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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

I don't feel as if my relationship with him is moving on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - A couple of months ago I met a guy on the internet. We texed for a few days and then met for a drink. In person I found him physically attractive but he seemed a bit shy. After the date he carried on texting every day (hes funnier in his texts) and ...

Is this girl just playing games, and a liar?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - This is a bit of a story, but please bear with me. I guess i probably know the answer anyway, but typing it out might be theraputic in itself. 4 weeeks ago I started chatting to a girl online, she approached me first. We chatted and really hit it ...

I wonder why he's not interested after having sex with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I was really confused , I meet a guy in dating site its kinda adulthsite for casual sex. This guy is interested to get to know me persona, we share a lot of things through chatting ,I know his past relation were share things over the internet and ...

Just my type

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Mod Note: Poster's Original Title Is it possible to attain an online love without planning to meet them in real life? I'd be willing to share pictures(I'm a little short but not unattractive) and have things to discuss that sort of thing I'm also...

I've fallen for my online BFF, should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - So I met this girl online and she doesn't live to terribly far from me, a few hours. We've been talking for literally about a year and a half. I really like her, and I get the feeling she feels the same. However, she is a really good friend, one of ...

Why has he removed his relationship status?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title: Hi, I've been seeing a guy for a while and we're not yet offical due to the distance in the summer and both of not in the same city until september comes again. He seemed to be really into me, and his ex then popped out of nowhere, ...

How do I know if my online guy feels the same way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Well, I have been speaking to this guy online. I am from England and he is from Germany... and I really like him. We have been speaking for quite a while and we talk quite a lot but I don't know if he likes me like the way I like him... I don't know ...

I'm Gay and needs some help with this guy I am seeing 22 and 20 online just started chatting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - OP's own title: I am usually giving advice and not taking it. but in this case i am willing to listen. I would like to hear from gay guys like myself. Where to start, ok a few days ago I met a guy on an online dating site and he was in washin...

I enjoy sexting him but how do I let him know I do need to meet him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Three weeks ago a guy who lives a few hours away from me and I really hit it off. We text back and forth daily after we each get home from work, and I enjoy his conversations. He lives just a few hours away, he's got a good job (police officer), ...

Is my online guy giving me the bum's rush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Arrrrrggghhh!! I have been having an internet relationship for months. I am 28 and he's 41!! We speak everyday about everyday things...how we're getting on at work etc.... Recently, I have been being a bit of a bitch to him!! I dont know why...ma...

Online guy not sure about marriage in the future. Should I continue to see him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 4 months now. We met on a dating webiste. We have both been married and divorced. His divorce was really bad. We are both scared but both have feelings for each other. He has recently told me he does not want to ...

Where and how should I meet up with the older man I'm falling for?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hi. I'm a 17 year old girl from the uk. I have been online dating since o was 16 because I felt like no one who actually knew me would ever want to get with me. I lost my virginity at 15 to a boy who was 19 and I haven't had sex since. About ...

I feel like my photos are TOO good, and end up feeling self-conscious when attractive guys talk to me on my online dating profile. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Four months after leaving my ex for cheating on me, I decided I'd go ahead and sign up with eHarmony, or try the online dating thing. There are several guys whom I've hit it off with, in addition to 3-5 requests for communication each week, many of ...

Is it love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, I'm hoping someone can shed some light on my current issue. A friend of mine (we'll call him person A) met this person over the internet. They fell in love, and I (person B) was supportive of my friend as I was told of this person he ...

All I want is to meet somebody! Will I be alone forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - I'm 30 years old and a single father. I've been single for four years now. I'm not good looking - some might say I'm ugly and although I'm not fat I don't have a great body. My ex cheated on me then walked out on me and my kids for another man. ...

Is it normal for him to spill his guts like this on a first date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - ok here is the scenario... I met a man online through a dating site and we went to have lunch the first date then bowling the next. On the second date the man spilled his guts to me about his past issues and said he hasn't told anyone about this ...

