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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

I'm so used to fighting my paranoia that I can't make head or tail of the situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I've been dating this girl for about 8 months now. Originally I rebounded from a previous relationship to her, but it couldn't have been a better person to find. We were friends before hand, but here's where things get tricky. She's, more or less, a ...

L think he's straight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - l'm gay, and he's straight. l have only known him since September, but it feels like l've known him forever. Recently l have developed feelings for him, but l cannot get the courage to tell him, fearing it will obliterate what we have now. I have...

I've invested a lot into this friendship. What do I do now??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - My best friend of a year terminated our friendship this week. I don't know what to do. I'm in a mess. This is the situation: We've been friends a year. He's a gay guy I'm a female "Grace". My gay friend I will call 'Will'. We hit it off immediate...

Come and help libyan's gays hassles please!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - hiya ,,, I actually need HELP? Four weeks ago i joined an English institute where i fell in love with a nice and blond guy, 26 Libyan. How can i come closer 2 him? And to tell him that i wanna have sex with him. I'll wanna marry him if that po...

I really think I might be bi but I'm scared to date a chick. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5757 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Ok so I really have 2 questions 1) I really like this girl and she live in MA and I live in PA. She has A boyfriend but she wants me And I want her. Is it possible to have a long distance relationship like that? Btw I'm 17 she's 21. 2) I've...

How do I know that he loves gay sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - hiya,, I've got a problem mates.Any help plz. I love such a handsome guy older than me 4 years. I love love love him so much. I'm in doubt that he loves me. He is chatting only with me in class.having coffee time 2gather.He sometimes put his ha...

Am I gay because I watch lesbian porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hi. So I posted a question before, but I am still feeling very uncomfortable and frustrated with myself. Here's the whole story. I am 18 years old and go to an all women's college. I chose to come here because I knew I would never have to worry ab...

Do you think this will ever go anywhere?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - I am gay and my mate always knew it. My mate is a big strong Fence Builder who drives a work van and has 2 teenagers from his first marraige and one more kid he's seen only once from a second marriage. We were in a church together for years until I ...

I love my teacher and I think she loves me back :)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - im 16 and shes 27.lets call her lizzy. shes my chef course teacher. lizzy calls me pretty and she gave me a flower 2day :) she touches my thigh and my shoulders. winks at me all the time and smirks a lot at me and shes always offering to help ...

Do I keep pushing until I break through to him... and if so how can I break his concerns about it being wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - I have a friend who I've been close with since the start of secondary school, we were both split up from our old friends from school and we clicked instantly and since then we have been really close. But during secondary school there was a lot of ...

I kissed my female friend, am I bi?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - So, about a week ago I spent the night with a really good friend who i've known is a lesbian...we kissed, and I broke it as soon as it happened. I told her I didn't want to, we agreed it was an accident, we put it behind us..but I did want to. I ...

This way too confusing....please help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - Well my best friend since 3rd grade told me the other day that he was bi-sexual i have no problem with that , i see nothing wrong with being gay or bi. I am however straight male and a couple months before he finally told me , i noticed when we spen...

I'm straight but want to experiment with gay sex! How do I go about this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - I am a straight, 20 year old, virgin male. I'm insanely horny but have been unsuccessful by all means. I have always been turned on by gay porn, but always was attracted just to the sexuality of it, not the fact that it was men, and I never had any ...

Pros and cons of being gay

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

21 March 2009 (M) - Ha to all around I definitely need help. I believe in gay life. I'm watching them most of the time. Nowadays i'm ending up in gay life. Is that accepted to be gay nowadays.How do the girls think about? What is the pros and cons to be gay !...

How do I know if I am bisexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Can anyone who is bisexual tell me how they first realized they were bi? I definitely know that I am attracted to guys and I have had a bf. I have always assumed I am straight but my really good guy friend thinks that I am bi because we alwa...

Libyan's problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

21 March 2009 (M) - Can you help me mates? I'm so happy to have found such a helpful website. I'm 22, a hotty and sweet boy as I was told by loads of friends. One day it was pissing with rain outside. I went 2 my mate's room. I was feeling cold, so he brought me a ...

