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writes: Is it ok to sleep with your friends son?Hope you can help, I recently made friends with someone who i met though mutual friends and she has just moved into my village. I have been to her house a few times and met her son. We went out the other night and he asked his mum if he could come with us. We were having a great time chatting, singing , dancing. then towards the end of the night we were dancing together when his mum had gone to the bar and ended up kissing. This carried on for the rest of the night and she was ok with it although a bit shocked ( as was i). Should I just carry on as if nothing happened? I am dreading facing him although i am sure it was the fact that we were both a little drunk.
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reader, babieegirL +, writes (18 December 2006):
 Hey there,Well the way I see it, If his Mother and your friend was ok with the fact that you two kissed, perhaps you should speak with her, not to ask permission, but to see how she would react if one of her friends dated her son. Also, it's a good idea if you and him talk first though, to see if things happened BECAUSE you were drunk, or to see if things happened because you two have feelings for eachother. If I were the Mother, I would be EXTREMLY shocked. Slowly, I would get over it and except the fact that my friend and my son like eachother and want to be together. Also, I wouldn't take it so hard because I would be some-what happy that they had the balls to come up to me and tell me face-to-face. It is, of course, your decision on whether or not you want to take to your friend about it, and let her know. One thing that questions me is, How old is he?. I hope this helps! GoodLuck*
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (18 December 2006):
 How old are you both?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006): Hmmm, you might be putting the cart before the horse, are you sure you want to jump into bed with this youngin' and risk his rejection down the road and the end to your friendship with him and his mom?....or at least a strained one? Seems like you are looking for permission to have a fling here and I think that is your decision to make.
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