A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:For the past few months i've developed a rather strong physical attraction to one of my female friends. I've never ever been attracted to a girl or even thought about it and always simply liked guys. I was freaked out by my feelings at first but i guess i've just learnt to accept them - they're there whether i like it or not and trying to work out whether i'm suddenly a lesbian isn't going to really help either.However, i guess the situation is just starting to frustrate me and i don't really know what to do. We're not really that close friends we just chat sometimes, i don't even like her that much as a person and yet i feel myself phyically longing for her. We're at collage together so i have to see her everyday and i can hardly cope being around her. In one way it feels like heaven but then the huge desire for her just overwhelms me and its torture not being able to touch or kiss her. Sounds mental i know!Anyway, i'd love some advice, even if its just to tell me to get a grip and stop fantasising about this girl who's suddenly become the most beautiful person in the world to me:) Thanks everyone...x
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reader, loving arms +, writes (12 March 2009):
Sometimes this happens, for me it never happened until i was 32! and I thought i had some kind of hormonal problem. It turned out I was just a late developer and had the most magical relationship with a lady for 4 years. You might be gay and you might just be attracted to her. Youu say you're not even sure if you like her as a person. This made me laugh as a friend of mine often said to me "yeah you're a lesbian cos it's either f**k 'em or fight 'em" I now wonder if this is true now.
In answer to your question, there's not a lot you can do execept to get closer to her and see what developes. Good luck.
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