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Archived questions from: May, 2009 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Falling in love with my sister

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - My sister and I seem to have feelings for each other. She has a boyfriend and I also have a girlfriend. I feel like I should tell her that we can submit our feelings to each other. Can I give a try incest and what it feels like?...

I gave my professor roses and now she calls me pumpkin, does she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I have given this lady professors some roses...dont get it wrong im a female myself and that makes me not straight...let me just get to the point she knows i like and want her to be my girl...she also accepted the roses...told me i should have ...

I befriended him to get closer to him. Do I let him know I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - I'm a 16 year old male and I'm having trouble coping with being intensely in love with someone from my year, the only problem is that it's a guy. It's been going on for a year and a half, he is all I ever think about anymore and I'm slowly going ...

I seriously have the hots for my sister in law!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - I have an issue that has been driving me crazy for a couple years now. I am married, and her brother is married. I am seriously having the hots for his wife. She used to be VERY 'freaky' if you will, and still has a slight taste of that in her. ...

Attraction to my daughter's teacher

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I really fancy my daughters teacher I can't stop thinking about her. I am a women so that makes things so difficult, there is chemistry between us most definitely what do I do? ...

Tradition rips apart mutual love - How to forget this love??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I am in love with my best friend and he loves me unconditionally but I am forbidden to marry outside my own culture/religion (we're both young adults now). He gave up finally after 3years right when I realized I was actually in love. He still cares ...

15 & 23, too big an age gap or too big a risk?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

26 May 2009 (M) - I'm 23 and have feelings for a girl I meet at a wedding 2 weeks ago. She is beautiful. I couldn't keep my eyes off her all night. Then the bomb dropped, I found out she is only 15! I felt so ashamed even though I didn't act on my feelings, there was ...

He's gone home to his wife and isn't talking to me. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend right now that I live with him already for 8 months, at the beginning he already told me that he had a cold-heart, he don't give a dump to the feeling of others, but I love this guy so I did my best to have a good relationship ...

Reconnected with old girfriend now married, we want to be together, she wants a divorce, feels guilty, what do we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - A few months ago I ran into an ex/gf whom I have always believed was the "love of my life". We have not communicated or seen one another in over 10 years. We talked for only 5 minutes, she had got married two years ago, does not have children, and ...

Female teacher. Female student. I have deep feelings for her, but I've got to move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I am 16, 17 in September and I have finished school and I am halfway through my GCSE's. I had a few issues with one of my ex-teachers; as I am not coming back to my old school next year, she is now an ex-teacher. The story is long, but basica...

My soccer coach and I have bonded but what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Help! I don't know what to think right now. So I feel like I've gotten to know my soccer coach well this season. I think we've bonded well together. During and after games, he'd always congratulate me by patting me on the back, he'd joke around...

Heart hurts for my teacher

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

23 May 2009 (M) - I have the biggest "thing" for my teacher. I'm a male as is he, and it is probable that he may be gay as well. Not only is he my teacher (and will be for 3 years, including next), he is also a very respected and loved coach at our school. He is a ...

In love with my teacher for 4 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - ok so im getting really annoyed cuz my post keeps getting rejected for some reason but hopefully this one goes through. I fell head over heels for my science teacher in 8th grade. He's about thirteen yrs older than me and I'm now a junior in high ...

Help, Impossibly in love with my priest!!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3389 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - hello, First of all please don't anyone judge me for this. I am a writing anonymously to guard myself and the person I'm seeing. I know it's wrong, in fact we both know it's wrong. I've gone to this church since I was a child. Years passed and I co...

1st cousin sex forbidden?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - i'm catholic and want to know if having sex with 1st cousin is forbidden to have sex with 1st cousin....

I want to sleep with my aunt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - okay i think im weird.i'll explain. I have an antie she's 17 im 16 ( long story) anyway, i think she's fit and i get turned on by her I stayed at hers whilst she wa on holiday and in her room, i found loads of dirty bra's and knickers and wel...

Co-worker has a crush on me but I am married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - okay so there isa guy at work who i would say hasa thing for me although i am maried with kids and the other day i was wating on a customer ,and he basically accuesd me of flirting with this customer although i said now i wansnt he said yes you were ...

