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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Three weeks ago a guy who lives a few hours away from me and I really hit it off. We text back and forth daily after we each get home from work, and I enjoy his conversations. He lives just a few hours away, he's got a good job (police officer), he's only 3 years older than me, and we have interesting conversations, including serious, funny, and sexual. I enjoy "sexting" with him, if you want to call it that, telling eachother what's on our minds, what we want, and what we wish we could do to eachother that very moment. That said, I don't want to just have a texting buddy in a "relationship" that goes nowhere; I want to actually MEET the guy and see just how compatible we are, and the sooner the better. The only thing I've done so far is when he asked for a dirty pic, I explained that I couldn't do that, and that he could only see the goods "in person." and he was cool with that and hasn't asked me about it since. And on another occasion, in a picture I sent him he said I looked innocent, so I said, "why don't you come up here [to my town] and let me prove you wrong? lol."How do I make this clear to him--that I'm not going to sit around and text for months; either we meet in the next 6 weeks or so, or things end--without coming off too strongly?
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reader, lada2021 +, writes (20 October 2010):
Let him know straight up. You want to see him. And tell him how you feel as well. Its not going to get anywhere if you beat around the bush about it. Sometime you have to be blunt about it. I hope this help you...
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reader, lada2021 +, writes (20 October 2010):
Let him know straight up. You want to see him. And tell him how you feel as well. Its not going to get anywhere if you beat around the bush about it. Sometime you have to be blunt about it. I hope this help you...
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