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My boyfriend is moving away. How can I maintain this relationship and not sound all lame and cliche?

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Question - (25 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2008)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend of 4 months is leaving the country soon to start a new job. Things have been fairly casual between us as we both have been really busy with work but everytime we are together we have a great time and I really thought this would have been a lasting relationship, even though we never really spoke about it.

We have said we will definitely keep in touch and I will definitely visit him, but with his new job and new life I understand that he will eventually move on, however it is harder for me as Im left here without him.

Does anyone have advice on how I can say goodbye, even by note or card, letting him know how much of an impact he has made on my life without getting too soppy or sounding like a bunny boiler.

The best I can come up with is 'best of luck, i'll miss you lots, keep in touch' or something equally lame!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

do it face to face..or via phone...respect the relationship

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A male reader, somewhat_anonymous United States +, writes (25 August 2007):

If he meant that much to you, you might have to get mushy. Afterall, he deserves to know how much of an impact he had, so just write from the heart.

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