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male
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41-50,
*lueless1976
writes:Ok to try to make this as short as possible i met someone on myspace had a internet relationship with her fell in love with her and now i found out that not only is she a total fake but she is married. Right now i am debating on whether to tell her husband. I know his email address and phone number. She is telling me that she has already told him that she wanted out, but i dont know if i believe her. Sher tells me that she just doesnt want me "to not hurt her kids" because if i tell her husband it will hurt her kids what should I do?
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (9 February 2011):
 The words that you use to describe her indicate that you have lost all respect for her and that the relationship is over. In what way will you be happier if she suffers more? Some times when we are miserable we lash out in an attempt to make everyone around us miserable. Making her husband and children miserable will not make you less miserable. She is already doing a fine job of messing up her life all by herself. You don't need to worry about payback, she is setting herself up for plenty.
Try to let it go, and focus on your own healing. A good start will be shutting off all contact with her and her family.
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