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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Am I wrong to be in love with my best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I really need your help it's about me and my bestfriend of 4 years. We first met in middle school and it was love at first sight we immediatly clicked after months of talking we began dating. We dated on and off through middle s...

Why text me still when she isn't interested and we've only known each other a few months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I told this Girl I've known for a couple of month that I liked her and this was her response: i don't want anything at the moment with stuff going on and I don't want to lead you on and I don't expect you to like be waiting around for me to stop b...

I need help in this situation!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - Since I've gone back to school, I've met this girl that my other friends used to hang out with in the past year, and i have maked up situations that i can talk to her, but i dont want to get her to know that I like her, cause if this doesn't work, I ...

Do I cut him off? Try to ignore his interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I have a some what complicated dilemma. Me and a guy friend were fwb i suppose you'd call it for maybe 6 months or so, this was last year and it also ended last year as he got a girlfriend but we agreed to stay friends. Basically a few months ago we ...

Guys are so hard to read!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - So...I've been wondering about this. I am a female college freshman..I've been here for about six weeks now. I have been loving college so much, and I am thoroughly enjoying nearly every experience so far (I say nearly..not every class is fun ...

One night stand with my friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Last week i made a big mistake , i had a 1 night stand with a male friend of mine. Since that night he has asked me to move in with him, told me he will treat me like a queen. I really don't know what to do?...

How do I console him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I've been friends with a guy since middle school. We haven't talked much for a couple months because of some issues involving work, friends, and a fight. Today he told me that his dad died three days ago. i had no idea what to say to him. What...

I like my boss, but..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - The other day, I went in for an interview, and the guy who interviewed me seemed to be close to my age or a couple years older, with a very attractive face and pleasing manners. He seemed quite friendly and easily amused. I however get the ...

My best friend's brother seem interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I have been best friends with this girl since kindergarten, and we are now in 11th grade and I have been getting different vibes from her 9th grade brother, I think he might like me. He has not told me or anything but I just have this feeling ...

How can I show him I'm interested?

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30 September 2010 (F) - I've recently reconnected with an old friend online. We comment back and forth daily and have recently started sending messages. Thing is the messages are mostly about movies we like, things we've done over the past 10 yrs., etc. How do I step it ...

My friend never laughs at all

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - my freind is a girl and i dont think she has a funny bone in her. what i mean is that she never laughs at all.. for EXP: my fat asain funny guy (we all know one)was with me when i was with her, while we were talking about knotts, and he said "im ...

Truly in love with married man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I have been married for 21 years and with my husband since I was 15. i have changed alot over the years and my marriage is one of best friends more than lovers. 8 months ago I began chatting with a guy on a social network site of a interest we ...

Should I tell her who I don't like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Okay, so my friend and I were talking about other people that thought we liked them but we just acted that way to be nice. There is this person that used to be really mean to me and now I don't like them but they think I'm their best friend. I ...

Gay in Denial..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - I have a serious obsession, it's with a guy, who I hang round with an awful lot. I am completely out as gay, and although he says he is not gay, there are so many factors that make us know he is not telling the truth. As wrong as it may be, I once ...

He kissed me, what does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Today I went out with a friend I didn't see for the past two months. He had called me before but I was kind of sad because I was interested in someone who didn't show much interest in me. well we went out talked all the afternoon about a lot of t...

I've never felt this way before! Do you think he feels the same for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been friends with this guy for about 5 months now. Ever since the first night we hung out we have been basically inseparable. We never did anything sexual, we never even kissed. I'm in love with him! But I don't think he would ev...

Can I say this ONE, LAST, SHORT thing to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I posted awhile back about a guy not texting back (see background info below this post). Recently a friend told me about how shy this guy is and I should give it one more chance. I just wanted to say one last, short thing to him (to make it clea...

