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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Should I go back to the love of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - the love of my life has come back after a few years,not sure what to do because during this time i got back with a previous ex i was with before the love of my life.i dont want to go behind anyones back,but why do these things happened?someone told ...

I want my teacher to know I love him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5136 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Okay im almost 19 and i have been in love with my tutor/teacher for the entire year. he is 30. i do a casual course, we go out partying with our teachers and stuff, its great fun. i cannot stop thinking about him it is driving me insane. i even feel ...

My friends always say the teacher is staring at me

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - hey :) I know I have asked this before, but I got no help :( thank you to the people who did comment though, I just need more help please I don't know what to do im really sorry its so long, but please I need your advice .... I'm a littl...

What to do in this lose/lose situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - iam so worried and i really need help. me and my boy fiend are in a long distance relationship (we talk on phone every night since we have met and text each other all day). he loves me and i die on him. my mom and his whole family know about our ...

I need to get rid of this young girl before my wife finds out!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - I need help getting rid of a girl of a young girl in my life... This is causing me much stress and I don't know what to do.. Here is a little background... I'm in my mid 40s, been married for 20 years and have two teenage daughters. My w...

Am I a lesbian? I'm in love with my bestfriend, but no other girls.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I've just turned 17. Me and this girl have been best friends for about 5 years. No exaggeration, she's absolutley gorgeous, she's a model, she's so funny and really genuinely nice. She used to say "Oh, I love you" (as a friend I persumed) which al...

In love and now we're "kissing cousins"

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - I'm 21 years old and i'm in love with my 15 year old cousin. I have told her how I feel about her and she told me she feels the same way. I was shocked when she told me she's in love with me too. We are now kissing cousins. I know my feelings for ...

My cousin and I are crushing on each other!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - A few nights ago my first cousin and i went to play basketball and while we were playing he told me that he has a crush on me. I wanted to tell him that i have had a crush on him since i was seven! but i just couldnt. we had just finished playing ...

I think my teacher flirts with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - hi guys. I'm a little confused right now because I think my teacher flirts with me. he always stares at me when he is teaching the class, but when I look at him he doesn't look away he just gives me a cheeky grin or just looks into my eyes wit...

I have feelings for one of my teachers. Does he, too?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - Recently, my "liking" feelings have been growing for one of my teachers. At the beginning of the school year, I didn't really take that much interest in him, but now (and I don't know why) I am, and he seems to be acting a little different, too. ...

My married cousin is so friendly to me, what does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

22 October 2010 (M) - My cousin is a married woman and also we are so friendly. She is always wearing sexy dresses as her boobs are partially shown to me.I don't know it is accidently or not. She is middle aged. I want to show that i am interested in her. Also she is ...

I was hoping attraction to my 2nd cousin would fade, but it hasn't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I am very deeply, sexually attracted to my second cousin. I'm confused whether he returns my feelings - I'm 18 and he's 26. It's not a phase. I've had a very visceral reaction to him since I was very young, about 11 years old. Even though I've hoped ...

How can I tell if my doctor likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I've been seeing an Osteopath for chronic illness, we're both single but his office is filled with groupies and he seems really popular with women. He's very attentive to me and his hands are ALL OVER me, that's osteopathy (but how is it not er...

How can I get her to understand I'm not interested in her that way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

20 October 2010 (M) - hi everybody, I am a student and doing my master. I am staying an apartment for rent which is near to my university. my neighbor is 10 years older than me who is divorce with 2 kids. Most of the time she like to cook and invite me to dinner. ...

This won't end well for me, will it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - I've hooked up with this guy several times over the past year. At first, I let it mean more to me than it really was, and I ended up getting hurt really bad. We quit seeing each other over the summer. Then he contacted me again last month. We began ...

Is my aunt coming onto me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

20 October 2010 (M) - My aunty is always leaning infront of me. It's like to show me her boobs. I want to sex with her. Is she likes me? Her husband is abroad for 2 years. How can i express that i am interest in her? She has also some problems with her husband. While ...

Everyone knows I like this teacher!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - well, i sorta have a prob. i like this teacher and everyone who knows has told him. i don't mean to be rude, but i get nervous now when he talks to me because i know all eyes are on me! and thats including other teachers too! what should i do?...

