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writes:How do you know when you genuinely like someone?I have been friends with someone for years, and we have gone on dates and fooled around with each other, but we were pretty much always just friends. Since he moved away to join the army I keep thinking about him and I want him to be my boyfriend. I hadn't really had thoughts or feelings like this before, but since I had to say goodbye I feel like I want to be with him. Has anything like this ever happened to you? Do I actually like him, or do I just think that I do? I'm so confused, please help! thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, Philosophyzer  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 I agree with Fordy. Some people just need a slight push or catalyst to uncover their true feelings. The thought of saying goodbye to this guy has you reflecting on your relationship with him. If you didn't have some sort of feelings, you wouldn't be so bent out of shape about it and writing here on DearCupid! You need to talk to him and see where this goes. Only you can determine how deep these feelings are, but, regardless, there are legitimate feelings there, for sure.
Best of luck! ;-)
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reader, fordyboy  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 You like him. You have certainly developed feelings for him anyway, whether this is love or friendship though is difficult to say, I'm edging on the side of feelings of love. I think you need to talk to him and perhaps start taking things to the next level
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