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writes:Hi, I find myself attracted to married guy I've been talking to the past year as a mentor. he's attractive and kind. i didnt want him to know as i thought he might not want to talk anymore. i recently got upset and said things i didnt mean such as i was only being nice to you so you would help me. which is not true. i really love him to pieces and get along talking with him, and now he doesnt want to talk anymore because of being nasty. i feel so upset about it, i do want to be able to talk n stuff.not sure how to mend the problem? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2011): hi, thanks for your answers. By the way, the headline title is not mine, the website did that, so i understand you might misread my intentions.
i just liked him as a mentor - thats what i mean, and id like him as a mentor but i think ive messed that up. id never cross the boundaries.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2011): Married mentor
Attraction/love for him
Homewrecker in the making?
A "mentor" will NEVER encourage crossing boundaries. And he did!
Why is he your mentor? What is he coaching you on?
Where is his WIFE while he is "mentoring" you?
Time to ditch the "mentor" and look deep within your soul for your own answers. U can do it. Learn to believe in yourself.
LoveGirl
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reader, cheers  +, writes (27 August 2011):
 You should face current situation that you are single but he's married already with a wife& family to support.Pls don't interfere them.
Be open minded & think of other people. If continue,You'll be hurt even more. Let go...
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (27 August 2011):
 The best thing to do in this situation is - nothing. Leave it alone - and find another mentor. He's married, and you tell us you love him to pieces - NOT appropriate. I know we can't help our thoughts or feeling an attraction, but we CAN recognize it's best not to indulge orselves.
He has a wife. Stay out of this.
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