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writes:well basically im 14 and i need to know if my teacher was flirting with me or just having a laugh so heres the story....my friend was talking to him and i was messing about saying stop flirting with teachers and he turned around and said stop flirting with me and gave me a weird smile then for about 6 months after everytime he saw me he kept saying stop flirting with me and giving me a cheeky smile but then people started saying stuff like omg hes a paedo and that so he stopped and completely blanked me for a couple of months then one day my friend was off and he started saying it again when he saw me then he stopped as soon as she came back to school, now he gives me really weird looks when he sees me so is that flirting with me or not ???
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reader, OhGetReal  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 If he's in his forties he should know better than to joke around with you like this. I'd just steer clear from any personal interaction with him. He sounds like he just has an ego problem or something, but he hasn't done anything to you to constitute being a pedophile or dangerous, he's unprofessional.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell the teacher is in his early 40's and thank you for all your help :):)
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reader, charisma dela cruz  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 maybe you should have take more time to feel it.. does your teacher married already? if yes you should stay away from him maybe as soon as possible! if not just stay what you are and your 14? young and pretty im sure. but you should wait for your legal age which is 18 before you can make a big move whether to take advantage o it or not.
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reader, OhGetReal +, writes (16 October 2010):
I think his comments to you are simply stupidly immature and I don't think he is flirting with you, but trying badly to relate to you on your level.
Is he young, in his 20's? He simply sounds inexperienced as a teacher and thinks he's being cute and funny. When really he is just being a poor teacher.
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reader, blindbetty +, writes (16 October 2010):
 I agree that you should ignore it and just stay away from him and go about your own business....if he pursues in other ways such as following, calling, touching you then you should report him! But if you continue to watch after him in trying to get a reaction from him then YOU have the problem!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (15 October 2010):
 No. Most likely it is a bad joke he should have dropped. I would ignore this.
Still, If it bothers you then you should report him, but know that reporting him will cause him disciplinary action. Still, he should not be flirting with you, so if you are taking it that way, you should tell him to stop or report him.
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