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Pregnancy: Help and advice

Does having sex soon after your fertile time, cause pregnancy, any ideas on what a guy can do to have a better erection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - ok i had sex a few days after my fertile time i wanted to know can i still get pregnant after my fertile time, and also his penis was not all the way hard can i still get pregnant and one more question he penis is not getting hard nomore i don't ...

I don't want sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - me and my fiance and had a baby 1 year ago and since then i havent wanted to have sex or do anything sexual at all! i can count the amount of times we have slept together on 1 hand! my partner was understanding at first but now i can see hes star...

Could I be pregnant or is my waterfall playing tricks on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Im about 3-5 days late. I've been having mild cramps, mild headaches, mild backaches and my nipples are tender. On and off. But my friend told me that when you are pregnant your cervics get hard. This is kinda gross but i stuck my finger inside ...

I had my period, could I be pregnant anyway?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - iam 24 years old,i slept with someone a month ago but i had my period and they lasted for the whole two weeks and usually they take 5 days,but now my problem is yesterday i started to vomitt,so what i wanna know is could i be pregnant? are these the ...

I might be pregnant with my ex's child but he has moved on...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 4 and half months. We spilt up in the space 3 days, he had a new girlfriend and he rings me up saying he would still like to see me but now he's been moody and moaning at me just because I still have feelings for him, he ...

I'm so excited... Am I pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Alright here goes, me and my boyfriend of a year and a half are trying 2 get pregnant 4 a year or so now and I believe now I might be pregnant, my period hasn't started I've thrown up a few times, I'm only a day late though I really hope I am, I ...

I'm not on birth control and we didn't use a condom... dumb I know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Umm.. heres my situation. My ex and I had sex last week... WE were really dumb and didn't use a condom. So I think he came in me... he even told me he might have.. plus I saw some on my underwear when I got home. I'm not on Birth control either. ...

Am I making the right decision to keep my baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - My Mum has always been my one and only source of unconditional love and support and the day she suddenly died was the most devastating of my life. I'm 26 and feel like I had the most important person in my life who I shared this unbelievable bond ...

Why didnt she listen to what I said?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - My ex-boyfriend broke up with me in August and started seeing someone else straight away. A few weeks later I found out I was pregnant by him. I told him and he said he would support my decision of what I wanted to do. I wanted to keep the baby and ...

I'm so worried, could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I am on birthcontrol but it's not the regular one it's called the mini pill, i'm very good with it, i also have kind of irregular periods. Me and my fiance have sex often and without condoms but he never "goes" inside me but i'm not sure if he still ...

Boyfriend wouldn't support abortion if I was pregnant.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Me and my bf were talking about what would happen if i got pregnant. I am 18 and only just started studying and am no way ready to have a baby. So i told him, im not ready for a child, as much as it would hurt i would have to get an abortion. H...

I'm pregnant and have noticed my husband still keeps in contact with ex girlfriends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5872 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I noticed on the computer and on the phone that my husband is still keeping in contact with some of his ex-friends this topic always starts bad emotions between us plus I'm pregnant, should I just let it go and start talking to some of my ...

Could I get pregnant if he cums on my stomach?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I hope no one thinks this is a stupid question but can I get pregnant doing this? I've been messing around with this guy recently. We always use condoms during sex but he takes it off at the end and cums on my stomach area. I've never had a guy do ...

Am I pregnant already?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Okay I have been on ortho trycyclin lo which a birth control pilland then i was forgetting to take it all the time so i switched to the nuva ring which you stick in you once a month and take out the week of you period...well i decided i wanted to ...

Pregnant by another man and my husband wants me to get rid of it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I don't know where else to turn, I feel so sad an alone at the moment. I was in a relationship with two men, one of which was my husband, and yes they knew about each other as we lived all in the same house. I found out I was pregnant b...

Please help, I cant figure it out... am I being weird?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm pregnant, I have been with my boyfriend for a year, he wants me to get rid of it, but I'm against abortion, and have even protested against it, it will go against everything I've stood for, but I am only 17. Should I give up what I stand for ...

Why would he do that if we're having a baby in 4 weeks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years and I am 8 months pregnant. The day before yesterday he got a text message from his ex that said "why would you send me a text that says arm" I asked him what she was talking about he said he didn't ...

