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writes:I'm so confused at the moment and I have no where else to turn. I'm 17 and in a great relationship with this girl but I can't stop thinking about other guys. Just the other week my girlfriend told me one of her gay m8s saw a picture of me and thought I was really fit and asked whether I was gay or bi, we both laughed about it but I was incredibly turned on. I just kept picturing myself with this guy, also now days all I watch is gay porn. I don't think i'm gay, I still have sex with my girlfriend and i'm really into it. I still really like her. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): Gay porn seems more agresive and sexual,thats probably why most straight guys like it.It doesn't mean your gay it just means you took more interest into it.I personlly have been watching gay porn more than I should be so I'm going to try and take it out,try.Its really adicting and hard to take out.I would sugest the same thing for you to do, like blocking the sites.You may still want to be with a guy even if you stop watching it b/c you planted that thought into your mind and want to give to that thursty desire of lust.Its your body in the end and what you do with it is your choice.Sleep with that guy or not thats the finel thought you'll have to fill in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008): Im going through a similar situation, i like males and females, but its always females i want relationships with. Try not watching porn so much, that will influence how you feel as well. watch it less often, as it might be sex that turns you on. I found when i watched porn, i was more attracted to gay porn. when i didnt watch it as much, i became more attracted to females, and thoght more and more about females. I think it was a phase, and as i said, im attracted to both genders, but dont want to be with males. You might be going through a phase.
As your happy with your gf, your probably not gay, just going through a phase or bi, or just attracted to men, but dont actually want to be with them, if you get what im saying?
Hope this helps, all the best.
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reader, gayguy16 +, writes (25 December 2008):
 I Went through the exact same thing although I was not going out with anybody at the time of my episode, I found Eventually Relised that I Was Gay, don't really know about statistics but probably quite abit of human go though this at some point most likely in there teenage years like you, But I'm Afraid theres is most likely NO DEFINITE answer to you situation.
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reader, bella12  +, writes (24 December 2008):
well its a phase that many people go through.to a point where your confused about weather you like boys or girls.....its called being bi.but at the end everything will sum up and youll find that either you like guys or you like girls.,it really doesnt matter who you go for but.you have to talk with your girlfriend.....if you get my point........
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