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Archived questions from: February, 2012 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I'm afraid this model-gorgeous girl will steal my thunder at my wedding!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Hi everyone! I know this is gonna sound childish and all but here's the thing: I'm getting married in a few months. It's gonna be a very intimate ceremony with just my fiancé and I plus the witnesses and a bunch of friends. Problem is, my fiancé's ...

How should I cut her out of my life without falling out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I feel like one of my good friends does not make an effort to be my friend and Im thinking about burning bridges with her. Weve been friends a while now, about 7 years. To be fair to her, she does work full time and have 2 kids to bring up and is ...

Am I suffering from male jealousy, or friendship jealousy, or am I right in not wanting this relationship to continue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 February 2012 (M) - My wife has this gay male friend. He and her were friends before we even started dating. I kind of have no problem with this, but he is a little over the top. Like dancing around in our house wearing nothing but short-shorts and being a typical ...

How can I manage my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (M) - alright, long question here: ok so about a year or so ago i had told this girl whom i had been really good friends with for about 2 years that i liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but she told me that she liked someone ...

Liking a friend's ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I really.like my friend's ex-bf. They have broken up many times when they dated and got back together. They broke up again and now my friend has a new boyfriend. I'm afraid to tell her that I like her ex. But i want to tell her I like him but don't ...

Why did these relationships turn out oddly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - 1. a man was very nice/polite to a woman for the first 2 years. 2. this woman is well liked by their mutual friends. 3. the woman becomes friends with a few other women in the common circle. 4. one of the women she is close with gets along we...

Why does my male friend avoid me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Why does my male friend avoid me? We are both 21 and final year university students, 2 years ago our friends tried setting us up - (which we objected to)... and ever since then its like our friendship has been destroyed! He can't stand to be...

He became distant with me once he got engaged, how do I deal with being so upset over our lost friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - To be brief, a couple of years after my marriage, I met him 3 years ago. I instantly felt a strange a bonding and we began to talk. Don't make conclusions there! My marriage is happy, I am truthful and, he is now married happily too! I knew I r...

We stopped fooling around but to my surprise we still see each other. Does this mean he respects me? Or does it mean he is no longer interested in me sexually?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - i'm in a situation with a guy which first started off as a flirtation. we fooled around a few times (pg rated stuff) but i've pulled away from that and expected him to ignore me since he wasn't getting what he wanted. surprisingly though we still ...

How do I get my best friend back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4679 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm feeling rather depressed now as my best friend has not been talking to me for 2 months. Basically, this year, we both transferred to a girls' school and I told her that I wanted to make more friends one day when she actually kept getting ...

Am I too paranoid? I think I misundestand my friends, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4681 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - I'm in trouble of misunderstanding and I feel like my friends are avoiding me. They talk when they have to and avoid important talks with me. I just can't describe what my feelings say. It might be a long story, but I reaaallly need an advice:(...

I told my best friend that I like him and now he won't talk to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Hello, I told my best guy friend of 6 years that I liked him. He is shy as am I so I told him by txt. His reply was 'really? how long have you felt this way?' I told him about a year and now it has been nearly 3 weeks and he has not called,fb or...

All she can talk about is her b/f and it's wearing thin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - Ok, so I'm a 15 year old girl and am experiencing, 'issues' with my best friend. Around five months ago my friend got together with a boy that she really liked, and she's really happy with him. At first I was really happy for her, but now, not so ...

He has a g/f, but am I reading his actions the wrong way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4681 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - Hey, I’ve got a question concerning my friend. I’m a bi-curious guy so perhaps i’m reading into it to much, but this has been bugging me for a while now. Me and my housemate are quite good friends, but some of the stuff he does kind of makes me ...

How can I get my buddy to stop bugging me about my girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - Hello Dear cupid-ers! So, I have a question for ya'll I would ask my friends but .. Its about them really haha! So, Ive had a girlfriend for the past year and a half and i love her with all my heart, she is the one for me without a doubt and we r...

I feel like my friends are avoiding me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4601 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - I'm in trouble of misunderstanding and I feel like my friends are avoiding me. They talk when they have to and avoid important talks with me. I just can't describe what my feelings say. It might be a long story, but I reaaallly need an advice:(...

