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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

She's happy I'm heartbroken, is this just a rumour or true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Recently one of my good friends told me that a girl who is currently in a relationship with someone else is happy that I am heartbroken because of her. She is a very close and good friend of mine. In the past, she helped me out a lot in a lot of ...

We were all set to meet up and then he goes on a date with another girl, and now only wants to be friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Ok so I have joined a dating site, i got talking to a guy on it and we really seemed to have a lot in common, we swapped numbers and were texting the whole time. he lives an hour away and doesnt have a car so we were dying to meet eachother but we ...

I am suffocating in this marriage. Is my emotional affair with this other man the answer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I will try to make my story as brief as possible. But please read and share your views. I have been married for a few years to the man of my own choice and am without kids due to many reasons. My in-laws are very interefering and they have mess...

I'm in a long-distance relationship, but I have a crush on a good friend of mine. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I am in a long distance relationship with a guy (J) I met online. We have been dating for a year and a half and I have known him for around 3+ years. We have made plans to meet early next year and we are both very busy working tow...

He has a fiance, 4 kids and wants to sleep with me. Is it wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - I met a guy online 3 months ago. I found out three weeks after we met, through FaceBook, that he has a "fiance," four kids and she's pregnant again. When I confronted him about it, he didn't deny it, however never speaks on it. And demands I don't ...

"x's" on texts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

25 February 2011 (M) - Ok. heres the deal... i met this girl on a dating site and she gave me her number. we've been texting since yesterday morning pretty much all day and towards the end of the day she put a "x" at the end which carried on at the end of each text this ...

My online friend told me he's not ready to meet me. That's fine, but why is he ignoring my messages and phone calls now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I've known a guy now for many years over the internet, constantly talking and everything. We arranged to meet, but he pulled out at the last miniute, as he said, "he can't do this; he's not ready." In return, I sent numerous messages telling him not ...

Should I send him a message apologizing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I joined a dating website a couple of months ago. There is a feature where you can see who's checking you out, and I noticed that this one guy kept showing up. I found him really interesting and attractive, so I messaged him. He was really sweet, ...

My boyfriend's signed up to dating sites - please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. A year in, I found he was signed up to a dating-type website, confronted him and he said it was to look at pictures while masturbating. He understood why it upset me and he stopped doing it. A few times si...

Boyfriend of two years breaks up with me, saying he only sees me as a friend now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - So me and my boyfriend of two years couldn't get alone better. We have so much in common and being together is when we were at our happiest. Now, this was online dating but we had been good friends before he asked me. He lives about two hours away, ...

Am I asking for trouble if I sent naked photos of myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - okay, so recently i had a girl i know ask me to send her pictures of myself naked. i do have a great body and am not shy but refrained as i am not interested in her and dont want to give her the wrong impression. that being said i now have an urge ...

I sense there is something more behind his behavior....maybe he's emotionally cheating on his gf? Or am I being paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I recently connected with an old male school friend on Facebook. I saw no harm in it. Other female classmates have befriended him on Facebook. In addition, I have befriended other male schoolmates on facebook. When I chat with male classmates,...

Far away flowers on V-Day, does it mean anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I met this guy on a dating website almost a year now. We're talking as friends, nothing serious. He sent me flowers on Valentine's Day although we live in two different continents. Does this mean anything? I really like him, but I'm just worried to ...

I caught my boyfriend cheating on me by the fake profile that I created. Where do I go from here?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I have recently found out that my boyfriend has been cheating on me having cyber sex on skype with random girls on the internet. I did this by creating a fake facebook and pretending to be another girl. I know that this is wrong, but I was already ...

I lied about my photo and don't understand the guy's response

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I've recently been talking to this guy and I lied to him about my picture. I finally came clean and and he said to me "I'm disappointed in you, but I don't know if I can be." what exactly does that mean? ...

What will I say? He wants to know more. But I lied about me on the dating site profile

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hey all. I have been chatting to this guy I met on an internet dating website. my profile was set up as a joke so i had no problem checking it out as it had nothing properly on it about me so being nice i tried to tell some quiet shy boys that they ...

I love my chat BF but maybe he doesn't feel the same. What would be some solutions to improve things?

