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anonymous
writes:I have a problem with a friend. Generally me and my friend were very chatty with each other we could talk for hours about nothing and enjoy it, she even told me once that she really likes having me as a friend. However at one point I went on to her bebo page and noticed she was calling me weird to her friend, so I told her that I found that offensive. Now I'm ok with that because friends get in little spouts like that all the time however since this incident I have not been able to get into contact with her, at first I assumed she was busy but now with the xmas break on I am still getting no response. I've sent her a lot of text messages by now one recently asking her if she was ignoring me and still no response. I don't know what to do, for all I know something has happened or she may have just gotten a new phone and forgot to give me her number (very forgetful person) but I don't want to sound too paranoid, but I need to know if she's gotten any of the messages. I have tried her online bebo but she's never on and she hasn't blocked me from it or from msn so I can't tell whether she is ignoring me or not. Basically seeing as text messages are out of the picture is there anything I can do which won't make me look like paranoid?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@anonymous person. I dont understand how going on a friends bebo page counts as cyberstalking?
Also I dont think its a cordial act but more less a sensible act to tell someone when its something this out of the blue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): I think you're in a bit of denial. This girl disses you, you stand up for yourself, and now she's ignoring you. It may be horrible to say, but maybe there is something about you that just doesn't click well with her. Typically when you're ignoring someone you're also hoping they'll get the point without you having to be cordial enough to own up to it and tell them the truth.
My advice is to move on, and forget about her. And stop cyberstalking!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (4 January 2009):
 If she talks down about you she isn't a very good friend. Honestly I'd ignore her a while. If she truly is a friend she will get hold of you, forgetfulness and all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): Call Her!
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