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Archived questions from: July, 2016 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

How do I stop feeling so alone when every single friend is coupled up and I have no family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3064 days ago

31 July 2016 (M) - I have two different friendship groups who I socialise with regularly plus a few friends who I see individually on a regular basis rather than as part of any group. I have known all of them for between 4 and 10 years. They are all aged between ...

Is she just an attention seeker? A flirt? Where so I draw the line with her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3064 days ago

31 July 2016 (M) - Where do you draw the line when you're a very flirty person and like the attention? What I mean is my work colleague is a very flirty person, the touchy feeling type. But where do you draw the line without making the person your flirting with g...

What are signs a girl wants me to move the conversation to asking her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

31 July 2016 (M) - How do you know if a woman is into you? I'm a 23 yr old virgin and have had one girlfriend only. It lasted two years. Shyness/lack of confidence gets in my way. Whether I think I'm too short/not good looking/charismatic enough. When...

Should I keep my distance or try to reconnect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3064 days ago

31 July 2016 (M) - I'm 19 years old. I've been friends with this girl for a long time (Sense my sophomore year of high school). She means the world to me and care for her deeply. We listen to each other and we had fun together going on walks and hanging out. She was ...

Will moving to another state bring me to a happier place than all the drama I've endure here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

31 July 2016 (F) - Hey I need some advice Lately I've been going through alot of bad things. I know it's life and everyone goes through things some point. But I feel like it's only me at the moment. I'm extremely frustrated!!!! I've never been this frustrated bef...

Is it fair that I don't want my boyfriend to go drinking with his female colleagues?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

30 July 2016 (F) - Hey guys :) so I've boyfriend for 6 years now, we are usually very happy, and we've been living together for 1 year. Neither of us go out drinking a lot (we are both very homely). Well recently boyfriend started a new office job, and his team has...

Social media signs are worrying me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3066 days ago

30 July 2016 (M) - I'm friends with a female at work and was on Facebook, but she deleted me from her list of friends due to a misunderstanding, which has since been sorted out. She said she would put me back on her list of friends on Facebook but nothing has ...

Should I ask him out or stay friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3064 days ago

29 July 2016 (M) - Hi I have recently broke up with my boyfriend and I have been thinking about trying to get back together with my first love the only possible is we both agree it was for the best to stay friends so should I ask him back out or should I leave an...

Ignored at my best friends wedding and the year leading up to it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - My friend of 20 years got married at the weekend. A year ago she got engaged and I was saddened that I read it on Facebook- she used to pick up the phone and tell me news visa versa. It has been a one sided friendship for many years- I'll invite her ...

Best friend or girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2973 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - So I've known my best friend since sixth grade,she moved to our hometown during the summer before sixth grade and every since then we've been inseparable. We've been there for each other during everything birth of her first born the birth of ...

I got rejected but I still like him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - I met a guy on tinder in May and I fell for him and I thought it was mutual because when we see (which is not very often due to his job) we always make out and stuff, plus he once asked me if I would like to fall in love with him. A few days ago, I ...

Should I ask him if he is messing about with his old flings?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

26 July 2016 (F) - Hi everyone, I got back with my ex who promised he would like to have a serious relationship with me and would not mess with other gals again. My rule is he can have his friends but he can't cheat - just be honest and he is free to go. Don...

Why do men act the way they do ? Not replying? Changing plans at last minute?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

26 July 2016 (F) - Im hoping a few men will reply to this. I want to know why men do and say things the way they do . If a woman asks a basic question like how you doing fancy meeting up next week ? and the man has seen the message but doesnt reply and its been 5 d...

I wonder where do I stand in all of this? My deep seated trust issues are affecting me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3068 days ago

26 July 2016 (F) - There is this guy friend of mine. This started when we were around 14-15 years old (well I will be 21 y/o this year). He was my friend, a good friend. We were actually acquaintenced since we were 7 years old (due to the fact we were in the same sch...

Is there anything wrong with liking and crushing for a cousin? My cousin is hot..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

26 July 2016 (M) - so I have this problem i don't know if it wrong or not but , i knew i had a cousin, but never knew how she looked like. Later she went to my college and saw her , but i didn't know she was my cousin, and well nobody told me or showed me a picture ...

Did it mean anything or was it just the drink?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

25 July 2016 (F) - Hi. I need help to figure out this guy's behavior. We have been friends since a long time now and went out on dates as well. We never had a physical rel but he knew I was into him. He is an introvert and too shy to even ask me out for dates. He ...

