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Diarrhea every time after anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

31 August 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo...this is kind of a gross question, buuut it's something i've really been kind of concerned about. is there any connection between diahrrea and anal sex? it seems like every time i have anal, i have diahrrea for at least a couple d...

Why can't I leave my boyfriend when he doesn't even care about us anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I'm 26. been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have been thru the death of my son, thru drug habits and have come out together quite alright. He has been there for me at my lowest point of my life ever. I feel like this is something I cannot let him ...

Is it possible for me to still grow taller at 19?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - Is it possible for me to still grow taller at 19? I'm a guy and I just turned 19 on August 3. Here's a brief history: -Dad is about 5'8 Mom is about 5'1 3/4. Brother is 22 and 6'1 1/2. Brother stopped growing around 14-16. My dad's uncle was...

I get emotional when I hear about child abuse.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Im 28 and a mother of a beautiful 16 month old baby boy. Every night before I fall alsleep i cry for all the beautiful little kids out there who are not cared for or are victims of child abuse. I cannot get my head round the fact that there are ...

I would love to make my boyfriend happy but it's just so much effort and I get nothing out of it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two years and love him so much and still find him very attractive, but when it comes to sex i just cant be bothered.... When we first got together we were doing it all the time but its faded to only about once eve...

Confused and heartbroken are an understatement!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - I am not entirely sure what my question is. but I would love some advice..actually really need some advice. Anyway 3 years ago my friend introduced me to a friend of hers online, I never met him but we'd talk often over msn etc. He was looki...

What help is available to give us some support? My Step son is terrorising the family with his behavior.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - This is very long but there is no way to shorten it. I have been in this relationship with my GF for 3 1/2 years now. She has both a daughter (8yrs) and a son(11yrs). My relationship with the daughter couldn't be better. It's the step son. H...

I want sensual affection. He wants to take it slow. But is he really into me this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - my partner broke up with with me 3 months ago due to not being able to handle his life-- it seems as though he wanted a simple life and getting rid of me would eliminate one stress. I acted desperate- crawled back a million times and got rejected ...

He will not share his feelings with me any more. Does he really still care about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - hi i'm 17 and my boyfriend is 19 and i believe he stopped caring about me and i dont know how to make him understand how hurt i am and i truely love him with all my heart. i put up everything of me into this relationship .... but the thing is im a...

Why is she so emotional?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - Like everyday there is always something wrong with my girlfriend. She always feels lonely although shes surrounded by her friends and family. Shes happy one moment and then depressed for the rest of the day. I have a hard time answering the first ...

Do my negative feelings mean I have a medical condition?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - Does anyone ever have that huge negative feeling in life? I mean what usually gets me down is the weather or if it's too cold. It makes me a little bit depressed and sad. And when that happens I find myself where I cannot even focus on work or ...

How do I talk to my wife about her hygiene without offending her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - Hi, My wife's let herself go of late. By this I mean she could shower more and cuold shave more often. How do I bring this up? There have been times when getting intimate has been tough due to smell. I always ensure she orgasms and really en...

Am I just paranoid or do guys really get sidetracked and focused on these Facebook girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

28 August 2011 (?) - Hey everyone, got a slight issue and would love both girls and guys opinion on this. This guy that I'm seeing/dating at the moment, he's a model and he's ALWAYS adding hot, gorgeous random girls on Facebook in mass amounts (like 10 a day). then ...

What are the attributes and conditions for a successful relationship that works? And what hinders the development of a successful relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I would be intersted to hear from others on what attributes and qualities represent essentials in a successful relationship. And what are deal breakers that can ruin a relationship? By a successful relationship I mean one where both parties a...

How do I tell her I am truly really faithful ? And avoid her getting mad at me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - I need help I know a guy at my age still had hormones and can't help but to notice a pretty girl. I have a girlfriend of 2 years and she can't stand it if I so much as look in a direction of another girl. She says her friends have boyfrien...

How can I help my bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - my boyfriend has been really stressed out and has a lot on his plate to handle and lately he has been abusing prescription meds and marijuana to help him feel better. I'm not okay with it, but i cant make him stop, he has to want to stop.and i want ...

Do I support her in her wish to work in the porn industry? OrI find reasons to help her decide against it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - She says she wants to do porn.. my fiance is a very beautiful woman however due to her past (abusive mother and a father who was never there) she has almost no self esteem and because of that was often taken advantage of by men when she sought l...