Crushing on my cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - I have a crush on my cousin and i'm not sure what to do. I'm feeling pretty depressed at the moment, as there was a family party last weekend, and unfortunately, i couldn't go to it because i went to London the week before last, and i'm going away ...

Shadows from my past came knocking at my door, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

18 October 2010 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 16 years we have children, and well at least I was happy and I truly loved her. Many years ago I caught her cheating it broke my heart but I forgave her and we continue to live together and we were actually happy. ...

I love this man and I want the best for him, even if it means him being with his wife.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5147 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - 6 weeks ago, I started seeing and falling in love with this man. He had been off and on with his wife for 6 years (she cheated several times 6 years ago). He was sure that he was ready to file and move on with his life...and he did file and got a ...

A question to all married men--Why do you flirt with married women???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

18 October 2010 (F) - A question to all married men--Why do you flirt with married women??? For this married mom, it can be very uncomfortable when we are just trying to be friendly/polite back and your wife is giving us the evil eye!!!...

First cousins, both were with others, but in love with each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - I am 22 years old and i am in love with my first cousin which is also 22 years old. i live in texas with my boyfriend and two kids and he lives in chicago (no kids). when we were 5 or 6 years old all our family and us lived in mississippi. We got ...

Are my boyfriend and his sister in love???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend has a sister in a different university who visits him after every two weeks and stays at his place for one week sharing the same bed. her university is in another city, she dresses badly and i got love letters written to my bf from the ...

My family blackmailed me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

16 October 2010 (F) - My sister and my brother were blackmailing me because they found out that I was having a romantic relationship with my cousin and they treated me really bad, calling me names and everything. They blackmailed me for revennge with exposing my secret ...

Is it wrong to love my cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - my name is donna i live in texas. i have been in love with my cousin for 17 years. he is in love with me also. we first made love 17 years ago,it just happened. it was the first time we ever met. we spent a month together, then he had to go home b...

Is this teacher actually flirting with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - well basically im 14 and i need to know if my teacher was flirting with me or just having a laugh so heres the story.... my friend was talking to him and i was messing about saying stop flirting with teachers and he turned around and said stop fli...

If I marry my 3rd cousin and we have children, will they be born with birth defects?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - hello everyone, well i have been dating my third cousin for 7months now. My mom does not approve and my dad is like watever, he says if that makes me happy then to do what ever i want. He is 8 years older than me and im 18 so you do the math. well ...

My dad's 35 year old friend (a teacher) is flirting with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - Gah, I hate talking about crap like this but I'm going to anyway lol. Ok, so there's a guy that lives below us, and him and my dad are really good friends. He's about 35, not married, and I've always had a really big crush on him. Then last year, ...

This complex situation is taking its toll on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

14 October 2010 (F) - i am a married women in love with a married men who is involved with my collegue. they have a child together and we all work together. to make things worse the wife hate my collegue but likes me, she invites me without knowing that i am involved ...

I think I still love my ex. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

14 October 2010 (M) - I have been broken up with my ex for over 2 yrs. We are both in other relationships but my problem is that I'm still in love with her. We were together for 8 years. We had an up and down relationship but were always deeply in love. We had a ...

How do I stop this crazy crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I need help!! I've been married for 8 yrs, he has a younger brother that doesn't really get along w/his own family so when I do get to see him he never speaks to anyone. He usually comes home, showers and leaves, I usually love when I get attention ...

Teacher I'm crushing on might get fired because students don't like him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

13 October 2010 (F) - I've been crushing on my teacher for like 2 years now. Before you make a comment about this, let me just say my feelings are under control. I have never shown hints about my feelings towards him and I don't plan to. I'm perfectly happy secretly ...

We're both attracted to each other, but we're both married. What should we do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - About 15 years ago, R and I both started work at the same company. He was married, me not. There was instant attraction on both our parts. We don't work in the same dept, so only saw each other occasionally. No real conversation, just hi, how are ...

Teenage crisis, I fell in love with a guy online who tells me how much he wants me sexually, really confused, please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - hi, so i know someone online, i met him through a friend and hes generally a nice guy, and i love him really, but i dont know if i should let this carry on? he loves me too. but the thing is, hes 22 and im 6 years younger than him. and when he talk...