My ex is self obsessed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Hi, my GF left me and wants us to "be friends". But its too painful even seeing her. How do i tell her? Also i think shes self obssessed, as apparantley she thinks that i was aiming a performance of the song "Sunny Afternoon" at her, what do i do?...

Is it okay to pull away from the person you think loves you to test them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I never thought I would consider “testing” my boyfriend, but here I am dealing with some doubts that are driving me to seek action. My first boyfriend of over 1.5 years is by all initial impressions a great guy. We share the same values, respect ...

Friend who only talks about herself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Hi guys, just a question. I would appreciate some advice. I have a good friend who talks about herself most of the time. She would call me and tell me about herself, sometimes even asking me to ask her a question so she can tell me more about he...

What are some birthday ideas for my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Hi ppl. Um male 21. Its my best friend's birthday next week. She s quiet and shy type of girl. What should i get her for her birthday? Any ideas? Any sweet and thoughtful ideas? Thanks in advance ppl. :)...

Is it fair to eject people from your life who don't mind their own business?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - I know that no-one's perfect, but I have lost a lot of friends lately because I can't stand people who stick their nose in my business. They try to manipulate me. Is it fair to eject people from your life who can't mind their own business? I kn...

Confused if I like an old friend!

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29 September 2010 (M) - Ok, so I met an old friend a couple of days ago, that I haven`t seen in 2 to 3 years. And ever since Friday I haven`t stopped thinking about her, I`m just wondering if this could be just that I`m happy to see her after all this time or if just ...

Do I actually like him or do I just think I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - How do you know when you genuinely like someone? I have been friends with someone for years, and we have gone on dates and fooled around with each other, but we were pretty much always just friends. Since he moved away to join the army I keep thin...

Is his demeanor and arousal a weakness or strengh?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - If a guy gets a hard on when he's sitting with a girl and they are currently just friends (neither appears more attractive than the other), yet he continues talking like he doesn't need anything from her (not needy)...... Does she feel she has power ...

Does this man like me more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I am trying not to read into this, but I have some questions that need some outside input. I have this guy friend who I think has been flirting with me. He always gives me a high five when we see each other. He gave me a nickname and he always ...

I'm baffled why he didn't want to have sex with me...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Okay, I'm looking for a male perspective really, but women feel free to answer too. I'm 21 and out clubbing every weekend, my eldest brother too does exactly the same and we regularly end the night together. He always brings his best mate out wi...

Embarrassed by my new boyfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I've been dating a guy for two weeks now, he's smart, cute, funny, sensitive and romantic, but there are two disadvantages: he's still in high school, but graduates this year and he's only three months younger than me, but he's still 18 (so he ...

Confused about why fiance needs to go OUT without me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - hi everyone me and my partner are engaged and have been together for almost two years. we do have lots of fun together and our sex life is usually pretty good. the problem starts when he declares he wants to go out drinking and to the clubs in the...

Straight? Gay? All These mixed signals...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - So I have this friend, who insists he is straight, but something, a gut feeling maybe, is telling me he isn't completely. He knows I am gay, he played a gay role in a film that I wrote for a festival - he's fine with me. Actually we are quite close, ...

Signs that he's interested???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - If i start talking to a guy how do i know if hes interested or not what are some signs i can look for? keep in mind he might be working so idk if it will be different. and how can i start a convo i dont really know him that well. thanks!...

Should I send him the gifts after his cold response?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - This guy I like is in Afghanistan and he's coming home for Xmas. I asked him if I could send him a box with things before he comes home. By his reply that it was a cold one, I decided not to, but I told him I would anyway. Read the conversation: ...

I feel so torn...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I feel so torn, I know I should walk away from this guy but I really like him. We have known each other for about 4 years and for the past 2 years we have been getting really close, and over the past 6 months things have turned sexual. I have just ...

An old flame and I hooked up again after 7 years but I'm married now... what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - About 7 years ago I was dating a guy and we lost touch and now I am married. But just recently we hooked back up. Should I just forget about him or keep in touch with him? ...

