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writes:Im in love, and i have a boyfriend, Im in love with my boyfriends best mate, and i think he likes me 2!! im paranoid my boyfriend is going to cheat on me, is that just because i know how i feel for his friend? and to top it all off i think im pregnant with my boyfriends child, im taking a test on wednesday, but im 99% sure i am. anyway, what am i doing? why cant it be simple? why cant i love my boyfriend like i love his friend? if im pregnant, do i stay with my boyfriend, or burden his friend with a child? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Alright, you seem to be in a situation with no easy resolution. Your options:
1. Stay in the relationship with your boyfriend and the father of your child. You may not love him, but he has a vested interest (hopefully) in raising your child. If you do this, you have to give up thoughts of your boyfriend's mate and try to rekindle what you had with your boyfriend in the first place.
2. Dump your boyfriend and try to hook up with his mate. Someone who may or may not have an interest in you. You run the risk of him valuing his friendship with your current boyfriend more than the possibility of hooking up with you.
I'd try to give #1 an earnest shot.
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