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Archived questions from: December, 2006 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I lied to my best friend when she asked me if I had sex with her bf! How do I tell her the truth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - I had sex with my best friends man and she found out about it.I told her it was a lie and that i never had sex with him.I dont want to keep hiding it from her so how do i tell her?...

I'm 31 and find myself going out alone..as my friends have all moved away!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I am 31 years old and have reached a crisis point in my life that I was foolish enough not see coming; the last of my friends has moved 100s of miles away and I am finding myself deeply, deeply lonely. I have been making the effort to go out by ...

He wants to be just friends and sometimes-he doesn't even act like that! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, Recently, my crush told me that there's no hope of us ever being together (not in so many words...I just read between the lines of his answer to the question, "Why can't we be together?" and figured out that that's basically what h...

My ex bf is dating my best friend and I still have strong feelings for him! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6468 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - my ex bf is dating my best friend but i still have feelings for him. my boyfriend of 2yrs told me he liked my friend of almost 5yrs. at the time we were having problems but were still sexually involved. my friend knew i still loved him cos i told h...

I am in love with my best friend...but he is gay!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in love with my best friend. The problem is that he is gay. He always calls me,texts me and hangs out with me so much which is harder for me to let go of my love for him. What should I do?...

My friend moved in on a girl I liked. He says he didn't know about us.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) - hi guys im not sure how i put this question but here goes.i started talkin to this girl ages ago we got to be pretty good freinds then after a while we got more serious . then a m8 of myn that didnt know about me an her started asking questions ...

His response to my text message really freaked me out! What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - I have a friend who texts me every day and we talk about anything. He's told me that he really likes me before and I told him that I like him too as a friend, but yesterday I sent him a text message saying; " okay I just got to the gym, I'll text ...

Where do I go? To my bf I'm unhappy with or this other guy that likes me as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I been together for a year...someone from my past came back into my life on the day of our 1 year anniversary and well me and the guy been talking everyday since..when i ignore him or act like i dont care about what he has to say he ...

In love with my best female friend--but don't want to ruin the friendship. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6529 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) - hey, i have a serious problem here im kinda in love with my best female friend(im a guy) and i dont want to ruin what we have already i have talked to her about it but like not saying its her and she said that i should tell them but I just dont want ...

I think we get on better as friends...but don't want to dump him because of what my friends will say...advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - hi im going out with this boy he is fat and i like him but i dont no whether to go out without him or not anymore because i think w get on beter as freinds but i dont want to dump him in case of what my friends mite say please help luv miracle ...

I don’t know whether to pursue the friends with exs thing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6517 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - Help. My ex broke it off with me just before Christmas. It has been the most confusing thing I have ever been through. The last time we saw each other didn’t go especially well, but we didn’t argue which I think had been part of the problem. We ...

I am worried i wont see her again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6529 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - Hi, I have recently started to get feelings for a close mate from work, i've known her for sometime now as i am mates with her brother for a few years and i knew of her but didn't get to know her til she started working for the same company and her ...

I want to tell my best friend that I love her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - How do I tell my best friend(of the same sex) that I love her more than sisterly? My best friend, well, me and her are like sisters. In fact, we kind of are. I have strong romantic feelings for her, and I don't know how to tell her!!...

I think my friend is making a mistake and I don't know how to tell her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6530 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - Dear cupids, This isn't a problem of mine but a friend's. I've been talking to her recently and lately I've noticed she's been feeling a little down. It turns out she really likes this girl in her year. I thought it was just a harmless crush b...

I had dreams of being with him and now I just don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6529 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - I was in school when I met this man I fell in love with him from the first day then he used to be nice with me then he traveled I met him after 4years he asked me what makes me think of him for so long I told him I love him then he said why me then ...

She's afraid to committ totally to me and I'm giving her space. Any tips on how to help her through this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6520 days ago

26 December 2006 (M) - I have a friend that I have known for about 8 years, we have been on and off more off but close friends. we can talk about anything. I have known her and stood by her in several marriages and some boy friends. A few weeks ago we were out for dinner ...

She has a mail friend who e-mails her and it upsets me, that she thinks about him way too often! Any advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

26 December 2006 (M) - My wife has an e-mail relationship with another man. He is a mutual friend. The e-mails are not private, I can read them, but they are frequent. I know she gets excited to get e-mails from him and checks her e-mail a lot during the day (a lot ...

