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Archived questions from: August, 2007 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

My guy emigrated and wants me to follow. He seems to be using me for what I can take over there with me and I'm wondering now if I should even be going??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend emigrated to the other side of the world about 6 months ago and wanted me to go with him. I have visited once and am due to see him again for a couple of weeks very soon as it is a big step I want to be sure. I feel a bit concerned ...

Next week I leave for another job 20 miles away, how do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I'm seriously going crazy over this guy at work, who I really like. He is everything I look for in a guy, manly, smart, kind, sweet and loves football, of which I'm a huge fan. The thing is I leave next Friday and I can't help but think about how ...

I really like him and enjoy spending time with him and I want to be in a proper relationship with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for about 9 months now only every couple of weeks because he lives in another town. I really like him and enjoy spending time with him and I want to be in a proper relationship with him. From the conversations we've had ...

I dont seem to have goals in life. I'm in a long distance relationship and she's starting to annoy me a bit. Whats happening???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - i need some help! first of all i wanted to know how to not feel so insecure about myself and hav a vision in my life to achieve a goal? i dnt hava vision i cnt seem myself going any where, even tho i study and wnt a degree i jus have no vision to i ...

I virtually met my ex after over 37 years, without our spouses' knowledge, and we love each other again...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - I found my ex-girlfriend after 37 years, she in Denmark and I in Canada. We e-mail, MSN and talk (hours every day) without our spouses knowledge. We are both happily married. Now we tell each other how we love each other agin and plan to meet. Any ...

I said I would move to her town, but I don't think I have the money! I am very afraid for our future, IF I even have one with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Hello. I am just a normal guy, almost hitting 30, and looking for my better half. I have been in two serious relationships so far, never married, though. First of all, let me start by mentioning that I came to this country only about a year and...

Girlfriend has bipolar and now wants nothing to do with us. what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - my girlfriend and i recently seperated after 2 half yrs.she suffers with bipolar.we laughed and talked for hours.her reasons for splitting are that i'm to blame for a bipolar incident that happened when we were on holiday in scotland.i can't ...

How can I show him I care through the phone? How can I tell him how I feel without a fight and help him understand??????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Hello everyone, First to let you know a little about the situation, I've been in a relationship with my fiance for 2 years going on 3 years, engaged not too long ago, we're getting married in October. The thing is he's been 5 hours away by car...

Should I embrace my romantic feelings and wear my heart on my sleeve or should I try to hold back and keep myself a little guarded in case things don't work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I've been seeing this guy I really like for about six weeks. We've known each other for years and it's the third summer in a row we've hooked up. This time, it feels more serious than ever before, and we've agreed to be exclusive and have a proper ...

How do I tell my parents the guy I'm seeing is 6 years older than I am? I'm 17.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Ok, so this guy is 23 and I'm 17... I'm ok with it, and he's ok with it. My parents? yea no, they don't even know we're dating. What makes it worse? He lives about an hour and a 1/2 aways drive from where I live, and I always have to make excuses to ...

I'm 15 and met a guy on holiday. I love him but he lives 9 hours away! How do we work this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I met an amazing guy on holiday - we've slept together and already said "i love you" to each other. Now I've come back home to England and I miss him so much...I want to be with him and am considering staying with him next time I visit (in 4 ...

We're in a long distance relationship but she rarely tells me she loves me. Am I expecting too much??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (M) - I'm 35 and my g/f is 33 and we have been in a long distance relationship for 9 months now. We see each other when we can and I am foolishly in love with her. One of the aspects that I struggle with is that she very very rarely expresses her fe...

Me and my ex were going on holiday as mates, Now he's cancelled, I am so annoyed!! Should i be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I have recently split up from my bf and we were due to still go on a pre booked holiday next week. We had recently become long distance and he wasn't prepared to make any commitments over the next yr so it was supposed to be an amicable split, ...

I'm in a long distance relationship. Does anyone have any ideas how to keep the sex life spiced up???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

26 August 2007 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship, we have been dating for 4 years prior to me leaving. Does anyone have any ideas on how to keep the sex life spiced up. The usual, phone sex and internet sex does not work. Any ideas Please?...

We had unprotected sex, I took the morning after pill, but i'm worried!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend but i stopped us because i started to get worried. we're a long distance relationship too so he says since he hasn't come in a while he isnt sure if any precum was there or not. The following day i got the ...

I'm in a long distant relationship and would have to move for it to work, what should i do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship, been a year now. He is seperated but not divorced yet and states he has no plans in the near future to get one as he will have to pay full child supports. I have a career (a really good one). He says he will ...

