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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i'm in a situation with a guy which first started off as a flirtation. we fooled around a few times (pg rated stuff) but i've pulled away from that and expected him to ignore me since he wasn't getting what he wanted. surprisingly though we still see each other and we just hang out, to which my friends find incredibly suspicious as he has bad rep with girls. does this mean he's no longer interested in me in that way, or does he actually like me enough to respect me and wait till i'm comfortable getting physically closer to him, or is he just bidding his time till i give in?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (29 February 2012):
 It "means" that he's biding his time.... and he KNOWS he has enough of your interest such that, if he carefully orchestrates things, then he will get you to put out for him.... It's really quite simple.
The only question in MY MIND is: Are you savvy enough to see this for what it is, and avoid him before you end up on your back with him??????
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 February 2012):
 or all of the above.
we have no clue and neither do you
just don't do anything you don't think you should
enjoy the time together and if you stop enjoying it then stop spending time with him.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (28 February 2012):
 It might be he likes you, it might be he is just bidding his time. IT is really hard to say when I don't know the guy. I think if he was JUST after the sex he would have moved on to another girl already.
As long and you take it as slow as you feel you need, I think you will be OK.
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