Does my obliging nature cause women to think I'm too boring a guy, for them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

25 July 2016 (M) - Am I boring in relationships, I like going out dancing to live bands, taking walks in parks, going shopping,going to movies, holding hands, nice places to go eat, I like cooking, if a woman needs help at her place, I can do a lot when it comes to ...

My boyfriend has many female friends and I am jealous!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - I am extremely jealous when it comes to my boyfriend that it scares me! We don't live together but, I end up stalking him on social media. Seeing if he is liking other girls pictures on Instagram etc. He's French so, I end up translating every ...

I like my best friend. Should I tell him I have feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3064 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, There is this guy i like. I have known him for a long time. I have had feelings for him for awhile. The thing is that i dont know if i should tell him or not. I think he likes me but im not sure... Can you please help me? And it is also ...

Why am I undecided about the sort of guy I'd like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - Hi Agony Aunts, I really need your help. I'm about to be a sophomore in college and I'm so unsure about what I want when it comes to guys. I feel as if all of my friends have had hookups and seem so sure of themselves when it comes to sexual ...

How can I best manage my (someyimes) desire to cross dress? I

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

23 July 2016 (M) - I'll start off by telling you I'm a crossdresser (I think). My life seems to be in a loop where I go through phases of wanting to dress up 24/7 and then phases when I don't even think about clothes or being feminine. I feel really comfortable ...

My potential date is acting strangely. How should I approach this issue? What can I say?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

23 July 2016 (F) - My friend and i have decided to go on a date next week. We always chat online ( we have met in person ). The other day he said him and his family were doing something for his dads birthday going to a seaside so the original date was canceled til...

Should I give up on a girl I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

23 July 2016 (M) - I've known this girl, for what seems like an eternity, we get along great and I can always be myself around her, and I've always felt some form of attraction for her, nothing has happened between us, but in the last few months I felt I was losing ...

How can I stop caring about what people say about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

23 July 2016 (F) - This is a tough question as I have spend most of my young and early adult life caring about what people think- my life revolves around other people's opinions and how to be a people pleaser - most recently I have gotten a great corporate job and it ...

How can I stop these obsessive thoughts about men 24/7

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

23 July 2016 (F) - I'm a 30 year old woman that has on the outside everything going for her 1.hearh 2. A family especially a love sister and a sown what great materialistic things such as looks- money- and a great job. Even though my life seems structured and great ...

Almost twice my age, will he freak out if I tell him I find him attractive?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

23 July 2016 (F) - How would men in their late 40s feel if a girl in her mid 20s had feelings and a few x-rated thoughts about them? Would they be repulsed or find it a joke, or be interested in her? Yes I do like a man a bit older and I'm so scared to hell him inca...

How many times can I keep bringing this to his attention before he gets that he's hurting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - I've been going out with my b/f for 3 years. He makes plans to do things with me then changes the plans if something else comes up. He'll say I don't do it on purpose but I feel like i'm only good enough if something else doesn't come up. When I ...

Should I be worried about my boyfriend's comment to his female friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - Should I be worried about my boyfriend's comment to his female friend?. They work in the same place. He did a shift before she started work. He had done something wrong and she had to sort the problem out. It was some mistake he made while working....

Is it wrong that my distant cousin and I share passionate times together? She has a Bf.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

21 July 2016 (M) - I love my distant cousin. We have made love and it feels like the most beautiful thing I have ever done in my life. I don't even feel guilty about it. I have had meaningless sex with other girls before but with her its just amazing and I cuddle her ...

Haven't integrated into this new area. Should I move back home or stick it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

21 July 2016 (F) - Hi, I moved to from one county to another to be with my boyfriend 9 months ago and I'm feeling a little lost. Since being here, i've found it hard to make freinds, mostly becuase I don't feel there's a great deal here that I want to get invol...

He's the brother I wished I had!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3066 days ago

21 July 2016 (M) - Here is my story, For the past two years, I went on a mission trip with my church for a week. I got to know and see the good in people but there is someone special that I met. Last year, we started to get to know one another but this year, we hit i...

Does he really not realize he was wrong to take off without coming over my house ? Does he believe his own lies?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

20 July 2016 (F) - I have been dating a guy for a month and 1/2 who told me right from the start he is bipolar. At least once a week he will do something such as make plans with me and then just go off with somebody else and not even call me to let me know. He wil...

I had a crush on my Teacher while at School. Should I tell him about that crush when we meet for a catchup?.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

20 July 2016 (F) - I had a crush on my Teacher while at School. I recently came across his Facebook page and added him as a friend and we started chatting online. What have I been doing since I left School, (ten years ago). He is in his 50's now and still as han...