Should I go to a party in which my boyfriend's friend failed to invite him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend's friend invites me to his wife's baby shower. Should I go? His friend stopped talking to him and answering his phonecalls for resons we both don't understand but he keeps sending me random messages to wish me merry christmas, happy ...

Why doesn't my friend ever compliment me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4681 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - Why does my friend behave this way? I'm I overreacting? My friend I thought we were close doesn't compliment me.. She never tells me when I look nice or if she likes my bag, hair etc: nothing like that. Today I met up with her and a few othe...

I think I'm in love with my male best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - Hey, so, I'm a seventeen year old guy, living in the UK, and in short, I think I'm in love with my male best friend. I've known Ryan for about ten years. We've been best friends since first school, and we played together all the time. Around thr...

Why did he pull up my bra strap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I have a gay friend, who I will call Mark. He has on older brother, who I will call Malik. Well I was over at Mark's house and when Malik walked by me, Malik pulled my bra strap up, that had fallen onto my shoulder. I'm not to sure what he means by ...

Is he really happy for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 February 2012 (?) - Me and a guy friend were talking on Facebook: Him: Congratulations :) *comes online an hour later* Him: Hey you Him: Not long now till I'm back Me: Hi, yeah I know Him: So, congrautlations again - facebook official! :O Me: Thanks H...

How can I help my friend after her divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - My friend was married and now she has devorced her husband because the husband was cheating with her friend he got pregnant ,how should i help my friend to go through the devorce anger ,loss and loneliness ?...

He stood me up for no reason

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

26 February 2012 (?) - Me and this guy friend arranged to meet up this weekend; his idea actually. We do have a bit of a history. We've never dated but we did have a bit of casual "fun" when we were both single. I ended up developing feelings for him but I think that was ...

Should this change how I feel about my husband to be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - My Fiancé is a very inspiring person: born very poor single mother who had troubles with "the drink" (one Christmas he told me all he got was a black eye). Yet, he's now finishing a medical residency and has put everything behind him from his past, ...

Should I go to her party when her boyfriend doesn't like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I'm in trouble of misunderstanding and I feel like my friends are avoiding me. They talk when they have to and avoid important talks with me. I just can't describe what my feelings say. It might be a long story, but I reaaallly need an advice:(...

What are your thoughts on what he really meant, when he said (possibly not sober at time) that he loves and hates me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - Hi, So I've met a very sweet shy guy who I've been out with on 7 dates and we've been texting daily so in total 3 months. I received a message stating that he hates me but loves me at the same time! Then an hour later another message apologising ...

Need to break up with my LDR. But how do I tell this other guy in a subtle way that we should be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for approximately one year and eight months. For a year now, it's been a LDR. I made it rather clear to my current bf that if he moved away, this relationship will most likely fall apart. I said this because I know myse...

I'm a guy and like one of my straight friends. What things should I do to manage this situation tactfully?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - Hello. I like one of my best guy friends, and I too am a guy. I've been close friends with him for 3 or 4 years. We didn't really talk to each other for the first few years, but became close as we had classes and talked to each other more. It w...

This is an Unwanted Love Triangle. How should I be reacting in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - My good friend, C, introduced me to a guy friend of hers, M. Apparently M started liking me. He would ask me out almost every week to hang out. I just go with the flow and went with him. Unknowingly, it seems that C likes M. I had that feeli...

I make friends with girls more easily than boys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - Hi i am a 16 yr old boy i was wondering why is it that im not shy of girls and i have mostly girls as friends and not much boys as friends but i seem to be very shy of boys i can easily make friends with girls but with boys is quite difficult i ...

What was he thinking? What was this kiss all about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - Not sure if he was trying to kiss me or take advantage or what. My best friend and I were hanging out at his place when it happened and we have dated before, but it didn't work out and we were better friends than lovers. Well I was at his place a...

Which one? The one who likes me? Or the one I'm kind of into?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - There is this guy X who's in a class I'm in. And I’m kinda into to him. We talk in class sometimes but he’s extremely shy. We talk on Facebook at least once a week and he is the opposite of shy when we talk then. But I feel like I’m always the one ...

He's amazing, but he belittles me and doesn't trust me. Calls me goody-two-shoes. Do I end this relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - This is hard for me to write, its hard for me to come to terms with, but i think im near the end of my 20 month relationship. Since the day i meet him we became inseparable, he is my first serious boyfriend and its been a wonderful and life changing...

