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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

Should I keep things the way they are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - I am gay asia man. Dating with the white guy and both of us love each other.. One thing is he is not out yet to his family and friend... Several situation between us.. I am still love and be with him... What do I need to do ? just keep...

Fiance having sex with other guys won't admit it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - What do I do if I know my fiance is having sex with other guys but he won't admit it to me???...

Is my boyfriend gay and just not admitting it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

30 December 2008 (?) - Is my Boyfriend Gay? Okay so my boyfriend and I have slept together (when I say slept togetehr I mean beside each other NOT sex). He's spent the night at my house about 3 times and we've been in the same bed. I dont wear a bra to sleep in. He'...

I'm a lesbian but I'm not like other lesbians

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - A lot of people seem to think I'm 'weird' for various reasons, but I always tell myself that I'm a perfectly normal teenage lesbian. But some of the things others, including other lesbians, are saying is starting to make me wonder... One thing...

How do I deal with my difficult friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - Okay, so I have this problem with a friend. He's perfectly nice when sober if a bit oblivious to the way he behaves. But he's a hard drinker and when he drinks he acts in a strange way. we're both gay and when we go to gay clubs, he is only really ...

How can I solve this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - I am a 18 year old asian boy and I love a boy who is 13 . we are same sex and we love each other.But the other people don't accept it and want to forbid it.He is a dependent and live with his elder siblings.They are controlling him everythi...

Can I fix things the way they used to be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - See I myself is gay and I live with a few straight guys I work for a carinval company that house a few us including myself for the winter to work or update rides. I met this wonderful straight guy and had a quite a few encounters when no one was ...

How to have sex with a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I am a girl and with my second girlfriend. I haven't had sex with a girl before. Can someone tell me how to do it well??? Thanks...

Straight girl fancies her gay male friend....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I'm a straight girl who fancies her male gay best friend. I've known him for 3 months and he told me he was gay from the start. We clicked from the start and we have great chemistry. Initially I tried to set him up with dates with some other gay ...

Bisexual husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hi all Let me give you a short background first...married 13 years with 2 kids. I am bi myself,came out about 6 years ago. When I came out he was there as I said it outloud to both of us, and we came to an understanding I would not explore or e...

How do I let people know I'm gay

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - hello you guys well next year am gonna b a senior so am looking foward to going to the US to study my career and there are two reasons i wanna leave my country, one is to get a better euducation and the other is to b finally able to introduce mys...

What a complete mix up!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hi, I have just recently left a relationship, the second time round. I actually left on Christmas Eve. To cut a long story short, three years ago i was in a relationship with my partner for 9 years (gay relationship) and it ended when i met my new ...

Am I stupid to keep giving him money I don't have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hi, I am a 47 year old man who has just met a 25 year old man on a sex web site. The problem is I have just admitted to him that I am gay and no one else knows apart from him. He is also gay and a very understanding man. He is a student in another ...

Gay guy is touching my privates

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - i have a male friend i like him a lot,he just touch my body and touch my private parts and sit on my private parts i dont know what to do,is he a gay answer fast please...

Am I gay or is it just lust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - Ok i only have sex way guys i like having a cock in my mouth and ass the bigger the better and i have gay sex toys and use then alot. but heres the thing i dont love the men i have inside me. i'm not in the dark my family and friends know i have s...

Confused... am I doing something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - Ok well im gay girl who is 23 but for the last two months ive been talking to two girls. So when it came to meet up they stopped txtin they stopped calling and i know that one of the girls is openly gay. And if im honest im not ugly im just very...

I'm incredibly confused about my sexuality...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

24 December 2008 (M) - I'm so confused at the moment and I have no where else to turn. I'm 17 and in a great relationship with this girl but I can't stop thinking about other guys. Just the other week my girlfriend told me one of her gay m8s saw a picture of me and ...

Should I go to a gay bar to get things out of my system?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - ok, so in the past , iv always had a bit of a thing for girls aswel as guys. when i was 19 , i had a breif relationship with a girl , but it didnt really go anywhere as we never had any alone time, iv made out with a few girls when iv been out...

