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writes:ok, so in the past , iv always had a bit of a thing for girls aswel as guys.when i was 19 , i had a breif relationship with a girl , but it didnt really go anywhere as we never had any alone time, iv made out with a few girls when iv been out in town drunk or at a party, but its never been anything more.iv been with my partner now for about 6 months, and i love him soooooooooo much,but thing is , lately more than anything, iv been having dreams that me and my ex girlfriend were still together and things were 'hotter' than when we were actually dating.(do you ever get that intense feeling when some one you have liked for ages finally says hi to you for the first time?)when i think about what it would be like to be able to be with a girl in that way again , i get that feeling- its drivng me mad, i was even thinking of going to a gay bar, just to 'have a few snogs with some girls' and get it out of my system, but wouldnt that be cheating on my boyfriend?i dont know what to do ? its like my body wants satisfying in a way that i know he cant .............
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah we had a conversation, funnily enough just after I'd posted this, but he said that no matter what, he would never want to let me go, or share me and I said to him, not even with another girl, and he said no, you're all mine, I can't believe you would share me. Luckily this wasn't in an argumentative way.So guys, you're right, it's no girls for me lol...Do you think that maybe it could encourage me to cheat on him if I was in the wrong situation and kinda gave in? Also he thinks that no matter if it's a guy or a girl it's still cheating, I guess I agree to be honest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008): Just ask your boyfriend if he'd enjoy watching you get it on with another girl? He'll probably say yes.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (25 December 2008):
Talk to your boyfriend about it.
Does he know you are Bi?
He might love the idea of you going to a bar and kissing girls. He may want to come with you.
Other than that you just have to accept that being Bi is difficult and at the moment you are in a relationship with a boy, so no girls for you.
Good Luck!! xx
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