This could really be my happy chance but I'm so afraid of rubbing anyone up the wrong way! I need your advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

26 December 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I wonder if you can help me sort this situation out? I have recently ended a relationship that has been going on for two years with my boyfriend. The problem was that I was never really attracted to him and did not fall madly i...

Told her I liked her more than a friend and she said we couldn't hang together, anymore! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6532 days ago

25 December 2006 (M) - i told my good friend who i've hooked up with in the past that i had feelings more than friendship. her response was that she didn't know what to say, and by that i said i figured her answer and we could not hang out. al she could say is that it ...

His female roomate yells at my bf and bosses him around a lot and I am fed up! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

24 December 2006 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about two months. He seems to be an almost perfect match for me... we have a similar sense of humor, enjoy hanging out alone and in social situations, have a lot to talk about, and care for eachother well. However, ...

Can you guys tell me how this 'friends with the ex thing' works because it has me baffled!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - Can you guys tell me how this friends with ex things works because it has me baffled!!! How can you truly be friends with an ex when one part of the couple has rejected the other or both parts have? What are the reasons that an ex would want to be ...

I can t move on as I really do care for her as a friend... but she doesn t care! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

23 December 2006 (M) - Hello, I think i m in love with this women. She makes me all warm inside, she makes me happy whenever she s around... its undescribable. However she s mean. She expects that all guys run around her... actually they do i've made it clear to he...

I'm scared of his clinginess and I'm not sure if I want him...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6531 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - Hi, I think I have fallen in love with my best friend, but I can't be sure because I keep changing my mind if I like him or not. About a year ago he asked me out after we shared our first kiss, but I got scared that it would ruin our friendship and ...

Whats good or bad about dating your best friend ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6534 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - Just out of curiousity, why is it that some people won't consider dating their best friend? I have a guy bestfriend whom I'm starting to have escalating feelings for. (i've known him for about 5 years, he's 17, i'm 16, and he also has feelings...

I seem to be getting mixed signals, does he like me as more than a friend ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6534 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - Okay. I have this guy friend who is 18 (and I'm 17) and he is constantly teasing me (about anything), remembers the most random things I say, and purposely says things to get a rise out of me just so he could see my reaction (which he has admitted), ...

I thought we were more than friends..she didn't! She is upset so how do I mend all this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

22 December 2006 (M) - I have been in an internet relationship for almost 3 months. The woman lives about 460 miles from me. We have emailed on a daily basis, talked on the phone (since 10/17 over 700 long distance minutes)and we recently met. I received many compliments ...

Been with my bf 3 years but I'm falling for my boss! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) - Ok here it goes. Ive been with my boyfriend for the last 3 years but for the last 6 months ive got a huge crush on my boss.This isnt the only problem, im 19 and he is 9 years older than me. I know he likes me to beacuse we always flirt and text each ...

Should I say sorry for this kiss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

22 December 2006 (?) - i have a very close friend. her boyfriend of 9months is seein another girl, meaning his goin out places with her and is always round her house. my friend has been upset but they havent broken up yet but today i went to see her and i gave her chri...

He's trying to push our friendship further than I'm willing for it to go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) - Ive just broke off a relationship after the friendship got serious and i didnt really want it to get that way. This person had sex with me twice and i had known him as a friend for four years. I broke off the relationship as i didnt fancy him as a...

My dad thinks she is jealous

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

21 December 2006 (M) - Hi, i need some help here, my ex gf and i broke up a fair while back and now i'm with someone else called Holly, now my ex claims not to love me or anything or even fancy me anymore, however on my msn screen name i have i love Holly, and la...

My best friend and I are on the outs because we both like the same guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) - i've have a really big arguement with my ex-best friend becausewe both like this guy...i talk to him on an instant messenger and she doesnt(she does have a pc at home)....when I told about it she seemed jealous...so to try and save our friendship so ...

Im really close friends with him and he uses the phrase Love alot, im confused!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6537 days ago

20 December 2006 (F) - Ok, there is this guy, we'll call him "Matt". We are really close friends. I like him but I'm not really sure if he likes me or not. What does it mean if Matt touches my face, or says "I love you" all the time, or, this is one he did recently, calls ...

My best boy mate has feelings for me, but I like someone else who mum doesn't want me dating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - am i in love? im so confusd! my love life is such a mess at the moment im 16 and im so confused! my best boy mate that ive known literally since i was born has feelings for me and im not sure that i can return his feelings and there is this guy at s...