Does this "it" that so many of these guys seem to be talking about really exist?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - I’m feeling ready to give up on on-line dating as I’m finding the whole experience an emotional rollercoaster. After I split from my ex-boyfriend just before Christmas, I decided to give on-line dating a go for the first time using the most p...

Girlfriend think I'm looking at other women but I think she's misinterpreting my thoughts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

23 July 2010 (M) - I came to the US from England to be with my girlfriend who I met online, previously we had spent a great 10 days together and decided we would like to spend more time. With Visa restrictions I was able to come for 90 days which is where we are now. ...

He puts my friend before me am I just being paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - I met this guy online (called Greg) and we talk almost everyday. We use to be really and play lots of games together on ps3. I was sick for a week and I was offline for that week and in the meantime my friend befriended another girl. Now he only ...

What does he really want?What is he in real?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - Hi! I have never met this guy in real but have known him only virtually.He befriended me two years ago and we had great platonic friendship initially.He has real in-depth spiritual knowledge and has taught me a lot.Then one fine day after a year he ...

Good conversation starters for facebook?

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22 July 2010 (M) - Heyy, Everybody..... Just wondering....DO you know any good conversation starters when talking online such as myspace, facebook, chat,etc....i like to talk alot but dont know how to start it....so whats the best conversation starters online.....

How can I emotionally distance myself from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

21 July 2010 (M) - About a year and a half ago I started talking to someone online, and she quickly became my best friend and for about a year now, we have been roommates. The problem is that even before we moved in together, I have been in love with her. She k...

Is it an affair if it's an LDR with a married man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) - Is it called an illicit affair if you are involved in a long distance relationship with a married man? I never met him but our relationship of 3 yrs are through online chats only. ...

Should I make contact with a friend of a friend I saw on Facebook? Or is it weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) - [OP original title] Hi, this sounds very stupid but... My friend lives 200 miles away, and i just went to visit him. Jokingly, i said "Know any hot guys?" he jokingly showed me some of his facebook friends. One was totally gorgeous! Just my ty...

We're seeing one another but he still logs on to the dating website.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I have met a guy on a dating website who I really like. We get on really well, and he seems very smitten with me. We have loads in common, and he treats me like a princess, pays for everything (even when I offer to pay), etc. All fine so far, but ...

"I don't understand"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - "OP Own Title" I was talking with a man online and getting to know him for about a year. I then found out that he never told anyone about me but claimed to do so with me. What does this mean? [Mod note- changed a word for clarity]...

He wants to meet but I'm nervous about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Hey! So I met this guy online a few weeks ago in a chat room. We've been talking non-stop through text and skype. We added each other on facebook and he has a lot of friends so he looks pretty legit. He wants to meet up when he comes back from ...

What is Cybersex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - everyone talks about cybersex...what does it do...whats the point...how do you do it...can anyone please help me i really need it please. thanks...

We don't have the same libido

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

19 July 2010 (M) - I have been in my current relationship with a slightly older woman, she is 36 and im 29, for about 7 months now. We hadnt met before last week as it has been an internet romance. None of this, I believe, has any relevence to my conundrum, having ...

After I deleted his facebook post he won't talk to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

18 July 2010 (F) - I met a guy about a month ago at a club in my hometown and we really hit it off. I liked him, but he was way more into me than I was into him. Since he lives about 6 hours away, we would mostly text/im each other. He came down again to my hometown ...

Help! Is there a chance for us to be together again? Does she still have any feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5271 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - I met this girl online and we went out and we got very close, we would text all day every day, talk for hours every night, and I made her my gf. We did tell each other "I love you." We are no longer together because she started talking to another ...

How can I know if a guy is a shallow player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - How can I know if a guy is a shallow player? I met a guy on Facebook, and he seems really nice, we have lots in common, etc. However, my ex (he's been kind of stalking me anyway) warned me that this guy may be a player. He said he noticed that this ...

Why did she dump me on Facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - Okay, okay. Seems that my 4 month rocky relationship ended. Although, how is a lil surprising, and schocking to me. First of all, I am not a fan of texting, and that was our means of communicating. facebook, is also a detriment to the relationship. ...

