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Archived questions from: February, 2012 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

I feel like damaged goods because I won't be able to have children and haven't talked with him about it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

29 February 2012 (?) - well i do love my boyfriend just a few things on my mind and i need some advice. Firstly, christmas time i bought him a ear ring and hes only worn it a handful of times do i ask if he liked it? its niggling at me a bit More importantly on numer...

Does temperature affect the size of your fingers?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Just a quick little question thing. I tried on my mates ring because he told me it was too big for his middle finger which is the one it was meant for so he wore it on his thumb and he told me to put it on to prove a point that it was just too big ...

Do you shave your "part" before you have sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I asked my friend if you should shave your "part" before you have sex and she didn't know. So Im asking this site,do men like it unsaved, or shaved? I got a boyfriend and I need some advice here before we get more intense....

Should I stick with him or let him go and sort my head out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I don't know what to do.. I think my ex has messed up my head. I can't feel feelings and sometimes they're the opposite feeling I am supposed to have. I've had 3 family members die in 3 months and I've hardly cried and when I told friends they've ...

Is going to the gym scary?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Hiyaaaa, Well, I've got to a stage in my life where my body isn't going to go any slimmer and as in 6th form (college) we stopped having P.E lesson even though it wasn't exciting I still had fun and its you know exercising! I wanna start going ...

How can I make him see that he is disgusting and needs to lose weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I have been married to my husband for almost 25 years and we have 4 children. When we got married I weighed 135 and he weighed 180. We looked and felt great. We did alot of outdoor activities. Now I am at 160 and he is about 310. He is fat! I can ...

He has issues with my past and we are apart, but I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - My ex and i have been having a rough situation. We was together for five months. We broke up n then get back together. We had an amazin relationship. But he has anger inside because of my past. I really do love him even though we bearly broke up ...

How to start a long term relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

29 February 2012 (M) - I really have no ideas for how to pursue relationships with women. I can never seem to get past acquaintance or friend... Any advice appreciated....

Suddenly he wants Fridays to himself, leaving us with only Saturday! I don't like this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Okay so me and my bf have been together for about 1 and a 1/2 years, and for the longest time we have always spent time together on Friday and Saturday, but the following week my bf likes to host a poker game where a bunch of guys come over to play ...

I can't afford the surgery but I don't want to wait!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - I have a complicated situation. When I was 18, my kidneys failed. I lost 36 pounds, and went from a C-cup breast size to a small B/A cup. It has been 5 years since the incident, and I haven't gained any weight regardless of my many attempts to do ...

So what is a good way to meet someone as it seems like I have tried everything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - So I have been single for years and really need to meet someone soon, I feel overwhelmed with loneliness. I should have no problems meeting someone because I'm attractive, educated, intelligent, and I have my crap together. My problem seems to be ...

I need to stop feeling like a burden

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4655 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - I have been married almost 15 years and i have been a controlling, nagging, insecure wife for 12. And i also suffer from bi polar and depression in which my husband dose to. He also has what is called "sexual anorexia" yes it sounds strange and ...

Scared that no one will want me now, and terrified to find out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Dear Aunts/Uncles Im going to try and keep this brief but to the point. Single mother of three, suffer with servere I.B.S for 18 yrs, but now its not too bad. Have had a recent hysterectomy, so cant have any more kids, and obviously now goi...

My gf and I don't want to have sex anymore, is time to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - we been together for just over 2 years now, at the start was good and we have sex all the time, after 6 months she moves into my place and the sex goes down hill right away. in the past year we hardly ever have sex, from once a week down to now once ...

How can I help my friend after her divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - My friend was married and now she has devorced her husband because the husband was cheating with her friend he got pregnant ,how should i help my friend to go through the devorce anger ,loss and loneliness ?...

He's amazing, but he belittles me and doesn't trust me. Calls me goody-two-shoes. Do I end this relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - This is hard for me to write, its hard for me to come to terms with, but i think im near the end of my 20 month relationship. Since the day i meet him we became inseparable, he is my first serious boyfriend and its been a wonderful and life changing...

I don't understand why I am so caught on him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - What to do what to do... I met "Jeff" 10 years ago. We dated and had a good time. He dissapeared on me only to return a year later and we reconnected for a bit. Then he dissapeared, again. At the time both of us were party people and he espi...

