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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I Really Like This Guy, He Makes Me Feel Really, Really special and wenever i am around him he seems to make me feel like im the only one that matters to him. but he has a girlfriend...We have known each other for about 4 years now but have been really close for about a year and a half. His girlfriend doesnt seem to like me and it is as tho she thinks i am a threat to their relationship. He was enganged to her for about 4 years but then they decided they didnt want to marry yet last year.He became like a brother to me and my dad calls him his adopted son. he is really close to our family and so we spend a lot of time with each other. We was at the pub one day and he took my phone off the table and then he gave it me back i didn't see anuythin was changed so i put it in my pocket n then i started recieving messages from a number i didn't know but when i looked across the room he was smiling at me. We started txtin each other when he wasn't with his girlfriend and we started getting closer up to a point where he was fingering me.And then he brought a house with his girlfriend but when she was going out to work he was ttin me and asking me to go down so i started toBut i have told a couple of my friends and they think that i should leave them to be together but i don't know. I need help please =]xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): Hi, im sorry but to me it sounds like he is using you. if he is unhappy in his relationship then he shouldnt be turning to you to get what he may not be getting from his girlfriend. if he has bought a house with her then it doesnt sound like he is going to leave her. my advice would be to stop this thing you have going on because it is not fair on yourself your feelings for him are going to grow and you are going to end up getting hurt. im sorry if this is not what you want to hear but it will be easier on yourself if you stop this sooner rather than later. it is also not fair on his girlfriend. for whatever reason you dont get along it not fair on anybody. take this as a new year and make a new start; move on. it will be hard at first but it will get better. xx
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