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19 February 2011 (F) - hi i really like this boy and we was talkin on chatsites and things and he acted like he realy liked me i have known him years and he and i are so close well untill recently he has started to ignore me i cant deal with it i love him so much he ...

He 's active on a dating site..does this count as cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a month. In general everything has been pretty good. From our first date on, things have just been pretty serious. Our dates tend to be all day affairs, we see each other 3-5 times a week, we talk on the phone and ...

How much 'space' and time should I give him? Or has he just said we might get back, to soften the bad news?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - About a month ago I started to get to know a guy from my class in college a little better. We first started talking online, and then he offered for me to sit with him in class, so I did. After that we started talking more online - in fact, he hardly ...

Things were going good and flirty then he just stopped messaging me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I've been chatting to this guy for a good few months now and we chatted every day and the past month and a half it got a little flirty and he kept talking about hopefully finding a "lovely girl" and then winking and hinting it was me. Then on Monday ...

I think I have fallen and don't want to go any deeper

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I met a man on a website...I wasn't expecting much from it but now my heart is in it. We have been chatting on and off for about 6 weeks now. He does text me as well but lately it has gotten less. It was supposed to be fun, but I got a bit shy when ...

Is it possible to break up because of distance and get back together after several years?

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18 February 2011 (F) - i met my bf online and we fell in love. but we live on opposite ends of the country, and we're going to stay physically apart for another 4-5 years definitely. so even tho we still love each other, we decided to break up on good terms because at ...

I feel SO strongly about him, but he has a girlfriend! I don't want to be hurt. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - There's this guy that I've been knowing for about 3 yrs now and I'm truly truly truly n love with him but he has a gf. Now let me tell how it all started. We met almost 3 yrs ago online and we were pretty much inseparable from that day. I reme...

Why wont he commit to me when he still wants to spend time with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - hi I have mate a guy abck in sept on a dating site and we have been going on dates ever since we got eacher christmas presents. I have tried to talk to him about were we are going and commitent but he wont talk about it just say I should be happy to ...

I want to leave my husband, not for this other man, but to get out of a miserable marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I have been married for 8 years to a sweet and sensitive man. As with any relationship, we have had our ups and downs. We have a 5 month old son and I love my boy more than anything and he comes first in my decision. About 4 years ago we started h...

I need some internet dating tips!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - how can you tell if a man on the internet is interested in you . have talk to several men on the internet . an i am new at this so how do you go about if a man is interested in you without asking . i have found the few that i have talk to i can not ...

I warned him before I deleted him, and now he's mad at me! Can someone please explain this??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Hi, First, a little background: My ex and I went out for a few months a year and a half ago. I broke it off because he said he was falling in love with me and at the time I didn't feel the same way. Anyway, we ended up becoming friends and a co...

Should I be worried about these message-alerts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Question? Does "zoosk website" send message alert to random people or subscribers only? I found "zoosk" a couple different occasions on my boyfriend email box? Should I worry? Just wondering?... Thank you. ...

He is back on the dating site, where we met, and he won't add me on Facebook. Is he taking me for a fool, or am I reading too much into this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Help needed please, I'm going insane here - been seeing this guy for 6 months he lives an hour away from me and works afternoon shifts so I only see him once a week - sometimes twice, he texts nearly every day, says he is very comfy and happy with ...

My boyfriend fell for the the fake profile that I created on a social networking site, to test him . What do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I made a fake profile today on a social network and decided to add my boyfriend and see what he would do. Before him, I was in a really bad relationship full of lying and cheating, so I guess you can say I've become bitter and distrusting. I know he ...

Is this considered betrayal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 February 2011 (F) - I'd been talking to this guy online for awhile now. Nothing serious, but we did initially plan to meet up over the summer. We clicked pretty quickly and we were talking pretty regularly for awhile as friends when I decided to actually meet him, ...

He's my friend on facebook, but how do I make him a friend (or more) in real life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - So, it's been 6 months since my ex and I broke up after being together for two years. And while I have met and hung out with some guys, none of them have really stood out to me. Well, I know this sounds ridiculous, but there is a guy who works at...

I think my online girl is cheating on me--her stories don't add up!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

12 February 2011 (M) - I think my girlfriend is possibly cheating on me. I am really confused....she really seems sincere, tells me she loves me all the time, but certain behavioral patterns really bother me. Though our relationship for now is strictly online (thats how ...