I don't want to move to another country if it's just going to lead to heartbreak

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - I am 25 and my boyfriend is 18, we've been together for almost 18 months, and I was his first and only sexual partner. It's a very long distance relationship, and we've had our share of problems but we managed to work through them. He had been ...

Shouldn't there be more to life than this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

25 February 2012 (M) - Do you ever think that you should be doing more in life? I have in the past waisted so much time partying and being selfish, no that I am clean and sober I just feel as If I should be doing more than just working, crazy huh?...

Confidence plummeted since having a baby, does it ever get better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I gave birth to my lovely son 10 months ago. Problem is, ever since I found out I was pregnant, my confidence and self esteem has plummeted, and it's got worse since I gave birth. I'm only a bit heavier than what I was Pre Pregnancy, and I've ...

Pregnancy and the pill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - Am twenty three years old and my and my boyfreind have been together just under ten months and making plans to move in together :) x and in septemeber we wa want to start a family x I'm currently on the pill but want adice on how i.e. your cycle ...

Can sex make your boobs smaller?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I just began to obsessed with my boobs lately, I want it bigger, I see a skinny person with big boobs and mine is just too small, when I was going through puberty I think it was so big and I hated it. I always think it is always getting on my wa...

Why would my partner need a second sperm test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - Can anyone please give me some advice, my partner and i have been trying for a baby for 1 year now, with no luck. My partner has had a sperm test but has been told he needs to do a second one, does anyone know why this might be. My partner is away ...

Hysterctomy blues...anyone suffering with them?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - HI Lady's.. Well I have been on this site for some time now, and recently had a TVH (Total virginal Hysterectomy) Im not getting hardly any hot flashes, but my appetite has got huge, my moods very erratic, and im aching like im about 80...

Is this a problem? Or is it normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - so i've been reading alot of questions on here, and have only just realised i have a problem of my own. i am sexually active(safely), and everytime i have sex, if we are in missionary position or i'm on top, it feels good don't get me wrong, i...

What can delay a period other than pregnancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - I read on the internet that you can miss periods for a few months after stopping the pill, and I was just wondering how accurate that is? I stopped taking the pill around the 10th of December, and had a period (or withdrawl bleed). I then got anot...

Premature ejaculation.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

23 February 2012 (M) - What can I do to prevent quick ejaculation?...

I want to know what I might be suffering from before I see a doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - please help me.i have small pimples or swellings on my outer and inner labia.when i sratched one,a little like fibre came out and it dried and left a scar on me.i also have developed slihgtly itchy skin and eyes.when i checkout my pants,they have a ...

Why am I so heavy on my feet when I walk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - Ever since I can remember, I've had knee problems. I only found out a year and a half ago that I am flat footed also. I did some research and found out that my knee problems may have stemmed from my flat footedness. However, what I am really ...

I wish my B/f saw me as one of those ideal girls in dude movies with "big boobs/skinny waist/big butt/slim thighs", instead of the cute girl next door

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - I always feel so insecure about my body, it's so stupid... I even get really nervous and anxious when watching movies with my boyfriend, especially the type of "dude" movies where lots of perfect boobs are shown. I never say anything in front of ...

I'm not sure I trust my ex when he says he isn't using drugs anymore, we have a 10 year old I want to keep safe!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - Hi, new here. Question about addiction. My ex-boyfriend and the father of my 10 year old had, when we were together, a big drug problem. We split up 3 years ago. He used to smoke cannabis every day (had 'come downs' when he couldnt get any)...

Once a month, my feelings change drastically and very specifically, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - I love my boyfriend. I love him so much but every month, about a week before my period is due I just lose all interest. I start questioning myself, him, our relationship, everything and I hate it because I know as soon as the week is out I'll hate ...

Why was I bleeding after anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - My hubby and I have been having anal sex for about 5.5 years and I have never bled as badly as I did last night. A lot of online articles talk about fissures and friction but after anal there was as much blood in the toilet as if I had my period? ...

I don't know if I can deal with a guy being so messy and home stinking that way so I told him and now he hasn't contacted me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - I met this guy which he is very nice and good looking. I like him a lot. We have dated several and I enjoyed his company. We even spend the weekend at the coast nothing happen since we both brought our kids to enjoyed ourself. We have alot of ...