She is family through marriage....is it considered forbidden love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - My cousin was maried about two years ago and introduced a new family to us. but her husband soon invited his brother and his family to stay at our city. one of his daughters likes me and wants to know if theres is any chances. shes cute but i dont ...

I need some advice about the age of consent!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - I am a 17 year old female. My boyfriend is 15 years old. He is a freshman in High school, I am a junior. I will turn 18 two months before he is 16. We live in Massachusetts and his parents are completely ok with us dating. Am I still legally al...

Is it silly of me to be with this older guy, does age really matter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - I'm going to try and keep this short, but its not likely.. I'm 16 (17 in November) and I met this guy through my friend, she introduced us on MSN and we were jus speaking and getting to know each other as friends. We spoke on the phone, and so on. ...

What should I do I'm in love with my cousin!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

18 May 2009 (M) - I'm in love with my cousin sister since a year now. I like her a lot and want to spend the rest of my life with her. What should i do coz i can't live my life without her and she stays far away from me. I'm not going to forget her if u think i...

In love with my band teacher's wife

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - i fell in love with my band teachers wife. me and him are sorta close. should i tell him how i feel? or should i tell her how i feel? or should i keep it to myself...

What is wrong with sex between brothers and sisters?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - Ok I know sex between brothers and sisters is considered wrong by most people. Why? I mean if they love each other and make sure they don't have any children, what is wrong with sharing that love physically? ...

I'm 'straight' but I've fallen for a lesbian in a committed relationship...What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I am a 40-something woman, and generally speaking I am and have been straight. I have always fantasised about women, rather than men, and have on a few occasions actually fancied other women, but have never done anything about it, nor especially ...

My much older boyfriend is engaged to another woman, but I know he really likes ME!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - Im 18 and the man im seeing is 34. we are smitten by each other... we see each other nearly every day, send over 100 texts to each other daily and cant keep our eyes off each other. I have never felt this way about anyone before! There is the small ...

How can I make him forget or hate me so we can both move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I am a 24 yr old female, and he is 29. We loved each other soo much for 9 months, and we decided to get married. We are both from a very conservative background, and so we decided to tie the knot only if our parents agree 100%, else we should split. ...

In love with my first cousin, should I pursue it or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Im deeply inlove with my 16 yr. old first cousin. I had my first kiss from him, i dont know if he loves me too. I sometimes caught him staring at me, what does that mean? And I dont know why did he kissed me that time? I loved him since I was 6-7 ...

Falling in love with a second cousin

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - I'm 21 years old and I fell in love with my second cousin. His father and my mother are cousins. We didn't grow up together. I remember him from when I was 5 or 6 but almost two years ago we met again. We both thought it was weird at first but then ...

Am I really in love with him? What if I am....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - i met my friend at the carnival one day and well we went on rides and her mom talked to my dad saying i was coming over the next day.so the next day came and she brought her boyfriend.when i saw him i couldn't stop staring at him he was absolutely ...

I like him but his sister is overprotective!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Long story short, this guy and I have recently started liking eachother, we really tend to hit it off quite well, and i could see us really going somewhere in the future.. only problem is, his sister hates mostly all of his girlfriends and ex's. She ...

I'm in love with my second cousin... she's getting married but I promised myself I would tell her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - I know I will be judged for this, and I know that it will be difficult for some to try and think of this in an unbiased manner. But I wish to say in my defense three things: 1.) There is no law against a relationship of this type. 2.) The...

I should have told my cousin that I'm in love with her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I know I will be judged for this, and I know that it will be difficult for some to try and think of this in an unbiased manner. But I wish to say in my defense three things: 1.) There is no law against a relationship of this type. 2.) The...

I'm an author looking for your stories about teacher/pupil relationships...

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Hi all Have a bit of an unusual question but here goes - I am a published fiction writer in the UK, and am in the early stages of writing a book about a teacher/pupil relationship. I have been reading through stories on this site and others ...