He's shy. Was he hinting towards going out together and wanted me to take the hint?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - This shy guy has a major crush on me. We don't talk much because he gets nervous talking to me. So One day while nervously talking to me he suddenly bring up the food topic ...telling me about his favorite Mexican food he gets from this Mexica...

This girl keeps texting and ringing my boyfriend, what should we do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - There's this girl who keeps ringing and texting my boyfriend. She rings him like 5 times a day no joke! But my boyfriend doesn't answer, she sent him a message the other day saying how they are meant to be friends and how friends don't ignore each ...

My close friends are saying he doesn't like me....what do you think ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - I work for a big retail food company. I have a shy male supervisor who has a crush on me .He smiles at me and stares at me, notices little changes in me , gets jealous when guys talk to me gets all nervous and blushy around me but very talkativ...

FWB but getting emotionally attached

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

18 July 2016 (F) - Hi, i have a male best friend of 12 years who iv recently started sleeping with. We both don't want a relationship but i have found myself getting upset at the thought of him getting a girlfriend. I can't be with him because i know it wouldn't work ...

A girl is flirting with my boyfriend. Should I ask him about this girl? Or go see the girl myself?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

18 July 2016 (F) - Hello I have been with my boyfriend for almost 12 months now, and I have been really happy. Everything has been fine until this year, when he was told he had to attend a computer course at a technical college once a week. Since going to col...

Feeling trapped but afraid to leave and regret it.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

17 July 2016 (F) - I feel like I am in a predicament. I am in a relationship of about a year and four months. We were friends a few years before getting together. Due to circumstances after a few months of us dating I moved in with him because I had nowhere else to ...

He is 19. Should I break up with him for my parents? His parents are not happy either

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

17 July 2016 (F) - Friends I want help ! ??please give me some suggestions I fell in love I don't know what to do My age is 14 and my bf age is 19 ,we 're best friends now we are dating ! And I really love him I don't wanna lose him any more i have too many ...

Should I be postponing things because I'm feeling lonely and unwanted as a 23 year old virgin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

17 July 2016 (M) - I'm having this mental block recently where not having sex has made me postpone plans about my life. I was a very awkward kid and didnt become more comfortable in myself until recently. I have one ex girlfriend but we never had intercourse just...

I've known her for years and I love her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

16 July 2016 (M) - Help, I'm a 20 year old guy and just recently started talking to my best friend from since I was 12, I had a crush on her when we were younger and than we lost contact cuz of the wrong people we were in relationships with... We just st...

I'm tired of being the only single one in my group

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

15 July 2016 (F) - I'm 23, about to be 24 and have had a tricky time navigating adult life. I've joined many new groups, gotten involved in church, have a good job and my own place. I have a good group of friends, but I'm the only single one. I've explored some dating ...

He wants to be friends but I’m not sure what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

15 July 2016 (F) - Ok so I was seeing this guy for about 3 months. I met him in work and he found me on Facebook to ask me out so he did all the chasing. Things started to get kinda physical a few dates in so I had to tell him I was still a virgin because I just ...

Wants a brood mare? Should I meet him? Been talking to him online but some of his questions are a concern.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

15 July 2016 (F) - I know this sounds silly however I have been talking to this guy online. I told him I would meet him as a friend. He has been asking some off questions like if I will be fertile when we have planned to meet. He has asked several times and also w...

How Do I Move Forward?? ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

15 July 2016 (F) - okay so, i was in a relationship with my ex for 4 years, which was fairly complicated. We started out as close friends which then turned into something more serious, it ended sadly 6 years ago, and there isnt a day i dont think about her, sometime...

Since we spoke and I have not heard from him. Do you think that he's not interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

15 July 2016 (F) - hi there, I would really like some help on a current situation :) basically I have been working at a summer camp for 3 months, I met a guy there but I did not really notice him until the final month. I started to get to know him and I developed ...

Really like this guy, but if he did like me wouldn't he really want to see me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - hello, I have been speaking to this guy for nearly 4 years on and off. we have always said we care for each other and have a natural connection but haven't done anything about it due to my travelling and uni and his work. We text all day everyday...

What is all this that I'm feeling and why ? He's a best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - I have been best friends with this guy for nearly 2 years now. Well i consider him as a bestie. He is 19 years old and i know everything about him ranging from his hobbies to his family. I feel like i am really close to him so much so that i know ...

Ending friendships when the friendship is going no where. Does this happen to others? Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3082 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - Would it be weird if a 20 year old starts feeling the need to end most of her friendships? I feel like i wont achieve anything big with the friends that i have now. I would like to know if there is any of you who ever felt this way and how did ...