The person I love is jealous of me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - So I really have feelings for my colleague, I hardly know him but I'm so attracted to him; he's good looking, intelligent, we potentially have loads in common, and I have no doubt he is aware that we could be great friends if nothing more. He only ...

How to know if you're gay, bi, bi-curious, confused or straight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Hi I'm a 21 years old male I'm here for help with some issues that I'm trying to deal with but don't know so please take your time to read my story and help me or give me some advice. This is me, a straight male who had never been or slept ...

Stuck between my boyfriend and my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Guys I am feeling horrible at the moment. I just talk bad about my good friend. Ok maybe I should let you guys know a bit of what happen before seeking for your advice. About one month ago, my boyfriend and my good friend (A) and me plus another ...

Obsessed with my best friend - need some help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Hi there, I'm new to the forum so not sure whether this is the right place. Hope so! I'm currently a student and feeling pretty low at the moment. I'm a 19yr guy and bisexual. Even though I feel "safe" behind a computer screen it feels hard to ev...

I want to be close to him without telling him I like him as more than a friend. How do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Hi, i like this guy hes a family friend of ours, we get along in a amazing way, that we even think the same way.My question is i want to be close to him, without telling him i like him more than a friend yet.So should i tell him lets be friends....

Does he like me as more than just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Should I think my male friend likes me as more than a friend if he always wants to know whats up with me and other guys,and will always act like he never touches any other female. We hang out all the time and talk everyday..Am I reading too much ...

Is it healthy for her to stay in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Her relationship is going to hit 5 years being with her bf. She claims he is a possessive guy. She broke up so many times with him but then ended up patching back. She has went through so much of emotional hurt in this relationship. Cried before ...

Is this a sign he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I have found a guy on facebook I really like. We knew each other growing up and have gotten back in contact. He's single as am I. He likes almost every post I submit, usually in 1 minute and comments on most. He also befriended my bff who he ...

I'm tired of being alone ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I've been having, well depending on how you look at it, good or bad luck. Maybe good and bad. Either way, I'm confused. I had written earlier in the month about 4 guys. One was my ex, the other was a serious prospect, one was my actual bf, and the ...

I'm friends with her best friend but ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I have this friend who we have never been close before. I'm best friends with her bestfriend so her name is always mentioned. So I tried to be friends with her and were always up and down. She always seems to give me dirty looks and she tells people ...

I want to be close to him, but I don't want him to think I like him more than friends yet.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I met this guy whos actually my friends brother, we get along well, we think the same , and we are very happy together. I want to be close to him, but i dont want him to think i like him more than friends yet. So should i tell him that we...

I'm just terrified that this girl is gonna steal another one of my crush's hearts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I'm an 11th grade girl. A boy in two classes of mine and me are pretty good friends. I've liked him for a couple of months and I think he likes me back (?). For example, he thinks everything I say is hilarious and always seems really happy to talk ...

Did I say something wrong by saying I wish we can be friends when we have not even gone out on a date yet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I think I said someting stupid, do I still have a chance? I met this guy online and we started mailing, texting and eventually talked on the phone, he already asked me out on a date. Everyting was going great we exchanged pictures. He sent me a...

When do friends become something else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - my bf said he has no male friends he only has a female friend he see every day cause they work in the same place and if we are in a discussion and she come into the his line of site he then wont let me finish telling him my news he will focus all ...

Although I am usually chatty when he is around I just freeze up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - i need help. there's this guy and is OBVIOUSLY too good for me. i really like him. all my friends think i should just talk to him. but i cant seem to bring myself round to it. im usually the most talkitive person ever. i talk to EVERYON...

Do you think my wife could have lesbian desires?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - well this may sound strange i have always thought my wife is attracted to very good looking women. Recently a friend of her'S and me supposedly committed suicide and we finally were able to verify that .Long story short she used the tub twice today ...