Boyfriend has disgusting habits, will he ever stop? Everything else about him is good

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for several years and live together. For the most part it's been smooth sailing. Then we moved to a big city a few months ago, which made me germaphobic and him less careful about things. I don't know what to ...

Ladies, aged less than 30, would you date a guy even if he isn't ''FUN''?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - Would you consider a relatively young male to be dateable even if he is a 180 degrees from the hard party bad boy persona? I am not saying that I am weak, nor that I can't stick up for myself and who I care about. I simply have no interest in ...

Why does she dress hot for work but not for me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - She dresses HOT for work, low tops, flouncy skirts, sometimes no panties. When she comes home she dresses down, pyjamas instead of negligee, baggy pants instead of skirt, baggy dresses etc. I see all the answers saying this is innocent and to just...

Are we both too proud? Why am I like this? I never wanted to hurt him or to get hurt so easily

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I am 19. Seeing a now 35yr old man. We have been seeing each other for nearly two years. I secretly love him, and he has told me he loves me. But, he has gone away on bussiness and I miss him. We spoke to each other on Skype every morning and nigh...

How do I get over the put-downs and insults, rather than feel hurt by them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I met a guy almost a year ago who came on very strong. At first I was not interested in anything serious as he said he didn't want kids. But, he then changed his mind, and really came on heavy with saying he was in love, he wanted to be with me, ...

Is it me? Does my attractiveness make people not take me seriously?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - For some reason, nobody takes me seriously. For reference, I've heard from my friends that I have a fairly, ahem, attractive face and body. I've been told I'm very pretty and have quite the voluptuous body. And I'm not trying to sound arrogant or ...

Can you please help give me some clarity? Because I am drowning in all these relationship troubles.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Okay I have many issues with my relationship but I will bring up one at a time and see what we can figure out solutions. First off I am a 30 year old female in a 8 year relationship with someone who is 1 year older than me. He has 3 kids and I ha...

My Family or my Bf? I am worried that the choice I make will ruin my other relationship(s

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I need someone else's opinion. My friends/family and fiance seem to be biased for obvious reasons. Here's my deal: I am 19 and my fiance is 24. My fiance went into the Air Force after 1 year of dating. Our relationship was great and he had to join ...

I enjoy having sex with my male cousin. Should I be so scared about others finding out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - Hi everybody, this is me confessing something I would never tell anyone. While I wish I can write more in details about it, I'm making it short. This is also a gay thing, so if you are not comfortable about it don't read further. I am not very ...

He still has a thing for his ex. Can I compete with that and if so how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I met this guy a few months ago through mutual friends, i was automatically attracted to him, we have flirted online and kissed once(however we were drunk). My friend accidentally blabbed to him i liked him and apparently he seemed pretty chuf...

How can I overcome all my doubts and get my dating life re-energized again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - I'm a shy guy and about two years ago I was having a six year period without a single date. Then I met this girl and started dating and we clicked quite nicely, kissed, finally, on the 5th date. But she was from a different background, and since my...

How do I get over this amazing girl I knew who now doesn't talk to me? And deal with my fighting parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - Hey guys, My parents have been tearing each other down for about 10 years now. Half that time, I've trying to fix their marriage. But its killing me trying to do that. I sleep for at best, 4 hours a night. I've failed a ton of tests at school....

My Gf keeps telling me how her one night stand guy was better than me. How do I handle this and not get so upset?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - Months ago my girlfriend and I had broken up. Soon after we did she had drunken sex with a man she didn't know. well and we had gotten back together and she had told me the details and I was crushed that she had did things with him that we were pla...

Is it normal to feel neglected by your partner and less loved at times? Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - Earlier today, my boyfriend of 3 years and myself were talking generally about survival. I asked him whether he'd risk his life for mine, and he turns around saying that if there was a chance I'd live, he would. But if I were doomed, there'd be no p...

Can anyone explain the possible reasons for his behavior? Is he going through a crisis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - A man and his wife had just moved in to manage a small volunteer group. There in the group, they met a several new friends, including me and some members of my family. They start to make good progress with the group. Very soon, he man and his wife ...

Late bloomer or is this it? I'm 19

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - I was just wondering if I could grow any taller. I'm going to be very detailed here so be ready. I just turned 19 on Aug. 3. And the last time I measured myself was Feb 22, 2011. I was about 1/2 and inch taller on Feb 22 than the year before. I'm...

Does this dream mean I could be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - I dreamt i was with my high school friend that i haven't seen in 7 years. In the dream she told me "wow you're pregnant congrats!" when i woke up i was excited, but now i'm feeling down. Do dreams have any meaning? Am i pregnant? ...

