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Archived questions from: September, 2008 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all. I also love someone else. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Me and my husband were just married June 14th 2008 and i'm not in love with him. The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all, and therefore somebody was going to get married that day! Anyway, I've been in love with...

How can I cover up the bruises and scratches I got from my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - How can i cover these bruises i got from my boyfriend and the scratches on my wrists that i did to myself because of him hurting me? They are fresh and just done today. Before u judge me about hurting myself. Its because my whole life from six years ...

I'm not a sex addict, am I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - I'm not a sex addict am I? My wife just tells me I may be but i'm not that convinced I am. She is 6 years older than me and has already been around the block. Im in the military and I have to leave for certain things. Recently I went to another ...

Husband want anal sex but it's too painful for me! What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - My husband seems to like painful anal sex. I do it and he knows it hurts me. He likes to watch porn about it too. Any ideas? ...

How do I improve the taste of my cum?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - How do I improve the taste of my cum? My gf says that sometimes its very sweet and other times it's bitter....

I have a personality disorder. What can I do to be a better mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - ive got personality disorder and on the 25th of september my daughter got taken of me ive been to court but its looking slip that i will ever have my daughter back im gutted its so unfair they think that when my daughter gets abit older i wont ...

Has he been emotionally abusing me for years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5902 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have two children, 6 and 8- my 6 year old has autism. My husband has been battling alcoholism for years. He just informed me he has been seeing another woman and left. He has treated me especially poorly over the years and very much so now. I ...

What should I do to fill up my time? I'm my own worst enemy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Everyone I know thinks im this popular, confident and intelligent person. The truth is the things I think about myself I wouldn't even say to my worst enemy. I worry all the time that people will realise that I am stupid, dont know how to do my job ...

Does he love me? He didn't say it back....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - hello I have a question here, yesterday I was cuddling with my 8 months boyfriend, and I told him that I loved him for the first time, his response was that he hugged me really tight, but he didn't say anything, should I be concerned?. Our ...

Why do his balls disappear when he's erect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - why do my partner's balls disappear when he is erect. he is 57....

What is considered 'normal' in starting a relationship now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5902 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hey everyone i’m an 18 year old Canadian living overseas...my question is regarding how to go about being in a relationship with a guy i am interested in...but i’m going to give a bit of background information to help out with my question....i moved ...

7 weeks pregnant and I started to bleed after fingering, what does thsi mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I am 7 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend was fingering me and i started to bleed, what does this mean? Did I lose the baby?...

Problem with getting wet since I'm on the pill - I'm embarassed to buy a lubrificant though!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hello everyone : ) I have a problem getting wet especially since I've been on the pill. I want to buy lube but I'm embarassed. I'm 18 btw any advice?...

Why have I lost my sexual desire?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - HI, I wonder if its sound familiar for anybody...I truly believe, that I love my wife, but I lost my sexual interest. I don't know what went wrong.But I don't feel excited about sex at all. Its very much out of character, as I used to be very int...

I know I'm not pregnant, but I'm just wondering why I haven't had my period come yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Hello, i need some help..I had sex last month, 4 days before my period, had my period the last week of august and it went into the first part of september. Would i have another this month or since it came into this month, would i just skip this ...

How can I reclaim my life and feel better about myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5900 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two years now, since I was a senior in high school. I have a complicated family life; my dad was mentally, physically, and sexually abusive and was kicked out of the house when I finally told my mom at age sixteen. ...

Were we wrong to want to smoke weed? My boyfriend freaked out about it...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Please don't judge me on this but i really need your help, for a while now me and 2 of my friends hve been wanting to try and smoke weed just once and not even a whole joing just to see what its like. so i spoke to one of my really close friend w...

Please help with my drunk, insecure boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I need some help, I hope you have time it's a long story. I just turned 28 I have been with a man for 12 years, he was my first everything and we have 5 kids together. Here is the problem, he drinks ALOT. At first it wasn't so bad but know it if ...

What can I do to maintain his erection longer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - For a few weeks my boyfriend cannot get hard with me and when he does its when I am giving him head and he tries to put it in me and can't get it in on the first time and goes limp.What can I do to keep him hard long enough to have sex?...