How can you explain that I have feelings for a female friend, being that I am a gay male?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - I am a gay male, but recently I have noticed that I kind of have feelings for one of my best friends who is a female. I'm not sure how true these feelings are, or if this is something that happens to some (gay) men who are very emotionally close ...

Why has my friend's behaviour changed? Are we cheating on our partners?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - well, i have a strange problem..i am in love with a boy who appears to be my best friend for past seven years.. although we first made love(that too just kissing and body play) only six months back..it was only after we had both got our respective ...

He doesn't want to tempt the friendship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - i have a bisexual guy best friend. he says im amazing but doesnt want to tempt the friendship..even tho he used to have a massive crush on me he sends me mixed signals..for example on friday we went for lunch then out that night ..he came ove...

Lesbian with high sex drive-is there something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5844 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - I all of a sudden i am having a high sex drive and also i'm a lesbian is there something wrong with me that I don't know...

I'm turned on by lesbian porn but I'm straight, does this mean I'm bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

19 December 2008 (F) - i am a straight female. i dont know if this normal or not but i have only dated men and really had no interest the other way around. But recently i noticed that when i watch porn, i am more turned on by watching women than i am a regular couple. i ...

Lover treated her badly, now wants her back, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5845 days ago

19 December 2008 (F) - I am a lesbian after being in all types of relationships, i finally found a women whom i connected with on some many levels. She was married to a man before and had, had a child. After meeting her child and her i hopelessly feel in love with both of ...

Is he making some stupid kind of joke with me, or did I just get hit on for a gay weekend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - I'm a 20 something guy who is not very experienced with women (1 'real' girlfriend). This guy I work with who is 2 or 3 years older than me came up to me and asked me if I went away overnight with some guy and woke up in the morning with a s...

I am bisexual and feel the need to cheat on my girlfriend with a man, how should I handle this hell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - Hi.i'm 23 and bi. I am really upset with myself right now. I have an amazing girlfriend. she is sexy, funny, tall, active, etc...and we share a fantastic sex life with each other. BUT, i still feel lonely(inside) when i'm with her. i feel a sm...

My roommate is straight with a girlfriend. I'm gay, I love him, we make out, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - Ok so here we go.. I'm gay and all my friends and most of my coworkers know it. I have one straight room mate and about 8 months ago my straight room mate asked me to give him a massage and it turned into more then that. At the time i thought ...

Is she with me for what she can get out of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - hi iim really mixed up about my relationship.i am a lesbian, i have been with my girlfriend for 6 yrs. we dont live together as i had a flat before we met. an she had house with her two grown up daughters. whenever i go there its like if she dont ...

My partner flirts with her daughter's boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

Is he gay but curious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I'm at university and a couple of weeks ago on a night out i met a gay guy who also lives in my halls and is friends with my friends. Despite being told that he was gay i couldn't help but fancying him a little. We've chatted since, then a we...

How do I go about finding a date online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - hi, i am lesbian but i live in muslim country and can't find any lesbian in my country. So i decided to find some one internet and start a online relation but after searching for so many days i can't find anyone. i wanted to ask you how can i find ...

That's not really a 50/50 friendship, is it? Do you think I let her use me and why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - Hi Guys. For about 4 years now, I've been living it pretty tough... See, I am completely in love with another woman (and that's not even the issue)... My problem is that I don't know what she wants... I don't know if she is a lesbian, but I'...

I'm bisexual - why does my interest for guys last so shortly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - please help me! i am bi and have been attracted to many women, and a few men. recently i found out that the overall attraction i have for any guy would not last more a month. i don't know why this has been happening, but i know those guys who have ...

I'm obsessed with my girlfriend, any self-help methods you can recommend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - i am in a relationship with a very charming and beautiful woman who is my classmate in the university and also a ex-colleague in a modelling agency. she's bisexual, and i was straight before i met her.. it wasnt too difficult for us to get to...

