 and scared to death that I may be pregnant. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - Hi. I am 14 and I think I am pregnant. My boyfriend knows, he says hes with me all the wall. He told me even befor we had sex that he wanted to marry me so I beleive him. He doesnt think I should get an abortion and neither do I. But my mom is a ...

Should I have a baby at 24?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - I'm about to completely change my life and I need some advice from people in a similar situation. I am 23 and have been with my partner for 3 years and we've been living together for the past 2.5 years. Our relationship is strong and we have great ...

I want to have his baby but he doesn't love me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - im 24 and pregnant. Ive been in love wit the same man since i was 18 and he def isnt in love wit me. He has another gf who ive seen he loves yet we still sleep together ive not told him yet. We have a bad past ive previously told his current gf we ...

I'm pregnant and can't decide whether to be with the father, be with the ex, or go it alone?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I am 30 years old. My live in boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me, and moved out and into his new girlfriends place in May 2009. A very good male friend of mine, split from his wife, and I let him stay with me until he could get on his feet. He ...

How am I supposed to keep our relationship secret not that I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - i told my bf i love him as suggested the first time i told him he his reply was i love you to baby,not sure if he meant it.our relationship is a secret my friends thinks i am single cuz we had broken up before but i never told them we get back ...

Have we lost the spark due to my pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I'm 19 and pregnant and me and my husband have been together a year. I was never really phsically attrated to him, I was attracted to my love for him, but the longer we are together the more it seems like that may not be enough. He isn't a good ...

Can sperm on clothes make you pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

25 December 2009 (F) - Here`s the thing... I`m virgin and last night I had a wonderful time with my boyfriend, but I`m wondering; can girl be pregnant if guy ejaculate in his pants and she sits close on him? Can the sperme go trough clothes and so on? I know this is a p...

Should I walk away if he got another girl pregnant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

25 December 2009 (F) - hello im just wondering what i should do.my boyfriend of 5years got another girl pregnant an it hurts me soo much cause i was there an he didnt want me to have mine.but allowing this girl to have her baby.he say he love me an want to work it out wit ...

I had a miscarriage, now I'm pregnant again. Is there a high risk of it happening again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - When I was 17 I got pregnant and thought was having a miscarriage so had a scan at 6 weeks and was fine with healthy heartbeat then at 7 weeks slow heartbeat and they said it doesnt look good then at 8 weeks no heartbeat at all but no bleeding so ...

Still bleeding 3 months after giving birth, should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - I just had a baby sept 28th and has been 3months and i have had a problem i am stil bleeding i dont remember bleeding this long with my other 3 kids.i got a depo shot before i left the hospital should i be worried about all this bleeding...

Could I be pregnant? We had sex but no intercourse

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - Could I be pregnant? We had sex, but no intercourse. We both had our underpants, but hes penis was right in front of my vagina, when he orgasmed and everything was very wet... I'm right in the middle of my cyclus, so if we had intercourse, the posi...

I had sex for the first time and am now worried I might be pregnant

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - pleeeaaasse responde im so scared! i am 13 years old. i turn 14 in 5 days. i really like this guy who is not my boyfriend, he is 16 and is used to having sex a lot and says he really likes me and wont leave me and seems very different from the other ...

His family is breaking us up...i am pregnant with our second child and don't know what to do. please help me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I'm 7 months pregnant with my ex's child and he wont answer my calls, letters, emails, or texts. I'm 20 and pregnant with our second child. We have a 19 month of baby girl. We're expecting a baby boy in early feb. He has currently been to a universi...

Is it likely I am pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - My menstrual cycle is generally pretty regular, usually from around 29-34 days in length, averaging at about 33 days in the past 9 months. My last cycle was 34 days, and i had sex the night before it started, where my boyfriend came inside me. The ...

I had a miscarriage and I can't move on, how long will I feel like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I had a miscarriage in September 2008, i was nearly 4 months gone. I had to have my baby surgically removed on the 8th October 2008 and it broke my heart. I split up from my long-term boyfriend and was in deep depression for months (i also have ...

I want a baby but he says we have no savings...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Me and my husband got married only last year but we've been boyfriend and girlfriend for more than 6 years and decided to get married.Now i want to have a baby bcoz Iam in the right age right now his younger than me,i am very upset with him until ...

Could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - i have never had sex with my boyfriend bu i let him finger me last week and ever since i have had a sore stomach i keep thinking he might have got me pregnant he said he was toucing himself to turn him on now i am worried bu it could just be because ...

He often jokes about me getting pregnant and I'm beginning to wonder...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - About a year ago I met and got involved with a really great guy. He told me right away that he had a vasectomy, but seemd startled when I told him I couldn't get pregnant because I had an IUD. The IUD occasionally caused me some mild discomfort ...

Why did my on and off again boyfriend get me nothing for this Christmas this year?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - (MOD NOTE: ORIGNAL POSTERS TITLE) I got my on and off again bf of 1.5 yrs a christmas gift - he loved it. But was acting kinda weird after. We have just gotten back together. Its been bit tense between us. Anyway, the next day, he txts me ...

Please don't lecture me, I need advice on what I should do next!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - i have recently had unprotected sex several times within the past month or two. lately i have been feeling nauseous, tired for no reason at all, having weird food cravings, going to the bathroom more, and my breasts have been sore. i have had what i ...

Yaz and full protection?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been on the birth control Yaz since July of 2009. I was wondering how long it takes to have full protection, is it one month after you begin taking the pills. I had a little mishap on Saturday night and had unprotected sex, I ...

Paranoid about being pregnant? We didn't use a condom.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - hi, me and my man were having sex a few weeks ago and he came in me, i was due for my period on saturday, its now monday and still no period, im also stressing a lil bit, so that may be causing it, but i dont. i do feela lil bit tired, and i have ...