What do YOU think? I think my teacher is flirting with me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Okay, my band teach is starting to act in a way that makes me think he kinda likes me, he's not married, no girlfriend, no kids, you get the point. I mean i liked him but i'm kinda over him. But, my name is Taillour [Taylor] and when he sees me me ...

What should I do to be friends with my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Sorry it's a bit looong.. Well, I have already finished my last year of high school, there are only some exams to take, but I have a minor crush on a teacher (or not really a crush, I just like him). He's 20 years my senior, has a wife and two kid...

She keeps kissing me, but she has a boyfriend.I can't say no to her.help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - My friend and I have admitted to liking eachother a lot. But she has a boyfriend. I had noticed one time a little bit ago that while we were cuddling (we cuddle and rub noses all the time it's just our thing) we had come very close to kissing. Then ...

My friend shows no interest when I go on about the teacher I fancy. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - hi i really need some help. i really really REALLY fancy this guy that works at my school. He's a helper for kids that find it hard to learn. He isn't that old. He is in his early twenties. Everytime i see him i feel like i am going really red and ...

How do I know if he is experimenting or really interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - i met this guy and we have alot of steamy attraction between us...however we have 2 different cultural backrounds.and i think he shows me alot of attention but i dont think he wants to risk his friends and family knowing he is stepping out his ...

I'm feeling frustrated with the little affection I get from her in public

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - (this is goanna be pieced together kinda oddly, i have allot of scattered thoughts and emotions atm) hey me and my girl have been dating now for 9 months, we love each other dearly, there is no sex in our relationship since she refuses to till ...

Help! I want to have sex with my cousin!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - Hey I am 16 years old and I have this cousin that I can't get out of my head! I severely want to have sex with her, it's just I don't know how to ask. I do not see her often, If I'm lucky it's once a year for about a week. What I want in a reply is ...

I know I've found my one true love but she doesn't feel the same way about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - I met this girl 2 years ago since the start of 1st year university and I have been in love with her since the moment I met her. I started dropping hints that I liked her but she never seemed to like me as more than a friend. Our friendship grew ...

My husband told me to find satisfaction elsewhere, so now I have!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I've been married to my husband since 1991 and for the past couple of years it's been completely sexless. No matter how hard I try I just can't get him interested. I've asked him to go to the doctor's, take some time off work, anything! He says that ...

I am trapped!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I am trapped. I need help desperately. I formed a very close relationship with one of my school teachers and, well, we ended up kissing. Just once. But my ex saw. And now he's using what he saw as an excuse to blackmail into everything - from doi...

Love my husband but feel the temptation to cheat on him with a co worker, what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Help, I am married and I think my co-worker and I are falling for each other. I started a new job in a new country about 5 months ago. It was the first job I had in a long time where I've really enjoyed my colleagues and the work I've been doing,...

Falling for my first cousin...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - welll couple years ago i start flirting with my first cousin..but now i just want to get over her because i think i'm falling in love with her.. she live next to me so you imagine how often i saw her and every time i saw her i just want to be with ...

I'm 17 and very close to one of my teachers

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Hello all. I've noticed that there are a lot of teacher/student relationship questions on this website. I know there are many, many of these questions but I would really appreciate an answer from anyone. I'm currently a sophomore in high school. ...

Advice needed! I'm in love With My Teacher!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Okay so.. I'm in Love with My Teacher! I've liked him since last summer. But when i first started high school.. I hated him and i dont know how i began to like him!.. I cant stop thinking about him!.. I see him nearly every day but still thats no...

1st cousin and I want to be together but don't want to shame our family

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - my first cousin from my mothers side recently came down 2 stay with me, he lives in london, me swindon. we were never close growing up and hardly ever talked we havent seen each other for 5 years, but when he was here we fell in love and got ...

I'm falling for him but know I can't have him...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Hello agony aunts, I'm having some love trouble with a guy that has a girlfriend and he and me have slept together many times, but he says to me that he can't leave her. But sometimes he says stuff like 'if we were together I will be there for you'. ...

Getting over someone I can never have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Two years ago I met this guy at work. There was an instant chemistry between us that I can’t begin to describe. I knew there was on my end, anyway; I didn’t find out until later that he felt the same way. I didn’t understand how I could be attra...