In love with my single 25 year old teacher!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Ok. I know you're going to say "Forget him" and "that's just stupid" but im still going to write it. I am 14 (nearly 15)years old, and i am crushing on my teacher who is 25 and is single. I am now in year 10 (14, nearly 15 years old). in year 8,...

Obsessed with our school resource officer

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Im seventeen years old and im in love with my school resource officer. i know he cares about me because he tells me all thee time but i cant helpp my feelings for him. i always want to be around him and i do anything i can to have an excuse to see ...

Is it wrong for a stepfather to fall in love with his stepdaughter??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - I am 48 and my stepdaughter is 44 is it wrong for us to fall in love with each other ...

Can I keep seeing my professor, or is it a lost cause?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

10 October 2010 (F) - About a week ago, under fairly casual and normal circumstances I accepted a ride home from my college professor. The classes I take are evening classes part time, and he is not employed by the college directly, but began teaching this past ...

Amazing guy who ticks all my boxes but he's engaged!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I'm really unsure what to do. I have me an amazing guy who basically ticks eveyone of my boxes but he is engaged. I know I should just cut all ties but I can't help thinking that maybe I should see what happens, or am I just setting myself up for a ...

Attraction to my cousin, is it wrong to take it to the next level?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

8 October 2010 (F) - ok so here goes... when i was a little girl i was introduced to my cousin who was a bit older than me.. i was instantly attracted to him.. as the years went by me and my first cousin wasnt particulary close but .. still when we met up at family ...

I have insanely strong feelings for my history teacher!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I have insanely strong feelings for my history teacher. He's 28, im 16. Ever since the first day I saw him I've had this massive desire to be around him. I think a lot of it might be lust, but I dont know..some of the things I feel are deeper than ...

Should I ask this teacher out on a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - PLEASE HELP! I KNOW ITS A LONG STORY BUT I NEED SOME ANSWERS! Ok so im a senior in highschool and i never thought this would happen to me. but it did. this year i met a woman at the gym i go to that made me fall in love at first sight. From wha...

Why is the teacher avoiding me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

6 October 2010 (F) - So I think this teacher at school is really good looking. I see him at lunch and in the hallway twice. He isn't my teacher because he teaches freshmen and I'm a junior. Me and him always look at each other in the eyes everytime we see each other. I ...

I really want to overcome my secret affair with my male cousin now I am going to get married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

6 October 2010 (M) - oK my problem, im in my mid 20"s. growing up was Pretty hard my parents all ways working you same old story, but my problem is that all my life ive been stuck in a limbo of sick mental mind games. that i find really hard to overcome and people and ...

Does my teacher have feelings for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

5 October 2010 (F) - Okay... Well first off I need help and want to know if a Certain teacher likes me. Let's call him Mr.B. Anyways I'm 16 junior and there's a teacher who I've known for quite a while I've had him for 2 years and ive known him since I was in 6th grad...

Married but I love another!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Am married and am in love with a married man. I've been in this relationship for only one month. we've been kissing and caressing and he makes me feel something I dont feel with my husband. i think I love but am feeling guilty. i wouldn't like my ...

My cousin likes me in a way that makes me uncomfortable!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - i have got a cousin who is madly in love with me. i am currently single. he is my 4th cousin. he is always doing things in my favor. i know he is really in love with me. but i don't know exactly what i should do since i don't love him but i like ...

How does one go about asking out a teacher?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - First of all, I'm not a self obssessed idiot, and i know when people are flirting. I want to be with someone who is intelligent, funny and pretty, there is only person who is like that that i want to be with like that. I think she likes me too, she...

Since I married other women seem more attractive than my wife

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

1 October 2010 (M) - My wife and I just got married less than a month ago. I love her very much and we knew each other for a year before getting hitched-which happened very very suddenly. Her and I both are off to a college now and I've been noticing that I find many...

Parents say he doesn't deserve me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

1 October 2010 (F) - in this period of time in my life, i have a really big problem!! im 19 years old, and my boyfriend is 25 years old, we have started this relationship before 3 years ago, and we are still madly in love with each other!!the problem is that my parents ...