I should be happy in my life but unhappiness with job is making me depressed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - Dear cupid, I am hoping someone can help me with this issue. I'm nearly 28 and engaged to a fantastic guy, we live together. Ive completed uni and been in a great professional job since uni. Over the past 6 months or so i feel like my mood ...

I want to lose weight the right way...any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - Hi Everyone, I am 5 4 and 34 years old. I am a bit overweight for my height and frame. I've recently visited the doctor and he's definitely said that I need to lose at least 40 pounds in order to be at my ideal weight. I am almost 180lbs at...

Any kind of sexual activity leaves me exhausted, in pain, or both

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - My current bf and I were each other's first sexual partners. In the four years since then, he's gotten skilled at making me feel amazing. Myself on the other hand, well,any kind of sexual activity leaves me exhausted, in pain, or both. Blowjo...

What's his deal? He got cold feet and decided he wanted both me and the other girl. Is he commitment phobic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - I was dating this total sweetheart. He seemed to be everything I ever wanted in a guy and then some. However, we broke up a few months ago. He began dating another girl immediately but kept in contact with me, and eventually dumped the other girl so ...

He was abusive and I need to move on. Tips please on how to move on and forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - ModNote: no mention of charges laid against the OP so I am not calling this a crime. Instead I belive the Op was the victim from reading this account. I met this man in 1987... We have been in and out of love, or what I thought was love now I'm...

I want to get over my abusive LDR ex. But I need some ideas please on how to do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I'm really sad and depressed. I was with this guy in a long distance thing for almost 2 years. It was never really perfect or ideal but I cared about this person a lot. We would fight. He would call me names but i in the back of my head I would t...

The new guy has made me question the last 7 years of my life. What do I do about my B/f now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - How can I leave? This is such a long story so I'll try give you short version. I want to start off by saying he is a good guy and with the right girl he could make her happy. We've been together for 14 years. I got pregnet with our...

Why are women so competitive about other women's weight loss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Hi! I am wondering why women are so competitive about other women's weight loss/body transformations. I lost 20 lb.s and worked really hard in the gym and am on a very strict diet. Some women are complimentary but to others it seems like a ...

Am I being unfair or not? He wants all the attention but calls me selfish.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Hi Aunt's.I'd like a little help here please. I have been seeing someone for about 5 years.we enjoy sex together but i have a problem with his selfishness in showing affection to me. He seems to think i should be doting on him all the time,while h...

His ideas about sex differ from mine. He gets huffy when I don't want to talk about it. How to I keep him interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Short and sweet I hope:: I talk to this guy pretty regularly. Daily mostly. If we can't talk in person we talk on line somehow. The bad thing is we dont agree on sex because I'd like to think love happens before sex in most cases around my age rang...

How can I compete with my wife's new sex toy? It gets more action than me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

20 February 2012 (M) - I got my wife a new toy. It seems the toy is getting more action than me. However, she has NO problem giving me oral sex. I seem to get more oral sex now and she seems to use her toy more. Is this normal?...

Why does she still put me down? I just can't seem to do anything right in this relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 February 2012 (M) - i am 38 and i am in A relationship with A woman that just can't take my advice without thinking that I am trying to change her or be controlling. I am A decent man that has had issues with addiction in my past and have gone through great lengths to ...

What kind of upbringing would make someone uncaring cold and callous towards everyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - What kind of upbringing would make someone uncaring cold and callous towards their partners,children,family even friends as i know of a person just like this and i am finding it hard to understand how anyone can be like this towards anyone who has ...

Sex! Why, so far, has it all been so unsatisfying?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - hey ive been sexually active for about a year.. ive just been wondering.. I don't know if im sexually frustrated or not but i think i am. I've had sex about a good fifteen times in the year or so since i lost my virginity and it just doesnt f...

He will not admit when he is wrong. He shouts. My self esteem has been affected. What can I do?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - Hi guys, my husband never apologizes to me, even if its clear he is wrong and he is always blaming me for everything that goes wrong in the relationship. He always finds a way to make me feel i am to blame. I do apologize to him whenever i am at...

Why is my vagina this color?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - Hi, I've recently become quite concerned about the colour of my vagina. Its a very dark pink/red colour, as far as i'm aware it has always been that colour, it doesn't hurt, I haven't slept with anyone in years and I always use protection. Is it no...