I have to choose between my parents and my online boyfriend!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Well, the situation is really complicated. I met this guy online 7 months ago and we started talking. He was a nice guy and we fell for each other and start a relationship. He lives a world apart, but we keep in touch by phone calls a...

Why didn't she tell me about her date???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

16 July 2010 (?) - My friend met a guy online and she went out on a date with him. I didn't know until she told me about it. The last time she went out with a guy, she called me and I helped her decide what to wear and how to do her hair. This time she didn't tell me ...

How can you be too busy for someone you care so deeply about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - I met this guy "greg" online about two and a half weeks ago. We met the second day we talked and went out three nights in a row. He lives 3 and a half hours away at school but was raised where I live at. He comes home in march. We really hit it off ...

Why does he take a long time to reply to my emails?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - I was dating a guy 8 years ago.One day a common friend told me that he graduated from graduate school.So, I wrote him an email to his job account saying congratulations for your graduation, what do you plan to do now. It took him a week to reply and ...

Dating site guy coming on too strong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - i signed up on a dating site... this guy emailed me.. we've talked and he seems nice so far.. he thinks am gorgeous and hes smitten.. he emailed me this: him: can i be straight to the point i would love to have a long term relation...

LDR things are getting weird and I'm not sure where to go with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - so i met this really cute guy on a dating site and he came to where i live, which is like 2 hrs away from where he lives, 2 days after we started talking. the first date went great. we kept talking constantly sometimes until about 4 o clock in the ...

I don't know how our relationship can succeed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - I'm with a guy that i known for a year and some months. When ever we aren't talking through webcamming (because he lives in another state, 10 years older than me, and we neva met physically except through the internet and webcam)I feel like our ...

Can this be real?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - I have been in contact with a friend from face book. We hadn't been in touch for nearly 20 years but I looked him up and we got chatting. It has been nearly 2 months since we've gotten in contact and we have moved onto text messages and phone calls ...

I'm scared to meet him because of how I look...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend online for like seven months or so, but hes meeting me this summer... sad fact is i have a beautiful face but my body isn't im fat, small boobs (but he likes butts) and im kinda scared to meet him. But I've said i ...

I'm in an amazing online relationship, only she doesn't know this one thing about me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - Hi. I'm a 23 year old guy in a situation causing me lots of stress. I really hope you can help me. I'm in an online relationship with an amazing girlfriend. We love each other so much. We've had our ups and downs but we're still together, and ou...

Worried about meeting my online love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

11 July 2010 (F) - Hello, My older sister reccommended this site to me because I'm having difficulty deciding what I should do. I am 20 years old and the guy I am online dating is 19. We met on an internet chat room about 6 months ago. We talk online daily, have ...

Facebook: What does it really mean?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

11 July 2010 (F) - Nothing! Several situations can be mistaken to mean something more, when they truly don't carry much significance. For example: The friend you've been crushing on for the last six months accepts your third attempt at a friend request, and...

What has changed with online dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

10 July 2010 (M) - Besides becoming more popular, has online dating changed somehow over the last 3 years? I've done the online dating thing on and off for a few years and if I was interested in my dates had about a 25% success ratio, meaning multiple dates, ...

How can we make her parents understand our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5279 days ago

9 July 2010 (M) - I've been dating my current girlfriend for almost 4 months. The relationship has gone very well so far despite the fact that its strictly long distance. We met online, and since then we've only talked by email and on the site we met. We have ...

What other options do I have re the dating scene?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

8 July 2010 (M) - Last year I broke up with my partner of 10 years. This year, I felt ready to date again. I already have lots of hobbies and not really time for any new ones (or actually any interests I don't already follow). Unfortunately they don't seem to ...

How can I reinforce in her mind that she's the only woman for me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

8 July 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I met on eHarmony almost a year, and it has been amazing! I feel like we were made for each other. We've called each other soulmates. I proposed to her on April 24th, 8 months after our first date. I found out today that she i...

Should I not meet him in person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5281 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - I got to know a guy who's from Germany on a website for people to practise languages they're learning more than one year and a half.When I got to know him,he was quite busy cos of graduation,but we often had good chats with each other.Later on,I had ...