I don't understand why I am so caught on him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - What to do what to do... I met "Jeff" 10 years ago. We dated and had a good time. He dissapeared on me only to return a year later and we reconnected for a bit. Then he dissapeared, again. At the time both of us were party people and he espi...

How to fix this after the cheater was cheated.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

25 February 2012 (M) - Well, let's start it this way. I met this girl nearly half a year ago, and when I we started an official boyfriend/girlfriend relationship for nearly 4 months already. We have always been in a long distance relationship since the start, and I k...

I like him. he's nice. I want to know him better.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - I could do with some rleationship asking a guy out kind of way. I go swimming all the time and a lifeguard there I know from school. We don't ever talk in a full out conversation. But we both know who one another are. A week ago my friend came with ...

Friend wants me to come and spend alot of money for her birthday. I don't need the drama!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - I have a bit of a dilema regarding a friends birthday. I have this friend, we'll call her Tanya. We're not close, just mates who see eachother once a month or so and usually thru mutual friends as I am very close with one of her bestfriends who ...

My head is screaming that my boyfriend shouldn't treat me like this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Quick background: Both 17, together 2 years. Boyfriends best friend Craig. Other close friend Jake. Me and Craig are close, like siblings. We all play Xbox together and my boyfriend is extremely horrible to me on it but completely different in per...

Friend's boyfriend becoming too friendly, or over thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - i have a friend and she has a son who is few days younger then my daughter she is 23 and her partner is 24 and i am 20 and have a partner anyways the question i am wondering is her boyfriend is a real jerk to her and old fashion and isn't ...

If he wants sex he has no chance!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - *We made out a couple of weeks ago (drunk). Told me he had feelings. *I stayed at his place (didn't have sex) *It was awkward the next week in college oddly *He jetted off to France for a week (student exchange) where apparently he DID THINGS...

I'm getting tired of it, I really am!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - I was asking for advice concerning my ex we broke up in August remained friends he visits on weekends and has times he stays in the week I see our friendship like being on a roller coaster one minute fine then look out. We are nothing alike y...

Am I just a way to pass the time when he is bored?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Okay, well there is this guy and we met through school.(He now goes to a different school) When the summer holidays came round, was when we got talking, we met once that holiday too. We flirt and have a great time when we talk to eachother. But I ...

Is he gay? Bi? Straight? Or just not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

24 February 2012 (M) - Dear cupid funs, I have a situation that i really need help with. Here it is (sorry if it is long): I am 22 years old, closeted and straight-acting gay (its not really an act, as it is how I seem to be and i like to be, i really dont like femine...

Torn between boyfriend and home

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I really dont know what to do!!! I started uni in London 3 years ago and met a lovely boy who is now my boyfriend. We've been together for nearly 3 years and we live in a flat together in London that we rent from my grandmother. London has bee...

Can someone's hugs show how they feel about you? :)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - Hello :) I'm friends with the boy I like and we always hug goodbye. Lately,his hugs have been different. When I hug him he holds me really tight and he grabs my head and pushes my head against his chest and puts his fingers through my hair. ...

Have I lost my online friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

24 February 2012 (M) - I know this girl kind of. I know her online. She's a few years younger but it doesn't seem like it. We dont plan on ever meeting but we talk alot ~ often daily until recently. About 7 months back we had a kind of disagreement about my girlfriend of ...

I can't accept my friends faults and focus on her good points anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - my bestfriend and i have always got along really well until recently. she's a stronger personality than me and i've always just accepted that normally. until now. my whole year is going through a period of stress at the moment because of exams etc ...

B/f talks to too many girls on facebook and its starting to drive me crazy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - my boyfriend talks to lots of girls on facebook who are "old friends" as he says. i'm normally not a jealous person but this is starting to bug me as its in excess of 10 different girls, and the "chats" are quite overly friendly. they say things ...

Is it really "no big deal" for married women to have crushes on other men?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 February 2012 (M) - I would really be interested in hearing from married women on this one. What does it mean when your wife seems to be very smitten with a husband of a couple we are becoming friends with? Do I have a right to be upset? Or, should I just relax and ...

I don't like my boyfriend going out with his friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - Hi, I need some advice, i feel like im going crazy! I know this sounds bad but i don't really like my boyfriend going out with his friends. We have been together 4 years and i do love him alot, but ive always been really insecure and quite a para...