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writes:me and my boyfriend dont use condoms but are very careful on what we do. he doesnt use them as he is alleric to the lube on them. the thing is, we could be haveing sex, and all of a sudden he would stop, and then about 30 seconds later, he continues, what does this mean.
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reader, DieRomantic  +, writes (18 October 2008):
 Yea its so he can go longer. it gives him time to calm himself down a bit before he goes again so he will last much longer than if he just kept going. Be safe. Good Luck. Much Love.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (18 October 2008):
My guess is he stops because and withdraws from you because he is about to cum- and the cum is what can get you pregant. However, despite this, there is such a thing as 'pre cum' which comes out from the penis before he actually cums. And this too can get you pregnant. So it is not safe this form of contraception. Are you on the pill? If not, I suggest you look at taking it, or some other form of contraception.
Also realise that there is the risk of either of you catching STD's if either of you have had sexual contact with someone else previously, since you are not using a condom. So you might want to go to your doctor and get an STD test.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): He stops because he's trying to prolong the sex so he won't come as soon. You say you are "very careful"..I hope that means you are using some other type of protection? If not, you're playing a very dangerous game. Withdrawal is NEVER a good birth control option. There are natural condoms with no lubricant, have you ever tried them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit doesn't bother me at all, i just get a little scared when he does it as in im not sure why he is doing it
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit doesn't bother me at all, i just get a little scared when he does it as in im not sure why he is doing it
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo should I stop asking what he is doing??
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reader, thunderchild +, writes (18 October 2008):
 The good old withdrawl method, doesnt work well though, he'll pause, so that he doesn't cum, essentially... There are other methods of contaception, the pill is a good one, if you remember to take it, I'm awful at remembering, but you have to use something...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): I hope you are using some other form of contraceptives? If not, then I suggest you have a read of this website http://www.bbc.co.uk/switch/surgery/advice/sex_relationships/sex/contraception/ which will give you further information. I'm not sure why he stops - maybe it's so he can last a little longer. You're intimate enough to be having sex, so why not ask him?
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