I have a GF but am attracted to a boy in my class

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

20 March 2009 (M) - so i totally have a girlfriend but there is this boy in my class that i really like. we barely ever talk and he just found out i liked him and he keeps winking at me and such but i get very nervous and my heart races. i don't know what to do i...

Out and hopelessly in love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

20 March 2009 (M) - I'm in 9th grade and I'm gay. I've outted myself to my two best girl friends, one use to be my gf before, and I've recently outted myself to one of my guy friends. He was surprisingly cool with it and we talk about my interests in guys and stuff. ...

She always wants something new!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - how can i satisfy my girlfriend in bed? i am a lesbian! because everytime my gf and i having sex she always wanted me to do something new to her pussy to make cum.....??????? ...

Troubles in the bedroom...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my girlfriend for almost two years. We are always together. I have been staying at her house more. Well if we fall asleep together and she wakes up I could be twitching and she will think I am masterbating. I have no way of proving ...

I'm gay and don't want to be!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - So I'm 19 years old. I have had a tough, tough life. My Mother had me at 14, she was a drug addict and and alcoholic. So therefore I was adopted by a single woman I lived with her for pretty much all of my childhood during that childhood I was ...

I am not turned on any more at all!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - I am a lesbian and me and my girlfriend have been together for almost six months.... and our sex life is so boring no. Do you think that we should have waited instead of having sex so soon?? It's not her it's really me, I am not turned on any more ...

What the hell is a married man doing in gay bars anyway?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

17 March 2009 (M) - I am 23 and have just broken up with my boyfriend of 6-months (he's 34 years old). I broke up with him after finding out he was married with two children; I feel disgusted and sick and have self-loathing. We met in a gay bar that's popular loca...

I don't want to cheat, jsut use her to see if I have potntial to be Bi...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - Hi I'm a straight female in a relationship with a guy, but I have a crush on a another girl. But the problem is I have a close relative who I call my sis but she really isn't. We'll call her Jen. Ok now Jen's sister is the girl I'm crushing on. ...

My gay b/f says he has always seen his future as being with a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Hey I have a problem and I really need help. I have a boyfriend that is Bi.(I am gay by the way.) We have been together for little over one year. We are having a little issue with commitment. He tells me that he loves me, but he isn't sure if he can ...

I have a thing for a girl at work, but I think I've been stabbed in the back. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Please offer some insight I am confused. I am a bisexual,I only kissed a woman and -I am not open about it, only with a few close friends. Since before christmas, I felt a connection with a coworker she is woman a married woman, and I am a singl...

Boyfriend of my g/f's best friend keeps coming on to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - I'm 22 and my girlfriend's 21. Me and my girlfriend often socialise with her best friend (who's 23) and her fiance (he's 24). For the past few weeks, whenever my girlfriend and her best friend go the bathroom if we're out anywhere, her fi...

I don't know what to do because I have a girlfriend,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - Well I need some advice, I just turned 18 and for my party my friends and I went down to my summer house to have a party. I have never thought of my friends romantically nether girls nor guys, but something really weird happened. I'm not gay, and ...

I don't know why I'm so jealous!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Help me! I don't know why I'm so jealous! Im 15, bi and really fancy my best friend. She knows i like her but she doesnt like me that way. however, i find myself really jelous when my other best friend goes round to hers, or shopping with ...

Underappreciated and sexually frustrated

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

14 March 2009 (M) - I'm 19 and gay, and have been dating my boyfriend for the last 2 years. He's 33 so a bit older, but that's not why i am here today. I'm a very sexually active person, that's just the way i am. I don't sleep around or anything like that - complete...

How to tell if a guy is gay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

13 March 2009 (M) - I'm a guy. And there is this guy that gives me some signals. I would like to know if he is in to me. If he is gay or smthing. Well, he hugs me and when i am trying to sleep he comes near me and tells me to kiss his cheek for goodnight. but t...

Is she just flirting or trying to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - ok, so i like this woman (for a few years) who is quite a serious person, she knows that i like her and she told me she has feelings for me too. we are not together bcos she has a bf. not long ago she told me about this other man she's been fli...

