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writes:My sister and I seem to have feelings for each other. She has a boyfriend and I also have a girlfriend. I feel like I should tell her that we can submit our feelings to each other. Can I give a try incest and what it feels like?
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reader, j321  +, writes (12 May 2011):
Falling in love with your sister is so complicated. It is not really about wrong or right when I look at it because there is such a thing as genetic atraction. However remember it is illegal in the UAS and the UK. If you have feelings for your sister then I would explore it but remember no children. This is what needs to be avoided and stay freinds with her. If you start a relationship with your sister and then want to break it off she is still your sister. This is your answer; how could somthing ththat feels so right be so wrong. Use your head and not your penis.
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reader, drog +, writes (16 November 2010):
 Perhaps these are feelings you want to clarify within yourself first. Speak to a professional and clear your head and, if after everything is out of the way, you find you truly are in love with her then--I repeat, THEN--you could find out if she feels the same. I don't mean to offend, but your mind could be playing tricks, giving you fantasies that only entice you because of its prohibited nature.
I personally have nothing against two people loving each other, if the people ACTUALLY love each other, that is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): So has your sister admitted that she has feelings for you, or are you the only one who has these feelings? And when you say "give incest a try," are you talking about having a romantic relationship with your sister, or only having sex with her? These are things you need to sort out. Also, she will have to agree to this relationship, or it won't go anywhere. Even if she does agree, it could seriously damage your relationship with her if the rest of your family finds out. So even if she agrees, you both need to think long and hard as to whether you should act on your feelings, and whether this will be a short-term, long-term, or permanent relationship you have with each other. The latter could be nearly impossible to have because of anti-incest laws and how your family would react.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2009): Don't even think about it boyo. It's illegal for a reason. Have you ever read the story of King Oedipus? That should do the trick in helping you realise your thoughts are a bit twisted...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): Dont go there, its wrong on every level...Incest is a crime and the emotional implications are not worth it. Date someone who your not related to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): i think thats a bad idea..
Its illegal , but i know sometimes you can't controll how you feel. I think you and your sister should see a counceler or spend some time apart.
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reader, Olivia(Y).  +, writes (2 June 2009):
 No its not something you should even be thinking of.
Its is against the law and if you have a child with your sister it has a higher chance of being deformed or have problems inside the body.
You should go see a counciler about your feelings towards your sister because you arn't ment to be sexualy attracted to her.
Don't act on these feelings because it is breaking the law and you could be given a prison sentace.
Livia
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (2 June 2009):
 Hey Benny honey, Incest is not something that you should be doing. It is kind of yucky. You don't want the drama that comes with that trust me on this one.You have parents finding out, the guilt, what if she gets preggers, it is really not a normal thing to do to have sex with your sister Benny.There are many beautiful women out there ....have safe sex with one of those....not your sisterAna
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): sorry, but you disgust me. i joke all the time about falling in love with my brother in law but i would never actually do it. whats wrong with you that many women dont like you to the point that your sister feels sorry for you enough to do it with you? argh argh, yuuuuuuuuuuckkkkkkkk!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): Hmm... everyone's quick to say "Don't" but no-one's actually giving reasons why not, although Artistry has come closest. This is such a taboo subject, no-one wants to be associated with it so they decry it. I reckon it is a lot more rife than people imagine so I can't see it hurting just to get it out of your system. If it doesn't work out, no-one need be any the wiser. They're only going to know if you're not careful. Give it a cautious try - good luck.
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reader, Artistry +, writes (31 May 2009):
 Heyyy, So how much money do you have to spend on therapy after you do this thingee? Go somewhere and think long and hard, do you want kids, if you did it, would you want anyone to know about it? In fact, I suggest, not to be judgemental, but to try to help, seek out a good therapist now and talk about this to them. You need to clear your head, find one of the many girls out there, as one of the other Aunts said. Get over this fantasy, your life will be really screwed uo if you do this. Take care and find a healthy relationship, one which won't cause so many awful problems. You would be labeled "sick" by anyone who found out, if it took place, for the rest of your lives. Good luck.
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reader, JMfan +, writes (31 May 2009):
Yuck, don't even try and date your sister.
That is just wrong. You two are blood-related.
Please, don't act on your thoughts and feelings.
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reader, yourhandholdingmine +, writes (31 May 2009):
 imagine your parents' faces if they find out. you'll regret it dude. please DONT DO IT. you have billions of girls to pick from why pick your sister?? your blood-related sister??? it's like having an affair with your mom. dude this is sick. and you wont be able to start a family with her even if this lasts...and it'll bring you to serious trouble dude. not worth a try.
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reader, maxstuff2003  +, writes (31 May 2009):
 even i also don't think so buddy,...it's cheap ..disgusting
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): I don't think so, Dude!
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