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writes:I thought I had feelings for a girl but I realized that I didn't after we got naughty in the car. However she was telling me that she was on birth control and that I shouldn't have to worry about it. I didn't ejaculate at all during intercourse and I know for the fact that she didn't orgasm because we went at it for 2-3 minutes before we had to stop.After telling her that I don't have feelings for her and that I would prefer to not have anymore sex but to try and get to know each other better she attacks me by saying that her period has stopped since I ended up doing it during her period. She was saying that she was pregnant and the doctors are telling her that she is pregnant and what not. Note: She said she was on the Nuva Ring, after doing research on it before hand I thought it would be safe enough.At the moment she is going for a test to see if she was pregnant however it has been less then 48 hours since intercourse and she is saying she is showing signs of it. The problem is though that I can't physically support a child right now and she is threatening to sue me for child support and have me sent off to jail if I don't help her. And since I don't make enough money I can't help her out, she live some distance away from me so I can't go over there to her and help her out either. I am unsure on what to do but I know now that I harbor no feelings for her and that I was an idiot for thinking I did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): What is the update on this? SOunds like she was hurt that you ditched her and tried to trap you by saying she was pregnant to see if you would get back with her...
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (20 October 2008):
 She will not be showing signs of pregnancy this early, seems to me you had sex with a very insecure girl the fact she is saying this after you told her you did want to be with her.
This is one of those reasons why you should always practice safe sex (remeber people lie about being on birth control)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2008): Too me it sounds like you used her, got what you wanted and ditched her. It sounds like revenge to be totally honest with you, she doesn't sound like a psycho she sounds very hurt, and to be totally honest with you I don't blame her. I doubt whether she's pregnant, as the others said. Be a man, go apologize to her and get to the botom of this whole thing.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (20 October 2008):
If it's within 72 hours then she can still get the morning after pill with prevents pregnancy.There is no way she can be pregnant now, let alone showing signs.She's just very hurt that you led her on and then dumped her as soon as you got sex. You should really apologise to her about that as it was not very nice.Good Luck!! xx
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reader, accused +, writes (20 October 2008):
 If I am reading your question correctly you said;
"At the moment she is going for a test to see if she was pregnant however it has been less then 48 hours since intercourse and she is saying she is showing signs of it".
and if I am reading this right, then there is NO WAY she could be having signs of pregnancy right now. On top of that no TEST will show she is pregnent at 48hrs. Lets get serious here, her own body probally doesn't know... Before you start to pay anything out or stress yourself to no end, find out these amazing 48hr test results and if for reson she says she is preg, ask to see the paper she gets from the doctor. Also make sure to let her know that ** IF*** she is preg, you want a paternity test when the baby gets here. Do not sign anything either.
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reader, Passthrough +, writes (20 October 2008):
 Sounds like you found yourself a psycho, honestly. if she SAID she was on birth control, you KNOW you didnt ejaculate, and it HAS been less than 48 hours, it sounds to me like there is an EXTREMELY small chance she is actually preggers.
The notion that she is threatening you regarding a baby she cant even know exists yet, well, thats just sad if it's a farce.
Really seems a bit BS... If she wants to play hardball, tell her you're infertile. You physically cant have children, ever. And she might want to get tested for gonorrhea :-D See if you can scare her off, it seems to be her tactic to scare you in (assuming my belief that she is not pregnant).
But then, if she IS pregnant with your love child, well, it is your responsability. If you really interject, you do have a case saying you stopped sex before you 'finished', she told you she was on birth control, and she was threatening you... Maybe you can come to an agreement on either having the child in a for-show relationship, or having an aboriotn (You shouldnt raise a child in an unloving household, including an orphanage), giving the child up after birth, or based on the actions of the girl, have legal action interject and say you were 'set up', and legally then it's her problem.
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