My ex is gay and he is going through a difficult time. Should I help him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - Hi Need some advice I found out (because i was being nosey and looking where I shouldn't have been) that my ex the father of my child is gay. He has been seeing someone for 2 yrs and I didn't know! Our child spends time with them both and constan...

How am I going to know if the guy is gay or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

13 March 2009 (M) - thanks everybody who have contributed in answering my questions. again even though i can not change the nature of bein a gay and a mascline guy, how do i know that those mascline guys that are bein attracted to me are gay or not? how do i a...

Why don't I get wet anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - I have a girlfriend, and we've had a very good sex life. I am straight, I admit, but I love her so much, and her body does turn me on. (Bi, I guess?) Anyway, I've gotten wet just by using falaces, and doing the act on her, or even thinking about i...

I am starting to have physical attraction to a female friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - For the past few months i've developed a rather strong physical attraction to one of my female friends. I've never ever been attracted to a girl or even thought about it and always simply liked guys. I was freaked out by my feelings at first but i ...

How normal is it for a girl to enjoy watching gay sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Right, basically what i want to ask is how normal is it for a girl to enjoy watching gay sex? I started off just enjoying gay films, like nothing explicit or anything just normal films. But then it kinda started getting more than that, i really don'...

Should I start practicing to like girls?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - another big problem with me is that almost those that are attracted to me are seems to be straight guys, i like sexy straight guys so much but i don't like female guys and i don't wish to move with them infact i hate their way of behaving as am a ...

What should I do when I first meet him? Hug? Say hey?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - im a 18 year old guy and im planning to go on a date with a 23 year old guy, i just dont know how to approach him when i meet him? hug? just a simple hey? what should i do when i first meet him? we have been set on a blind date by our friends... b...

My community and religion do not accept gay people, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - can any body help me with this ugly situation? well it all started when i was 14 back in the school i notice that i like guys and enjoy chating with them all the time but during that time i never know exactely what is wrong with me i thought ...

I need help developing my 'gaydar'!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - There's a guy that i really like at my college. the only problem is that i don't know his name or anything about him! i am really shy and find it hard to make eye contact, but have wanted to get to know him more for about a year, and i really want ...

Am I bisexual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Hi guys, So, one night i was out with my fiance and we bumped into our gym crew in a club. My fiance was so drunk that night i was really embarrassed and let him do his own thing. My gym instructor (who's female) was stood in the corner moving to...

Messing around with other guy but I want to be straight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - Hi i am a straigh 16 year old male and I have a few things on my mind. I experienced with another guy friend of mine awhile back and i honeslty didnt know what i was doing. and we humped eachother. nipple play. penis play. thats it. nothing with him ...

Am I reading into this or could there really be true feelings?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - I have been interested in this man for about 3 years. I never thought I would ever get a chance to talk to him because I am just way too shy. Last summer I was out with some friends and he happened to come in to the place where we were hanging ...

Old fashioned, or something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - im a gay male been dating a man for seven months and we fooled around we never had anal sex he is 54 im 41 could he be oldfashioned or could it be something else? we talked about being committed to each other...

I want to still be a virgiin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - Hello, I have had expierences in my past life and I can not stop thinking about them. when i think about them i reallize how stupid i was and wish i could go back and change it. I am a straight male and awhile back me and a friend humped eachother ...

I used to mess around with my male neighbour - does this count as my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I am wondering about a few things and its making me worry and I feel soo guilty. A couple years back I was getting kinda sexual with my nieghbor friend we didnt have sex or anything. just kinda experimented together. like masturbated together ...

Threesome with partner & friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - My partner Mark and I have been together for a few years now. About a year ago, we were approched by one of my friends for a threesome. After considering pros and cons, we decided not to gof or it for the sake of our relationship. Ho...

Crying after an orgasm at night

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - I am a lesbian in a completely monogamous relationship. My partner and I have been together for about 2 years now and have known each other for 3. I've read about crying after orgasms, and it's been happening to me for a year or more now. I'm not ...

Husband not interested in me but mailing photos of himself to a guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

8 March 2009 (F) - For the past few weeks, me and my husband's sex life used to be very good, but now it's gone from red-hot to zero-passion. My husband doesn't seem to show any interest in sex with me any more - I even wore sexy lingerie one night to try and get h...