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anonymous
writes:My hubby and I have been having anal sex for about 5.5 years and I have never bled as badly as I did last night. A lot of online articles talk about fissures and friction but after anal there was as much blood in the toilet as if I had my period? Not sure if I should visit the doctor or not? Any help is appreciated as I am currently very alarmed about the situation. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2012): Please get back to us. We may be able to provide more help. Don't hesitate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThere isn't pain except when I urinate & it touches the area. Then it stings. I have bled before but due to celiac problems or else tearing around the opening when we first started doing it. The bleeding this time came from inside I'm sure of it. I am unable to get into the doctor until next Tuesday and urgent care is generally useless and just sends me to another doc anyways...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2012): "I have never bled as badly as I did last night". Does this mean you have bled before? Does it hurt or is it just bleeding? Do you also bleed when you poop?
Fissure hurts like hell, specially when pooping or being penetrated. If you have a huge pain in there, your anal tissue is torn and you need surgery.
If it only bleeds, it's a common type of hemorrhoid. It doesn't always need surgery.
In any case, get yourself checked. Don't be alarmed. There is cure.
If you need surgery and if laser surgery is available, I recommend you choose that one. It's more comfortable and it heals more quickly.
And for god's sake, don't tease your man with your butt anymore! I'm not saying that anal sex has caused the problem,but you'd better stop it. At least until you are healed completely.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2012): See your Doctor asap, sounds like there's been some internal damage. Do not speculate about what it may be,or rely on online sites - he is the only one who can tell you whats going on,examine you etc.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 February 2012):
 Yes you need to see the doctor... if the blood was bright red it's probably that you have internal hemorrhoids that were ruptured.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (22 February 2012):
 HI
This is not the page you should be asking that question on, you need to log into nhsdirect.co.uk or better still go to your Dr's A.S.A.P!!
You are very right to be alarmed. Firstly anal sex has always been a questionable sexual activity, the anus is for letting things out, not putting things in.
But for you to be loosing so much blood suggests a burst vessel, or even possible cancer. I would not wait to find out, sorry for being blunt but when it comes to your health I would rather just get to the point.
Mandy x
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