My boyfriend has opened a "man seeking woman" account in the Internet. We are planing to move together in December, should I confront him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - Is is ok for my bf to open up a personal account "man seeking woman" on the internet? We've been dating 3 years on a long distance relationship, well we we lived together for a year and now he has moved away again (work related) a couple of months...

My husband is deployed and I'm all mixed up! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

26 August 2007 (?) - I'll try to keep this short. I feel like the most selfish person in the world for even asking this question, but it's really been bothering me. I'm just looking for people's opinions on this, even if what you think isn't all that nice. Thanks for...

I live in NC, he lives in Gorgia, should i continue to go out with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - ok well i live in nc and i'm going out with a guy in gorgia. Should i continue to go out with him thax for all your help ...

I met him a dating site but am i being played or is this guy scared?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - Am I being played, have I been played, or is this guy scared? I met a guy on a dating site, we began immediately talking by phone, we "clicked" and he called me almost every day, living two hours apart. Both busy, but him working two jobs and a t...

I've a long distance relation, my boyfriend is very insecure, misinterpreting my friendship with the ex and is jealous in general. How do I cope with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - Hiya, I have a problem with my boyfriend. We've been dating for quite a while and I love him very much. He's incredible in every possible way, except for one - he's very insecure and gets jealous easily. I feel that I'm at the end of my rope he...

This friend of my boyfriends is upsetting me and I want her to just not exist!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6323 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - Is it wrong to want someone dead? Is it wrong to want them to completely disappear? To die a horrible death? I know this seems like a harsh question, and you probably think I'm crazy for even saying this, but it's true. I've never hated anyone so ...

My boyfriend is moving away. How can I maintain this relationship and not sound all lame and cliche?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 months is leaving the country soon to start a new job. Things have been fairly casual between us as we both have been really busy with work but everytime we are together we have a great time and I really thought this would have ...

I'm confused about whether he is looking for a visa to stay here or genuinly cares about me! Should I wait some years for him to get at the level I am at in this country?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - I don't know, maybe I needed this help; I guess that's why I'm writing this question here. My story is that I am a very attractive young female, in my early 30s, single, I've never been married, and I am still looking for my right better-half. I ...

He feels bad because he can't see me too often.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

24 August 2007 (F) - Hiyer My bf lives in Scotland and I live in South England. WE met when he was down here visitin a mate nd we get on well together. he called me three or four nights ago and said that he was feeling so down coz he can't come to see me at the mo...

Is she just being cautious? Is our relationship doomed? What do you think is going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

24 August 2007 (M) - Dear people, I met a girl in a chat room on New Year's Eve this year. Since that day we have spoken on the telephone without fail every day, morning and night when we are in bed till we fall asleep. After approximately a month both of us...

She is coming back earlier now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

23 August 2007 (M) - Hey all, My situation is in more detail here if you feel like a read. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-had-the-girl-i-had-always-day.html Anyway, to cut a long story short my ex left me before she went home for the summer holidays. She is ...

Is my long-distance love about to dump me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6330 days ago

23 August 2007 (F) - I'm wondering if I'm about to be dumped. i've been in a long -distance relationship for one and a half years now. I have just this week begun wondering of he's tired of the relationship. At the weekend, he said to me 'I'm your friend, you can tell ...

Still love my ex, going on holiday to get over him but now he's emailed me, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

23 August 2007 (F) - Please help. I broke up with my very long distance, long term boyfriend about 2 months ago. We parted on good terms, as in we still loved each other but realised it was never going to be possible to be together. It was the hardest thing I've ever ...

The guy I'm seeing had to move away and now he's having doubts about us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6331 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - After 6 months together, my boyfriend had to take a job 1000 miles away. From the beginning he said he wanted to stay together, exclusive, and after I'm done with grad school he hoped I'd move out there with him. Slowly I let myself become ...

I could re-located but I am concerned whether it is really ME that he wants - or if he just needs some arms around him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has moved about 250 miles away and he had been planning a relocation for years before meeting me. He wants me to be with him and says how much he loves me but I feel some things he has said are odd. When I asked him early on in the ...

I live in NYC and he is in Philly and that sometimes when we see each other he just isn't as excited anymore that I'm coming to visit. How do I get my relationship back on track and get that spark back into our lives.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6324 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and recently he has told me that he loves me and wants to make the relationship work but doesn't feel the same passion that he used to. I live in NYC and he is in Philly and that sometimes when we ...

