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writes:Umm.. heres my situation.My ex and I had sex last week... WE were really dumb and didn't use a condom. So I think he came in me... he even told me he might have.. plus I saw some on my underwear when I got home. I'm not on Birth control either. So here's my questions1. What are the chances of me getting pregnant2. How long should i wait until i check3. Iis the doctors more accurate than the at home test? 4. My ex wants me to get an abortion (don't have the money, plus wouldn't do it)5. Are there programs for mothers to help support them?Thanks,Worried
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): the chances are 50/50
*wait till after your period is due and if it doesnt come after 2 days then bye a test, if you are really worried you can buy a test that can tell if you are before your period but these are expensive.
*doctors are no better than shop bought ones as they are the same its just free to get it done there so will save you money
* as for the ex wanting an abortion just remember its you who maybe carrying the child and probably you who will be looking after it so its your choice at the end of the day and your ex should support you no matter what you decide remenmber it takes 2 to tango hope this helps good luck.i was in the same boat as you and turned out to be pregnant i kept the child and dont regret it one bit and the father has nothing to do with the child so it is possible to do it alone
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (29 October 2008):
 ok not sure about your country an its clinics but ill give it a shot..yes its a high risk your pregnant, go to doctors more reliable than home testing..next ok you dont want an abortion im neither for or against but do you realise what having a kid is all about if you have a child so young your giving up the next 20 years of your life for them also it will be hard you have to think is this really what i want ? how are you going to cope with money? how about your family ? the reason abortion is about is to give those a second chance and to also help with people who have abnormalities that are deformed and what not to be removed mnay reason.. in the end your going to have a long hard think about all of this.. is this really what you want ? if it is then tell your mother she will be able to help you through all of this.. also at the doctors their should be some leaflets perhaps for you to call a help line about this.. good luck with your choice and your long road ahead aphexy xx
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