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writes:I need help I know a guy at my age still had hormones and can't help but to notice a pretty girl. I have a girlfriend of 2 years and she can't stand it if I so much as look in a direction of another girl. She says her friends have boyfriends who never ever look at another girl and that I'm just a horn dog wannabe man whore. I honestly never checked out a girl like stared while I was ever with my girlfriend I did however had a blank stare into space and she had thought I was looking at another girl she always believes the negative and never believes me for all the 'lying' I supposedly did to her. I just want her to know she's the only girl for me and if I ever look at a girl when in her company doesn't mean I want to go screw that other girl and she needs to not have that kinda mindset but I need help how to go about telling her without getting her mad Reply to this Question
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (28 August 2011):
 There's no way to tell her without her getting mad. You're just going to have to tell her that she's the only girl you prefer and that she has to believe it. Do you have any idea why she's so insecure? No matter how good our relationships might be, we always tend to take a look at someone else once in a while. And it's just a look, and nothing else. If you tell her and she can't believe you, then decide if you want to be with someone that's insecure and can't tolerate a glance at someone other than her.
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reader, Claraw1  +, writes (28 August 2011):
 She says her friend's boyfriends never looks at other girls, she is either lying or very naieve, all men look at other women, and your right it doesn't mean that they want to be with that other woman. I suggest sitting her down and having a very calm and honest talk with her, and tell her how you feel about her and how her accusations make you feel. She is obviously very insecure in herself, and that is a shame because you obviously care about her a great deal. Good Luck
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