How do I get over it and better handle the time apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

20 August 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost three years. We both went to college, and are now 4 hours apart. We will get to see each other just about every two weeks. Since we split for college (4 days ago) I have been going crazy, I just ...

From talking to her friend it looks as though she wants to stay in touch.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

20 August 2007 (M) - Hi all. Something troubles me. *For those of you who don't know my situation, go to my profile, it explains everything there* So, as you know, me and my long distance girlfriend of 2 years broke up about 2 months ago, and within the past couple ...

We're now going to colleges in different states, any advice to help make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6333 days ago

20 August 2007 (F) - Typical scenario: my boyfriend and I are high school sweat hearts and have been together for two years. Now we are both going to different colleges in different states. We both are still in love but realize that our decision to stay together is ...

He wants me to move to Melborne to be with him, but I dont know

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

20 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend emigrated back in March to Melbourne Australia as he had planned - with few possessions he simply packed a suitcase. He has a job now and is renting a small house. Now he wants me to move out with him and has started to dream about our ...

How do I tell him that I want to move closer? without freaking him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6328 days ago

20 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been good friends for a year and a half and have been dating seriously for 3 months. I'm 25, out of college with a full-time job and he's 24, in grad school (and won't finish for a year and a half--he can't transfer). We ...

He is moving away and I am not sure what will happen with us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

18 August 2007 (F) - Question for the boys! I have been seeing a guy from work for a few months. He asked me out and told me he has had a crush on me for years but we were never single at the same time. Since we started dating we have a great time, and are kicking ...

Am i right to feel this way, and why does she not feel it also?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6335 days ago

17 August 2007 (M) - hi, im unhappy with my sexual relationship with my girlfriend. We havent been seeing each other that much over the summer because we live in different cities, and the last time we had sex was at the end of june. the reason why im unhappy is because ...

I'm not sure if it's a good idea that we still see each other.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6336 days ago

17 August 2007 (F) - Hi. I have a dilema! I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and we will both be going to different universities in september. Origionally we were going to universitites within a few miles of each other but due to exam results my boyfrien...

Should I continue emailing the guy that I kissed on holiday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6336 days ago

17 August 2007 (F) - i am 18 and recently went on holiday to greece with my friends. i met a really nice man he is 27 and he likes all the same things as me and we got on really well.we were together for the last three days of the holiday and kissed.we swapped e mail ...

I'm probably asking the most unaswerable question! Why are guys so hard to understand????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm probably asking the most unaswerable question! Why are guys so hard to understand???? I've been seeing a guy for a few months and we have a great time together. But he is moving away soon for a job opportunity. I didn't realise ...

I'm at my wits end over this... WHO DO I CHOOSE???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - My marriage of 12 years broke down and as soon as I was financially stable enough I moved out to give our relationship complete space. I had never lived on my own before and found it quite a struggle emotionally. I met up with my husband once a ...

I've been with my boyfriend for three years, but I don't know if I can handle him deploying for the military

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F) - So i have a boyfriend who i have been with for 3 years now. he is in the army. when he first joined we really weren't together but when he came home from basic training we connected again. he was recentley deployed to iraq and will be home in ...

Should I go after my ex, or this new older man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F) - im soo confused latley. i split up with my long distance boyfriend a year ago and have been saying ever since that when i drive i am going to get him back because i think we split up because of the distance. i still love him and cant seem to get ...

Girlfriend cant handle the distance but says she still loves me, what should i do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship and have been for a year and a half now but my girlfriend said she can't be herself around me because everytime i see her its like we have to start all over again. she wants to leave me for another guy but says ...

I'm in love with a girl from another country. Will it, can it or has this worked for anyone ever?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

14 August 2007 (M) - I'm in love with a girl from another country. Will it, can it or has this worked for anyone ever? ...

Whilst deep down I know she's right, it's really hard and part of me wanted to try a long distance relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

14 August 2007 (M) - I'm relocating at 400 miles for a job, and I have recently being saying goodbye to all my friends that are staying put. Since May I've had a crush on a friend who I suspected (occaisonally) may have returned the feeling, and after walking he...

He'd rather masturbate to porn than have sex with me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

14 August 2007 (F) - I have been married about 5 years. My husband wanted to have babies when we were dating so I said I would but only if we get married. So then we got married. I got pregnant but he never wanted to have sex unless it was to make a baby. Once I was ...

He says he loves me but I haven't talked to him in ages. Does he have another gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

14 August 2007 (F) - I have an internet bf (dont protest against that bit) ive just got a new phone and i cant ring him or antything so i canty talk to him because of the time differences and the fact that he can only use his m8 computer talk to me.I know that he reall...