Pregnant and confused...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Im in love, and i have a boyfriend, Im in love with my boyfriends best mate, and i think he likes me 2!! im paranoid my boyfriend is going to cheat on me, is that just because i know how i feel for his friend? and to top it all off i think im ...

Hypothetically speaking: should I have my baby boy circumsized?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - hypathetically speaking, if i were 5 months pregnant, and just found out i was having a boy... Would it be smarter to get him circumsized and why??? if i dont curcumsize him now, can he get it done later in life if he wanted to?...

How long does it take for birth control to be effective?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - how long does it take for birth control to be effective?...

Still scared that I could be pregnant...how to cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Okay . Me and my boyfriend had sex earlier for the first time. I haven't had sex since the end of may. We used a condom but a little after he said he had to ask me a question. And he asked me when my next period is and I really don't know. It shoul...

Marriage was great until I had a baby, now I don't love him any more!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I've been with my husband for 8 years now and we have a beautiful little girl. I've loved him almost since we met, but since the birth of our daughter my feelings for him have completely changed. I don't know if its the change of having a child to ...

My guy-friend got me pregnant but I had a miscarriage, why is he mad at me now for everything I couldn't control?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - Please help me! My best guy-friend said he loved me, so I had sex with him and I got pregnant. I'm only thirteen, so I was scared, and then I had a miscarriage, he got mad at me for getting pregnant, then he got mad at me because the baby died. He ...

My girlfriend left me two months into her pregnancy because I "aggravate" her and I'm in shock!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

25 October 2008 (M) - WHY does god hate me.... i gave everythign for the one girl... we were so happy for so long... we were engaged and she got pregnant and we were so happy... now shes leaving me only 2 months into the pregnancy because i "aggrivate" her to much. we ...

Can a girl get pregnant this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - hey... this is kind of embarrasing but.. If a guy rubs his *ahem* against a girls.. area.. with underwear on, is it possible for the girl to get pregnant if the guy cums? Sorry but this question has been bugging me.. thanks xxx...

Pregnant at 14 and in care. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I am 14 years old.I was recently put into the care system but i have just found out im pregnant. I want to keep the baby but i have no support from my family or anyone else to be hounest.the father isnt in the picture either.i also have no where to ...

Could holding my breath for 15 seconds affect my unborn baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - Will it affect my baby if ocasionally I don't breathe for like 15 seconds.... it's during intercourse... I have stopped but I'm almost four months, will my baby be challenged?...

My parents arent supporting my decision to have this baby

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - please help me! im 15 and i am 38 weeks pregnant. my parents arn't supporting me at all and they are threatening to throw me out once the baby is born unless i have an abortion. my boyfriend died just after i became pregnant as he got ran over so ...

I'm pregnant now and I dislike this 'open' relationship I have with the man I love! Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - In the beginning of my relationship I had agreed on me and my boyfriend in having an open relationship. More or less on his side he got to flirt, sleep, pretty much do whatever he wanted. At first it was no problem because I Thought our relatinship ...

Period was due 2 weeks ago and nothing has appeared! Am I pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5878 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I know that many of you have probably heard all this before but I'm worried I might be pregnant. I had unprotected sex about a month ago and I'm on no sort of permanent contraception. I was due on my period 2 weeks ago and yet nothing has appeared. ...

In a polyamourus relationship and my female lover is pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - I have been part of a Polyamourus relationship for 5 months now, my girlfriend is married to my best friend and I love her very much. Her husband is completely understanding as he has a girlfriend of his own, and we do nothing that he doesn't know ...

Why are my periods so out of whack? Am I pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5878 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - ok, i am starting to be really confused and this story is getting longer and longer. my husband and i have been married for 5 years....2 children. our youngest is 2.5yrs old. any way...aug.4th/08 i had a regular period that lasted 6-7 days...f...

How long after taking the last pill does your period come?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I recently started taking the contraceptive pill last month and have finished my 21 pills. I was wondering how long after taking the last pill does your period come? Thankyou ...

I'm 2 days late! Should I worry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I'm 14 my boyfriend and I had protected sex almost a month ago now I'm supposed to be on my period but I'm 2 days late and really worried I know it sounds bad and yes my parents are very religious...I have been with him for more then a year and it ...

