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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Earlier today, my boyfriend of 3 years and myself were talking generally about survival. I asked him whether he'd risk his life for mine, and he turns around saying that if there was a chance I'd live, he would. But if I were doomed, there'd be no point in both of us dying. My boyfriend has a tendency of thinking logically rather than emotionally and I guess this is a response typical of him. But I guess my view is that if I loved someone, I'd risk my life for them regardless.He's says to me he's always thinking logically, and people shoukd adopt that way of thinking to. I guess I tend to think more with my heart.Does my boyfriend have a point?Was it wrong of me to ask such a question?Is it normal to ask your partner questions like that?I guess I was feeling a bit neglected this week, he's taken on a very stressful job of late. Is it normal to feel neglected by your partner and less loved at times, even though they may not intend it?Would it be wrong of me to tell them that, and request loving? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2011): dont be so demanding and needy. dont depend on others to make you good.
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