Did he break thorough....will I be ok?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - I just turned 20(never done it)and im about close to getting my period but i saw my boyfriend and well he fingered me but when he stopped i saw blood..at first i thought i got my period but i havent, how should i say this, i havent really continued ...

Would starting smoking affect the fact I'm taking birth control?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - Dear cupid...im 17 yrs old and i've been on birth control for about 6 to 7 months. I never smoked anything before but i've been tempted to lately since im always surrounded by people who do that. So i was wondering if i do smoke a cigarrette, how ...

My ex has given me private information. Do I tell this to my friends? Or do I just tell my new Gf? I am worried how my new GF will take it.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - Hi. So I had broken up with my girlfriend last thanksgiving because she just didnt really respect me. After a party one night i was a bit sideways and she was and somehow post break up emotions led one thing led to another and yeah. Needless...

I was rude and spoke out of turn to my married mentor. Is there any hope I could turn this around to my advantage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - Hi, I find myself attracted to married guy I've been talking to the past year as a mentor. he's attractive and kind. i didnt want him to know as i thought he might not want to talk anymore. i recently got upset and said things i didnt mean such as i ...

I fear I will never get pregnant. Am I being too pessimistic about this, despite my PolyCystic Ovarian Syndrone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - I am 30 years old and for the last two years I have been feeling extremely broody. I have two younger sisters who have three children between them, I adore my nieces and nephew and spend all my spare time with them but I feel so empty sometimes when ...

How can I tell my parents? I don't know what to say. I feel depressed and I'm scared about not getting the grades to get into University.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

26 August 2011 (?) - My feels have taken a nosedive over my grades. I've just sat my A level exams this summer. I didn't quite get the grades I was hoping for nor did I get my predicted grades... I got BDD. I know, I'm stupid right? When I do study it will mean I a...

He's in jail for life, and he's telling me to cut contact. How can I deal with my strong feelings for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I'm in love with a man who is incarcerated. I met him through a pen pal service which asks for people on the outside, like myself to write to prisoners. To be on the safe side, I picked a man who was doing life without the possibility of p...

I haven't had a period for 5 months. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I've been on my period for about 5 times they were normal and my last period was in March and I haven't been on it since. Is there anything wrong with me or is it just normal?...

Is this a reason to breakup again? Is a rebound relationship after breaking up really cheating once the former relationship resumes after a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I lately found out that my boyfriend of 4 years has been cheating on me for a whole year with many other girls. When the truth came out, he asked me not to leave him and pleaded for 3 months to take him back and bought me many gifts to win my love ...

Can a man grow a backbone? Or should I move on? He believes others over me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - So I had met this guy a few times, and thought he was cute, so I asked my girlfriend about him and she said he was great, that they were just friends and so she gave him my number. So we get together, and right away, I could tell we are really hitt...

I am embarrassed to talk to my Doctor!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I m getting medical treatment for my thyroid problem from our family doctor who is a mid aged(35-40) male doctor. Now while getting these medicines i hv noticed growth of coarse hair on my thighs and breast which is more than normal now. I need to ...

Is there any hope for improvement? He is not as interested in satisfying me as I am for him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - i can't understand why me and my boyfriend have such problems when it comes to sex? Yesterday we had sex but none of us got off. So we said oh well lets just try tomorrow. So tomorrow comes and I put a sexy little dress on in the hope that he will...

My boy friend is getting testy. Should I aim to do well in this job and miss the holiday we have booked?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - Am I a terrible person for doing this? He's making me feel like an absolute bi*ch. I work two jobs, and live with my boyfriend. One job is a day job to pay rent and bills and the second job is a non-paying internship to help further my ca...

Is it even worth taking holidays with my BF when he will not allow me enough relaxation time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - Every holiday I take with my boyfriend barely feels like a holiday for me. He always insists we get up very early and go do activities despite the fact that whilst on holiday I may like the occasional lie in or a relaxing day. I usually go alon...

He truly doesn't turn me on sexually anymore. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years and it feels like I've lost my interest in him sexually. We went hard and heavy the first 2 years but it went downhill from there. We have been going through problems which I think has some...

My wife says that sex with me grosses her out. Can that change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - I am 38 and my wife is 41. We do not have sex anymore and have not for at least a decade. She says that sex with me grosses her out. She says that the idea of sex itself does not gross her out, and she fantasizes about sex with other men sometimes, ...