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female
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30-35,
*pendy
writes:i signed up on a dating site...this guy emailed me.. we've talked and he seems nice so far..he thinks am gorgeous and hes smitten..he emailed me this:him: can i be straight to the pointi would love to have a long term relationship with youand only you with just youi do hope you will 1 day feel the same if so i sure we can work it...ha ha haha.. wow...ur coming a bit too strong dnt you think??what up with this guy?? or am I overreacting??thnx...x Reply to this Question
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reader, Aida  +, writes (16 July 2010):
 seems a bit desperate. it would put me off as well.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (15 July 2010):
 Usually when someone says something like that, they're trying to manipulate you into trusting them. Just be careful.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (15 July 2010):
 yep thats coming on way too strong. let him know that, it will help him and you'd be honest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010): I have been doing online dating as well, and I would see this as a red flag. How could he have those feeligns when he does not know you. I would proceed with caution and listen to your gut on this one.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (15 July 2010):
 If that is what he said jsut after a few chats/IM/E-mails... then, Yes, he sounds like he is either a TAD desperate or he is a player (who isn't good at "playing" )
It would definently make me back away.
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