My best friend was forced to give me up as a friend b/c of his fiance, but wants to secretly be friends! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - My best friend of 9 years (is male) whom I haven't seen because of my hectic life recently called me to say that he won't be calling or seeing me anymore,that his fiance doesn't like me so we aren't going to be friends anymore.I am married and have ...

All three times the girl I like has split w/ her bf, she runs to me - then she gets back with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6538 days ago

19 December 2006 (M) - im just wondering what u lot think i should do. theres this girl that i really like, i think i may even love her, but shes already got a bf but keeps having troubles with him. she has broke up with him about 3 times now but keeps going back. ...

I've loved him for years, but he's not ready for a gf. I'm afraid we'll just end up being friends - what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6538 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - Why does he tell me that i will find someone better then him when i told him that he is the only one for me? I have loved this man with all my heart since 8th grade. Yea i know its strange and i know people are going to be like she couldnt have...

I like my friend, but he likes someone else - and he keeps telling me about her!! I'm so jealous! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - Ok so here is my problem: I feel rejected. My best friend who I like more keeps talking about how he likes this other girl, whom im pretty sure likes him back. He knows i like him too...but its like he doesnt care. I feel like hes being a insesnit...

I told her we had chemistry and she didn't say anything back! Later she was acting like she liked me - what's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - Hey, This is going to be long sorry! Im in my last year at uni, ive liked my female friend for over a year and i told her this last year because i felt that we had chemistry and to me it was blatent! But when i told her she didnt say anything about ...

Our religion is against drinking but I found out my best friend has been getting drunk!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

19 December 2006 (?) - i have a very close friend. we are both 16. she told me she never drinks alcohol. it is strictly against our religion. but i found out last friday night she got drunk and it's not the first time! i am disgusted. we are just so close, she bought me a ...

Do I tell my best friend I've fallen for her, or keep it to myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

18 December 2006 (M) - I've fallen big time for one of my best freinds, We've knowen each other for years, do I keep my feelings to myself or tell her and risk loosing her as a freind...

Student Nurse with eyes for another, what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - I'm an 18 year old student nurse and I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I started my course in September and I met a really sweet doctor who asked me out. Although I like him alot, I said no but now I've come home from uni for the holidays I ...

He wants me in his life, I am not over him, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - My ex and I have dated for one and a half years and were very much into each other during the time. We were both each other's first loves, but sex was always a big issue in our relationship, because I wasn't ready and he was. Eight months into the ...

My best mate has a gf - how can I distance myself from him without hurting either of us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6539 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - I love my boy best mate but he has a gf and i know that me and him will never get together but im finding it really hard to let go as i know i wont be able to cope if he wasnt in my life. How can i distant myself from him without either of us ...

Don't trust him when he's wrecked!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6539 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - Hey, Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and love him dearly. He goes out once a week (Sat), and im always welcome to join him, however even if i felt like staying in, i couldnt, because i cant trust him. Its only because he gets so ...

Friends son, off limits or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - Is it ok to sleep with your friends son? Hope you can help, I recently made friends with someone who i met though mutual friends and she has just moved into my village. I have been to her house a few times and met her son. We went out the other ni...

I put him before my friends, but he doesn't do the same!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6539 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two years, we do talk about the future serisouly. But I find myself always putting him before my friends (one of them being my best who i've known since Junior Kindergarten). They don't seem to mind, but he will never ...

After we spend the day together, should I tell my close friend that I like her? She says her bf doesn't care about her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6538 days ago

18 December 2006 (?) - me and my very close friend are both 16. she is just an amazing friend. i fancy her. i'm goin on holiday for 4weeks which is a very long time. the day before i'm takin my friend on the day out out of town shopping as it's christmas. on the way back ...

Friendshp or love?

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18 December 2006 (F) - How do I know if I want to be in a relationship with someone I've been friends with for nearly 3 years? We get on really well and there definitely is a chemistry between us but I'm not sure if my feelings for him are strong enough. He has told me ...

Does she have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

18 December 2006 (?) - please help me i really need help and need to know if she has feelings for me before i go on holiday. i have a very close friend. she and i are both 16 and go same school. she has a 10month boyfriend. she's had lots of up's and downs with him. i've ...

A friend but not a lover, how can I keep him at arms length?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - My ex , has started being really realy nice to me ! .. he bought me an xmas present , he hugs me all the time , tells me he likes my picture =S i dont want him to fall in love with me like he did last time , because i know me and him wont work h...