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writes: Hey, Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and love him dearly. He goes out once a week (Sat), and im always welcome to join him, however even if i felt like staying in, i couldnt, because i cant trust him. Its only because he gets so drunk! He sometimes remembers nothing, and i find myself thinking, if hes in that state, and a girl leans in to kiss him, whats to say he wont agree? He doesnt know what hes doing. I caught him pulling a girls pants to peek down them and check out her g-string once (nothing major i know), and i was there. Around the corner! He cant remember doing that. Im pushing him away by insisting going out with him all the time and i dont know what to do. When i tell him to please 'take it easy' before we head out he gets angry with me, says im nagging. I hate our nights out because he ends up holding walls up, but i cant stay in either because i dont trust him around girls when he is in such a state. please help.Regards, Kia
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006): My Ex Girlfriend.
when she got pissed never even give a cr*p about me when she was pissed. if i stop her from fighting with someone after. i'm sticking up 4 the other person. if i wanna go home at 2am i'm moaning all the time.
i remember this 1 night we went out with her brother & girlfriend & her friend and i ended up standing there all night alone with her bag & coat till 2am when i said " let's go home " i had a sore throat. but i didn't like standing there from 11pm till 2am i know i sould of gone and danced with her even with her stuff but she went somewhere with her brother and only came back twice she kissed me both time's and asked me if i was ok but i still think it was wrong.
your problem = i think your right not 2 trust him your partner will cheat on you whilie drunk. then they can blame the beer. the part where your boyfriend pulled that girl's pant's to see her g-string i think was mega over the line.
but they always say .. you wanna know the true person u will know when there drunk.
when i'm drunk i'm in control and i know what i'm doing most people don't.
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