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writes: please help me i really need help and need to know if she has feelings for me before i go on holiday. i have a very close friend. she and i are both 16 and go same school. she has a 10month boyfriend. she's had lots of up's and downs with him. i've always been there for her. i've always given her a shoulder to cry on. i've given up the best occasions just so i can go and comfort her when her boyfriend gave her a hard time.anyway we always spent about 2hours once a week after school together just talkin and catchin up on things.i like her but not that much to break her current relationship.on friday at school she gave me a present it was gillete men's shaving set. very nice, and clearly the best out of her others she gave! but what was more interesting was the christmas card. she wrote a whole essay in it, sayin thanks for all you have done for me, if you ever need me call me, than she gave her home number. but problem is i've already got her number and she knows i have so why give it again?she than wrote we gotta meet up some, and enjoy some time together before weekend.i go on holiday on weekend. but it's weird how she's written it! it had hearts and kisses everywhere. and kept sayin love you lotsis it just me or could she have feelings for me?i've always cared for her, offered to pay for stuff although she never lets me, i've always walked her home safely no matter my house is on the other side!she admits her boyfriend has never done all that for her.also she told her boyfriend that i'm number one in her life. and her boyfriend is number 2. because i'm always there for her, without makin excuses! i couldn't believe when i heard this. i felt so happy.but i dont want them to break coz of me. her boyfriend hates me now he thanked me in very angry way, he said all my girlfriend ever talks about is you and what you did for her and how nice you are!what shall i do? because she gave me a present and wants to meet i need to get my phone repaired in london. there's a very nice shopping centre so i want to take her on day out there. she loves shopping. she always pays for her own clothes etc but i'll treat her to a nice meal and buy her something on the day. than the next day i'll be gone on holiday for a month! so she'll be thinkin about me even when i'm gone.any tips for gettin it out of her like on the way back while on the train? give her a hug? any signs to pick up?sorry this is long. please do help!
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reader, foreverislove +, writes (27 December 2006):
hi! i was serching the internet for help on a forbidden love and i came apon this i read the first few sentences and was at total shock! i have been seeing a guy for 10months! one my best friends is a guy! i love him like a brother! and we have been friends since 7th grade! i am know seeing this guy and what really helped! was that he came out with his feelings first by a note then by talking! get her alone! talk to her take her out on a fun, cute little date!
maybe it will open up her feelings about you! she seems like shes looking for a way out of this 10 month relationship. with the things you said that she has done for you and what not it seems she has a thing for you! shes showing you in her own way! but just letting you know have patience! give her time, try to help her get her feelings out! but my key word is patience!!!!!!!
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reader, Emistar +, writes (22 December 2006):
i think that you should tell her how you feel about her by gettin her on her own and by telling her. if she doesn't want to break up with her current boyfriend then give her space and think about what your going to do next.
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reader, miss_kasha +, writes (19 December 2006):
it seems like she is giving you hints and stuff. but is not ready to break up with her boyfriend because she is not certain if you like her as well. i believe you need to tell her how you fancy her but not so fowardly. i think she stayz with her boyfriend because she doesnt want to risk loseing him if you dont actully like her more then a friend. but which you do. but then again. she might just be bored in her relationship and looking for the comfort from someone else which is you. so really you just need to tell her how you like her and would alwayz be there for her. that might be exactly wat she wants to hear. or she will know how you really feel and have the holidays with her thoughts.
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