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Please don't lecture me, I need advice on what I should do next!

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Question - (22 December 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 December 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i have recently had unprotected sex several times within the past month or two. lately i have been feeling nauseous, tired for no reason at all, having weird food cravings, going to the bathroom more, and my breasts have been sore. i have had what i believe is my period although it hasn't been like my normal ones.i took a pregnancy test today but it was negative. i also can't rely on having a missed period because the women in my family tend to bleed when they are pregnant. i also noticed that my jeans that i have worn without a problem are starting to get tight around the waist. can someone please help me- i'm confused about what is going on and what i should do. and please don't lecture me- i already know that i should have been more careful and plan on being more careful in the future.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009):

Search above on top right "pregnancy symptoms."

Check this site:

http://pregnancyrx.com/list_of_pregnancy_symptoms.php

Why are you fearing a lecture? We're adults you know, like your parents. Experience is a bitch, eh?

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (22 December 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntGo see doc oc who knows what you piked up in the sea, better to take some pills and clear it up now before it gets bad, ANd if your just pregnant you will kno soon enough doublem you tell her to take the pill but she may not want to terminate the baby if she is, there are other options.

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (22 December 2009):

Not My Name agony auntI showed a negative on a home pregnancy test when I was in fact about 7 weeks pregnant. The level of hormone in my system was not sufficient for the test to accuarately detect (I even had a second one show neg in the doctors office - so it was not a faulty test) however, based on all else my doc ordered a blood test which is far more sensitive in detecting hormones and confirmed the pregnancy. I suggest you get to a GP and ask for a blood test to get a 100% answer.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (22 December 2009):

DoubleM agony auntJust wait another few days and test again, then get on the pill. No lecture, just good advice. And most of us would strongly advise condoms these days, unless both participants have been thoroughly tested for sexually transmitted diseases.

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A male reader, anotherjoeshmoe United States +, writes (22 December 2009):

You should go to a clinic and get tested. Knowing, good news or not, is better than the uncertain.

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