I think I may be turning gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

14 December 2008 (M) - I think i may be turning gay? what do you reckon, kinda messed up innit? Hey, I'm 17 and a boy. it appears confusing to me, but hopefully you'll understand more at the end. Anyway here goes, i pretty much like girls but over the past 12 mon...

Is there anything wrong with being gay

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - am im gay for being attracted to a girl who is every thing i wish i was. she has somthing special bout her smile and personality help and is there any thing wrong with being gay ...

Does a German woman/woman marriage "count" in the US?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - hey every one out there!!! got a question i 'm still married to a woman back in germany but i live here since 2006 and i'm also married to a man !!! does the marriage count here i mean between woman a woman?? cuz i here it don't!!! everyb...

I'm gay and in love with a straight guy!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

11 December 2008 (M) - Hey Everyone, I am a gay man and all my friends know. I currently am living with a straight mate, but I have recently fallen in love with him and not telling him is driving me crazy. He has a girlfriend who he has been seeing for 3 years and I ge...

My husband is hitting on men! Is he gay??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I'm 26, my husband's 28. We've been married for 6 months, and are well-liked locally. We like socializing, and do it fairly frequently. However, there's one problem which is affecting our marriage badly. He's flirting. Not with other women t...

Is it possible to turn gay or is he just confused?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Hi, My husband as recently landed the bombshell on me that he is gay. We have been married for 8 years and have two children together. I don't know what to do or think. Is it possible to turn gay? I know as a fact that he dated women before me and h...

I tell myself he wouldn't invest this much time to cheat on me, but I can't help thinking it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

8 December 2008 (M) - Hello, I am currently in embarking in my first real relationship, and it was going absolutely swimmingly for the first few months. To start out, I was a closeted gay male when I met this person. He slowly helped me build my confidence, and helped m...

Am I bisexual or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - i want to know if i am bisexual or not. lately i have been having fantasies about being with women. i am happily married to the father of my children but cant stop thinking about being with a woman....

Should I ask if she's interested in a relationship?

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8 December 2008 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend of about 3 years. I'm a freshman in college, and we are both going in different directions. He's in the AFROTC and I plan on spending the next school year in Leipzig. We were really good friends with this one girl- ...

Is my hubby gay?? Why does he want to have sex with another man while I watch?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - I have a problem...My husband and I have been married for 17 years.. We got married very young. I was 18 he was 23 he is the only man I've ever been with..He tought me everything I know about sex..We have always been very kinky in the bedroom..He ...

How do I approach the subject of having an open relationship with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - I'm a guy in my early 30's and I've been with my boy friend for over 2 years, he is quite younger than me (24) I love him very much, I care for him and push him in his studies so all going well. The only thing is before meeting him I had a ve...

Used for sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - During my holiday from England, I met this gay boy on the gay beach with his friends. He chatted me up and constantly complimented me on my appearance and made it quite obvious he wanted to have some fun with me. I wasn't too keen at first but fell ...

Do you think I should experiment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I'm 24, straight and I think i have a slight crush on another female colleague who is about my age and also straight. We work very closely together and we get along great, often having lunch together, sometimes just the two of us. I've found myself ...

Am I reading too much into the vibes I get from her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid readers. I've got a problem! Hence why I'm here!! I've got this huge attraction to another woman... I'd even go so far as to say I'm in love with her. I want to tell her because this is killing me. Problem is, I don't know how she...

I like my best friend even though she has a man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5859 days ago

6 December 2008 (F) - ok, so im 14 years old and my new best friend is 16. we are both girls. we are also both bisexual. she has been in a great relationship for almost 3 years and she really loves the guy. im starting to really like her though. ok scratch that, i have ...

How do I get over this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5859 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Okay well I have recently been tricked into liking this girl at my school. She says she is bisexual but I don't believe that because she wasn't being serious about going out with me. She tricked me twice. The First time I had no idea until everyone ...