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anonymous
writes:Me and my husband were just married June 14th 2008 and i'm not in love with him. The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all, and therefore somebody was going to get married that day! Anyway, I've been in love with another man that I've known for 8 or 9 years, and we both are a perfect match. Me and my husband dont get along, he's a drunk and leaves me to pay for bills and rent while he drinks up his money. Please help me, I want to get our marriage anulled or a divorce but doesn't cost less for an anullment? We have a daughter together. I wish I could give the entire run down of the situation but I dont have time, basically he's stressing me out to the point where I have to take anxiety medication. I'm stressed out, me and my kids walk on egg shells, the guy I really love is such a great guy and I'm so glad that God has blessed me to have a true friend like him. He mentioned that he wants to marry me, so what should I do???
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reader, Julie D  +, writes (19 September 2009):
forgive me 4 being harsh, but how foolish to get married to someone u r obviously not in love with just because u had already paid 4 it! why on earth if u r in love with someone else would u agree to marry the 1 u r with in the 1st place? to stay in a situation like this u r not being fair on anyone, not ur husband ur boyfriend ur daughter or urself. it is only making everyone involved very unhappy. u need to get away perhaps from both and really think about what u do want, if u r intent on being with ur boyfriend then u need to tell ur husband that u r sorry u have made a mistake and u no longer wish to remain together. if he is the violent time then i suggest u leave him a letter. don't stay with someone 4 all the wrong reasons.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (1 October 2008):
 If you don't love him, let him go.
plain and simple. tell him in a nice way, that you want out..and take the nessessary steps to get a divorce.
You still have the power to change yours and your kids life. You are young and if your not happy in the relationship then find a way to create your happiness
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008): MARRY THE MAN YOU LOVE! If your not in love with your husband and he doesn't treat you right, leave him. Life is too short to be unhappy. Be with the man you love who treats you right and have a wonderful life together.
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