A
male
age
36-40,
*onfused guy 2008
writes:well, i have a strange problem..i am in love with a boy who appears to be my best friend for past seven years.. although we first made love(that too just kissing and body play) only six months back..it was only after we had both got our respective girlfriends!we know we are both bisexuals.. and he knows that i am strongly committed to him..after that incident we make love quite frequently and i am quite sure no body suspects our behaviour because we too tactful in public.. but recently, he is behaving quite badly with me.. for no apparent reason and since i was always dominated by him.. its only me who feels the distress after every fight we have. i am not getting a clue about his change of behaviour.1) is he suffering from a guilt attack?2) are we cheating on our respective partners.?. but i am quite sure that i love my girlfriend very much.3)how do i keep our friendship going on?plz suggest i am too dependant on him..
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (23 December 2008):
 Yes, you are cheating on your girlfriends. Unless they know of and approve of your romantic relationship with your boyfriend it is cheating. Cheating is anything that is done behind the back of your partner, lying to them and doing something you know they would disaprove of. So, yes, you are cheating.
As to why your boyfriends behaviour has recently changed it is hard to say. He may be feeling guilty about the relationship, guilty about cheating or just be going through a rough time right now and taking it out on you. It is hard to say with the limited information I have here.
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