How do I say I'm sorry? I know I should have kept my mouth shut! I don't want to lose our friendship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5900 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Okay so...there's this guy I like who's basically my best friend. He suffers with Anorexia, and while he's been healthy for a while now, lately he keeps saying he needs to lose like 10 pounds. The thing is, he was in an accident, and he really c...

I'm not able to masturbate anymore, I'm 30 yrs old. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - i Was enjoying masturbation very well 2 yrs ago and i am lost now now. i don't have any desire now . Earlier when i was ok i used to masturbate daily twice a day i used to feel guilty to have masturbated to known persons. i used to run finding toil...

What could all these symptoms mean? I'm so worried and confused!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Alright, so I posted a couple of days back to get peoples opinions of whether or not I was pregnant. So a quick summary of that was - "I had sex with a boy, he had a condom, but I told him that he didn't have to wear it, and he said he would, b...

He beats me, he cheats on me, he takes my money,but I'm lost in the mist of love..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - this guy and I have been dating for almost two years now. Its been a hard relationship I will admit. I gave my all I to this relationship and I feel so foolish at times when I actually take the time to think the "relationship" through. I did ...

Its so many things plaguing me that I don't know where to start and I feel like I'm going crazy.-Advice please!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I have reason to believe that I am suffering from depression. (My boyfriend suffers from clinical depression also) I've been dating this guy for almost 3 yrs, we have a 1yr old son, and we live together. Also we r both 21 yrs old. I believe that...

Now I am back on my feet and well able to perform but my wife wants to continue seeing this guy-Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Due to an injury I was unable to perform sexually for several years. The problem has since past. During that time I allowed my wife to take a lover. Now I am back on my feet and well able to perform but she wants to continue seeing this guy because ...

I betrayed my boyfriend's trust but have since come clean, now I need to prove to him I love him and we should be together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I started dating my boyfriend and in less than a month of dating I went on vacation with my girlfriends, drank a little too much and cheated. When I got home he asked if anything happened I said no and we continued with our relationship. I never ...

What I want to know is should I give this another shot? Do I have the right to know if she had sex with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5900 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - About 3 1/2 weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me. We had both become stressed from living with my parents, working, going to school, and raising our young son. The relationship unraveled. She says she loves me emotionally but not physically. ...

I want to know if I had sex while I was drunk last night!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Me and my friend drinked at her house with 2 guys we know, i got so drunk that i don't remember what i did. My friend told me that me and the 1 guy went 2 the room, came back a bit later, how do i know what happened, what feeling must i have on my ...

I keep sticking my fingers down my throat to make myself sick... any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Recently i've bin so stressed wiv things at school and home... my bro and mum and dad keep fighting and i've really fallen for somone who's got a gf. i have low self esteem anyway and my friend's family frend said i was fat when everyone else says ...

2 days after first time (unprotected) sex, I feel pain while on the toilet and can see a tiny faint bit of blood when I wipe myself, could this be an STD? How can I help the pain?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Okay am worried. I lost my virginity 2 days ago. I'm on the pill, n we didnt use a condom. well now wen i go to the toilet it really hurts so bad that i want to cry and i been needing the toilet more often. also wen i wipe myself there is a tiny f...

Why do I feel so tired all of the time? Maybe the emotional problems in the past two years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - I often feel very tired all the time I am normally a happy person even though I have been hurt so many times in the past I try to be positive and smile through the pain.. I am just wondering why I could be feeling really tired and drained all of t...

I never know when my violent boyfriend will lash out and hit me again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Hi there. I have recently separated from my husband and met a guy who I really like and I fell in love with him. We have been together for about 3 and a half months, the only thing is he hits me. He does not hit me in my face just my body like my ...

I'm late with my period! Is this normal sometimes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - I've been stressing out a lot this month because of certain situations and I'm late 3 days with my period. I was supposed to get it the 25th but i haven't gotten it yet. I'm getting worried and i was just wondering if it's ok for it to happen...

I have disturbing nightmares and don't know how to deal with the loss of my cat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - My cat died 2 weeks ago and since then I've been having disturbing dreams (I guess nightmares) about him. No one close to me has ever died before except my grandma but I was too young to be affected at the time. I don't really know how to deal with ...