Can I get pregnant by doing this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - ok, so my boyfriend and i still havent had sex, and we have been together for a year and six months. well, we now have made some moves. like dry humping. i keep my pants on (which are sweats) and he pulls out his dick, so he can feel it b...

I'm pregnant and my situation with the father is driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I recently came across this site and found reading other people's similar stories really helped and made me want to get views on my situation. I am 21 years old and was with a manipulative man for 5 years (since i was 16), the re...

He told me he did not love me anymore and I am heartbroken.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I was married for 10 years and have 3 boys. I left my husband a year and a half ago and the boys too. I met my boyfriend a few weeks before I left my husband. Our marriage was already over long before this. It was instant attraction. I was falling ...

Could I be pregnant without having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Ok im probably just being paranoid but im startin to worry a little bit. me and my bf were messin around a few nights ago and i gave him a handjob then he was rubbing my clit later (thru some really skimpy knickers). if he had some spunk residue on ...

I have all the symptoms.... Am I or am I not???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I have not gotten my period in about 4/5months. I haven taken a test yet but I'm not sure if I am pregnant, my period was always quite irregular but I have never gone this long without my period in a long time. I have been getting back pains and I ...

Can the test be wrong because it was taken early?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hi, how are you all hope to be fine , Well today I did blood prganancy test and it was a negative result, my next period will be after 8 day but I feel the same symptoms of pregnancy Can the test be wrong because it is earlly (8 day after concep...

She says she's showing signs of a pregnancy and is threatening to sue me for child support! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - I thought I had feelings for a girl but I realized that I didn't after we got naughty in the car. However she was telling me that she was on birth control and that I shouldn't have to worry about it. I didn't ejaculate at all during intercourse and ...

Is there a pill that induces abortion? My period is usually heavy at first, but now is very light. What could be causing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I know that you can still be pregnant while on your period, but I was wondering if it could be something else because my period is very light which is weird cause its usually heavy at first. I was wondering if it could be the way Im eating, ...

Is it true that having sex in the early weeks of a pregnancy can increase the risk of miscarriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I've posted on here previously about having had a couple of miscarriages this year. I was speaking with a friend recently who happens to be pregnant - she's had a couple of he incidents with bleeding although so far everything seems fine thank ...

We were experimenting... could she be pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Hi, me and by girlfriend were experimenting the other day. She was wearing shorts and her pants and I had my penis our rubbing against her (on top of her shorts). I didn't cum, and there was hardly any pre-ejaculation cum (was practically dry). ...

He slept with her during our break up to get back at me (I had cheated), now she's pregnant, how do I cope and move on with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5882 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Ok. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 40. We have been together for 3 years now. Recently we broke up because he was pushing me away and I ended up sleeping with someone. No excuse I know. Anyways. We broke up and he was introduced to this girl who is 2 ...

My boyfriend is allergic to condoms and our sex life is somewhat confusing to me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend dont use condoms but are very careful on what we do. he doesnt use them as he is alleric to the lube on them. the thing is, we could be haveing sex, and all of a sudden he would stop, and then about 30 seconds later, he ...

My married lover suggested to abort our child. Does he love me as he says?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend of 4 yrs. He said he loves me very much n he is absolutely jealous over me that even my girl friends are a threat 2 him. I told him last night that I'm pregnant for three months and he suggested that i should abort. Does ...

Underage sex with someone who is under aged too and I could be pregnant. Please HELP!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - My next door neighbor is 14 years old and he and I have been dating for about 6 months. He used to just finger me but, a month ago I lost my virginity to him. We have sex early everyday cos both our parents aren't home when we get home from school, ...

Why do I feel the need to be a mother at only 17? I'm aware of all implications of teenage pregnancy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Since I was a little girl i've been very motherly, I take care of everbody and I developed my period among other things quite early (10 ish) My dilemma is that lately I have been wanting to get pregnant. I'm aware this isn't normal considering i'm ...

I don't want to have sex for a while, but he gets angry and says I don't love him!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months and were so in love with each other. im 14 and he is 15. Now dont judge me or think im a slut cause i really didnt mean to or want to do it. But we had sex and i almost got pregnant. My mom found ou...