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writes:I love my distant cousin. We have made love and it feels like the most beautiful thing I have ever done in my life. I don't even feel guilty about it. I have had meaningless sex with other girls before but with her its just amazing and I cuddle her whole night.She has a boyfriend and she says she loves him very much. But when she is with me she forgets all things and loves me passionately.Is something wrong with us? I know its a cultural taboo and all but I just love her with my whole heart.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 July 2016):
 Banging a distant cousin is no big deal, banging a girl who has a BF? Shady. She is shady, YOU are shady.
It shows a clear disrespect not only for her, but her relationship and... her BF. Why does that matter to you? Well, let's put the shoe on the other foot here... HOW would you feel if you were dating someone and she was banging her cousin on the side while claiming to love you?
And like Cindy cares, at some point she WILL have to make a choice, BF or banging you. SHE will probably pick the BF and discard you.
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reader, miss frank  +, writes (22 July 2016):
What's your question here? Is it wrong to have a relationship with your distant cousin or someone who's head a partner?
How do you feel about having such strong feelings for someone who loves someone else? Who's lying and cheating on the person they proclaim to love? What do you think of a person who does that? Of their values and morals? And what do you think of a person what cheats with them? And their values and morals? And I wonder what you think will eventually happen all round...
Yes, it's wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2016): Is it wrong to cheat? Yes! Even distant cousins are relatives, and we have so many options outside our own DNA that we can avoid even distant relatives when it comes to sex. You have no respect that she has a boyfriend. Is that wrong? Yes!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (22 July 2016):
 The taboo is not that she is a DISTANT cousin !, the taboo is that she has a boyfriend and you are helping her to cheat on him.
" Her problem " you will shrug it off " as for me , I am single ".
No, your problem too. You are going to get hurt. If she loves him so very much ,yet she is getting her kicks from you, imagine what she will do of you the moment she gets tired of the novelty or finds another playmate to be "passionate " with. She'll discard you like a dirty Kleenex without even a by-your-leave.
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