Have I ruined my university life in the first week of freshers or can I recover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Ok... this isnt really a relationship question I know, but I still need any advice you can give me. I've just started University and I'm far away from home and my friends and everything. And I thought i would be ok, but I've gone a bit off the rail...

I have not had my period for two months, what could be wrong? I'm 13.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - I'm 13 years old, and have had my period since i was 11. I've never had sex before, but i haven't had my period for 2 months! What's wrong with me?...

I'm 16 years old and when I get an erection my foreskin won't retract.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - I'm 16 years old and when I get an erection my foreskin won't retract, although i have read articles i dont want to do the bath method, What else can help. Thanks...

His left testicle sometimes comes out of his scrotum and into his lower belly! He pushes it back, but I find this really worrying!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Ok, my boyfriend just told me today that his left testicle sometimes comes out of his scrotum and into his lower belly. He says this happened before when he had an erection and he just pushed it down back into his scrotum ,its been happening for the ...

I am scared he's freaking out because he thinks he will get ill again if he hangs on to me, his prison of gloom. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5905 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Hi people googling for answers that can't be answered. I love my boyfriend. We've been together for a few months now. I feel very happy happy with him. But I have always been depressed and have always repressed it and ignored my illness until hi...

Should I marry someone with a huge butt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - Should I marry someone that has a huge butt? She always complains abotu it but never does anythign about it. She eats crappy food that makes it bigger and hardly ever works out. Everythign else about her is perfect but I am embarassed by it. ...

I have depression and despite this he pushes me into situations that I'm not comfortable with, does he truly love me, should I walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Can anyone help? im 23 and have been in a serious relationship for almost 2 years and living together for about 1 year.Recently i have been beginning to wonder if i mean as much to him as he says i do.I have depression and despite this he pushes me ...

I keep finding myself at the bottom of the hierarchy at work over and over again! I'm tired of feeling like that 'worthless nothing'!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1986 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm feeling very confused right now and was hoping any of you out there who have been in a similar situation, could give me some advice. I'm 25 and have been working in various fulltime office jobs over the past 10 years. I have one of ...

My wife's very depressed since her dad died a year ago, our sex life is inexistent, it's driving me insane!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

26 September 2008 (?) - My wife's dad died nearly a year ago. Shes doesn't want have sex anymore. I've waiting for her and supported her ever since her dad passed away. But its driving me insane she wont let do anything to her. Its causing fights (sometimes we augured ...

My cousin's husband who is 31 has approached me sexually (touching me, etc) several times (I'm 16), I know it's wrong but I like it. What to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - I'm in a sticky situation. It all started at my moms birthday when I was getting tired and went to my room to change in to pajamas. My step cousins husband then walked in an saw me changing. I tried to get away, but I couldn't. He then started maki...

Can steroids be the cause of me not getting a hard-on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I need litle bit advice. i cant get a hard on now. i use to be perfectly fine but then i was on steroids for a while for body building. since i have come off them i dont seem to get a hard on, i think its because of the steroids but i d...

I can't get 'wet' anymore. Is this caused my by pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - I've been on the pill for a little over a year. At firs I was fine but for the last like 7 months I've been having problems getting wet during sex. Is it because of the pills. I'm tired of using other forms of lubrication. Please help! Thanks...

What could this stuff being coming out of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I have been having a white/clear liquid coming out of my vagina... what could it be?...

I feel like I'm invisible and don't fit in anywhere. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I always feel low about myself Im 17 and i just cant find anything right about myself i compare myself to absolutely everyone ! I think for split seconds i look ok then when i see other girls my spirit goes well down and it is just so horrible. I ...

I have clear discharge after having sex, is this normal? I'm sore too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5905 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - hi, yesterday i had sex for the first time in a year and now i notice a day after i feel quite sore and irritated down below. I also have a clear discharge with no scent. Is this normal after not having sex for so long? ...

I lose my erection when its time for sex! Why does this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5898 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - Okay here is the deal. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for like 6 months now, and its time for sex. But my penis (Uncircumcised) has a problem, it will be hard in the pants but when it comes out it gets soft. This also happens sometimes when i ...