Real life or online boyfriend??? Who do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - i need help iv been texting this boy for about eight months now but we have never met as we met online. due to this i met a boy on a night out about two months ago and have been meeting up and going on dates with him. he now wants to go into a ...

Too old to fall in love in 3 days? Can this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - My situation is that I'm a 64 yr old female,on a dating site online, one of the free ones, I'm a newbie at the dating site, and on my first week I made a connection with a man. He didn't want to email because he said he only could type with one ...

I found out my partner has HIV. What can I do? Please help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I’m a single mum of 2. I met this partner online and he sounded like a good guy on the phone. 2 months into emails and phone calls we decided to meet. By the way, it’s a long distance relationship. He separated from his wife 2 years ago and they ...

What do you think of this internet relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - so. i've been in an online relationship with a girl. for a year and a half. i was looking for a gf online because i was in a car accident and couldn't leave the house enough to really look for anyone. and it was easy...so i just kept talking to her ...

Is my LDR playing games? Should I let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Need some help regarding a long distance situation. Long story short and il try explain it as detailed but as short as possible so you get an understanding of the situation. ok i met a girl ONLINE one year ago, she is not a complete stranger, she is ...

Is it dangerous to go meet a guy youve known online? HELP?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - So Im 18 and hes 21 he lives in washington and Ive been talking to him for around a year...I was thinking of going over to him in the summer! He wants a relationship with me would it be unsafe to live with him? Ive seen his facebook and all...

Marriage, communication and relationships...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - hello i dnt know where to start about my question but maybe i will start my story n the beginning im 3 years marriage and have 2 kids i met my husband thru online long distance relationship, b4 i met my husband he was broken hearted coz his fiance ...

My online guy thought the bad in photo was mine but its not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - afraid to loss my online friend. this is what happen to me today i make my facebook profile pic, me kissing my little sweet niece...and this online guy asked me why i didn't told him before that i have a baby and lied to him that cuz i don't wa...

Should I tell my internet lover's husband about us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - Ok to try to make this as short as possible i met someone on myspace had a internet relationship with her fell in love with her and now i found out that not only is she a total fake but she is married. Right now i am debating on whether to tell her ...

I'm afraid I may be just a rebound for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - I started dating a guy that I met online a month ago, and I'm worried that I might just be a rebound for him. He was in a on-again-off-again relationship with a horrible guy for 3 years, and finally ended it only a few days before he messaged me and ...

Why can't I get this guy who lives in another country out of my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - I started talking to this 21 year old guy from washington a year ago online, Im 18 and I just feel like hes the only one for me, whenever I go out here I just wish I was with him, he asked me to go over before, but it just seems so risky? should i ...

What went wrong between us? Why does he act this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - So I met this really sweet funny guy a couple of months ago and at first we never talked to each other but we were facebook friends since we were a part of the same organization at our university and i always thought he was a really nice guy. I...

Can't stop thinking of boyfriend's past!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Before I start, I'm going to give a little information that you may want to know. I'm 19, female and have a boyfriend whose age 25. (Age isn't the issue, ignore the age difference). We are online dating and have been with each other for 1 year and...

He didnt talk to me for a month - what does he want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - i had been talking to this guy for a little over a month. we had many things in common and so just got along so great, until he went out of town for holiday and disappeared. I decided to move on, but then 1 month after he disappeared, he text me ...

Wondering if I'm just a booty call to him. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

4 February 2011 (F) - Ok so I am 36 met this guy online about 4 months ago.. we hit it off dated for a month or 2 before we took the relationship to a physical place. The problem is, now that is kind of ALL it is. He is in the he middle of a divorce (legally separated) ...

I thought it was going well but then he got a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

4 February 2011 (F) - Well i dont know where to start, its kind of complicated and now im really confused :/ soo pleasee any advice would be greatt. So basically i met this guy on fb hes 20 and im 16 (i know big gap =S) i tried talking to him, but he didnt seem very ...

My online lover said if I took the job that would be the end of us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

4 February 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts, So here's the story: I met this guy online a year ago and it started off with a friendship. He was a bit loner and so opened up to me when we first met. He talked about his bad childhood, his life, and even his dreams about meeting...