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36-40,
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writes:hi, im unhappy with my sexual relationship with my girlfriend. We havent been seeing each other that much over the summer because we live in different cities, and the last time we had sex was at the end of june. the reason why im unhappy is because im going away for 5-8 months at the beginning of september, and my girlfriend has gone of the pill so she doesnt want to have sex. I've been feeling really fustrated recently due to work/ stress/ and the whole fact that im leaving the country for such a long time. Is it wrong that i feel so badly fustrated cause i know im not going to have sex with my girlfriend for what i believe is a very a long time? im her first boyfriend....so is it because of that, that she doesnt seem to be the same way? I mean i have been really looking forward to it and then she says she is off the pill so sex is off the table even if i use a condom...and thats what made me write this cause i've reached the peak of fustration.Is it wrong for me to feel in a way let down, cause she doesnt feel the same need to be with me to just stay on the pill for another month? I mean we are both 20 years old we are young.....and i feel really bad because i really love this girl and i can see myself settling down with her and all.... (we've been going out for 9-10 months and we only had one argument)what do you guys say?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): Why did she get off the pill? She's probably pulling away from you because you're leaving her for so long & she is hurt. She's not thinking about trying to get sex from you..she's thinking it could be over between you two. Women associate sex with love. Men just want to get laid. The fact that you're leaving is making her feel like if she has sex with you she'll be even more hurt when you leave. I know you can't understand this b/c you're a guy.
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