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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

What do I do with these feelings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I've been married for 4.5 years and have a daughter that is almost a year old. My marriage has often been very rocky. We separated once and reconciled then became pregnant. Only recently has my husband truly started to turn into a man worth being ...

I'm so depressed in my marriage, I don't even want to wake up in the morning...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Im 18yrs old and i just got married about 3 months ago. I find myself becoming more and more depressed, i dont even wanna wake up in the morning. I started feeling this way about 2months ago, its makes me wonder if its bc i wasnt ready to get ...

Is this friendship in dangerous waters?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I am a married woman who has been experiencing some turmoils in my relationship. I met this single man through work and we had an instant connection. He has been a wonderful listener of all my problems and I sense a strong interest from his side ...

I'm in love with my former science teacher...please help!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Ok so about 3 years ago I moved from my hometown. It was the start of my eighth grade year. New friends, new achievements, and a new life. I had just lost my grandfather and my life was shattering right beforemy eyes. When I moved I was scared that ...

I'm hiding forbidden love from my mom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - im in a relation that im 15, and he is 18. its a forbidden love, and even though i am really pretty, and he isnt, i really like him(which no one really gets why i hang out with him)i really like him, he is himself, and when we USE to talk we talked ...

I have strong will power but around him, I just melt!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Okay well, this is my first post on this site and I really need some advice as I have nowhere else to turn. I'm going to sound like a horrible person, and I guess I am on some level, but I can't stop. Here it goes. I've been with my boyfriend for...

How do I rid the lust from my eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - How do I get rid of lust out of my eyes. I remember back to my marriage and lust wasn't in my eyes. After my divorce (she had an affair). Lust entered my eyes. During the rest of my marriage my eyes roved. I never acted on this. My wife had a sec...

Should I let my wife be impregnated by my best friend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - I'm totally in love with my girlfriend for about 5 years! I love her and I always have all these years! She is a really sexy girl! very fair skin and blue eyes! However, she is a very sexual driven girl but yet very conservative. She wants to have a ...

Now that he's not my teacher can I tell him that I love him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - The man I love is 10 years older then me. He was my karate teacher. Now that he's not my teacher can I tell him that I love him? I'm still not sure if he loves me though. He asks my mom about me and calls me beautiful but I don't know if he is doing ...

Relationship with step brother wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I feel really confused and don't know what to do, me and my step-brother (not blood related) are kind of having a relationship, i always worry about what happens if my mom and step dad or dad and step mom find out, they kind of know somethings going ...

He does not want to leave his wife for fear that he would lose his child.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I fell in love with a married man. He claims he loves me deeply and I'm his true love. While he is married, he has no love for his wife, who abuses him verbally and uses their child against him. She guards their daughter, tells her lies about the ...

I feel romantically attracted to my dog!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - I have been having some very strange feelings about my beautiful Dobermann Pincher named Shelly. I have owned her for aout 6 years and she has been a wonderful, loving and loyal pet. It just feels like more than that lately. I don't have many ...

Wrong to date my half brothers half brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - my dad married a woman that had 2 kids, then had another child with her, which made me a step sister and half sister. my dad is divorces now, is it wrong to date my half brothera half brother even though im no longer a step sister???...

Forbidden relationship with teacher

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - i am in relationship with my teacher.... it's been a week and im still nervous and scared to be caught.. i dont want her to lose her job.. but on the other hand im soo happy. no way im letting her go.. she's the most beautiful thing on earth. t...

The note I'd love to give to my Spanish teacher, but won't...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - I’ve had massive crush on my Spanish teacher for few years. I know nothing is going to happen between us; she’s married and I’m under-age. I sure miss her when I don’t see her, especially on weekends. I’m really having a hard time now since we ...

Should I say something and ruin our friendship or are we beyond that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - I am a 40 year old single man that has fallen in love with a married woman. She is in a very troubled relationship and has often confided in me. We share our innermost feelings but have had no physical realtionship. I feel we have something ...

In love with my former teacher...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - A few years ago I fell in love with my science teacher. He is about thirteen years older than me and I'm so lost without him. I was only fourteen but then when I left for high school I grew depressed. I remember crying because I thought I'd never ...

I think I love my cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - Hi there I think I'm in love with my cousin, and I need some to talk to... in advance...I'm a long talker...so sorry... For a while, parts of my family did not see each other due to some animosity between stubborn heads of the families...

My cousin and me--does she have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - Ok so me and and my cousin made out with each other 'bout a year ago. we made out on several occasions lol we havent in a while...i want to know if she still has feelings 4 me whenever our families get together we sleep in da same bed and we hug,c...

Don't know who to choose, my boyfriend or his cousin.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - Hey my name is Christina and i been going crazy the last few days because i have a good boyfriend nd im not really sure if i love him because he alwasy worry about his band..it use to not bother me but now it do and his cuzin is in his band nd he ...

I'm a pupil that got involved with a teacher and now everything is messed up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - hi. ive been thinking about doing something like this for a long time, but ive always put it off. basically i started having feelings for my teacher about three years ago when i joined my school. pretty soon it developed into a full blown ...

What can I do to prove that I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - Hi I've been reading the questions and answers posted on dearcupid for quite a while now and great answers have been given! And now I have a problem of my own... this may be long so bear with me. I'm currently going out with a man who is 17 y...

She's married I can't have her but I love her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

24 December 2008 (M) - I've fallen in love with a colleague after very recently splitting with my wife. She wasnt the cause of our breakup but we did intially start seeing each other the same week I walked out - it was really just the little push I needed! Anyway, we have ...

In a very complicated situation with a friend, his girlfriend and a crush!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - Ok, well i really need some advice to a complicated situation! Well theres this guy who i met last year. Me and him became really close and we became bestfriends. In the beginning i liked him but he had a girlfriend. After awhile i just kind of ...

I was molested as a child, how can I confront that person?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - Dear every1, First of all happy holidays : -) ... when I was younger "my cousin"( this boy my brother and I grew up with that lived in our building.. I'm 18 and he's been my "cousin" for like 13 years now) when I was like 7 I remember him touc...

Should I be getting married if I have thoughts like this about another person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - hi i'm really confussed and don't know what to do, i'm 27 and have been with my partner now for 10 years and have 2 lovely girls and we are getting married next year. everything between us is perfect i love him and our life together is good, but ...

I wantto have sex with my cousin

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - I am a 17yr old girl.My problem is that i love my cousin very much he is 26 yrs old.I want to make love with him.He is so handsome. He also knows my feelings for him. When ever i get a chance i watch him taking a bath.I really want him. My religon ...

How hard should I try to pursue this? She's younger and I'm still legally married.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5844 days ago

22 December 2008 (M) - My situation is quite complicated and the question is at the end. The primary problem is I am head over heels for a young woman at work. I am 17 years her elder. I am a professional Firefighter and Paramedic and she is about to complete her ...

Is it okay to remain friends with him even though he's married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Over the past year I have developed strong feelings for a former teacher of mine. We became close during my senior year of high school. By that I mean we would occasionally have lunch together and gossip, joke around and sometimes have some pretty ...

Lovesick over teacher!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5844 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Please help cupid! i've been making myself lovesick for the past year over this teacher of mine. I know everyone hates hearing about these, but i myself, hate me for feeling this way, because no matter how hard i try to forget about these fe...

Friends hubby has feelings for me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - I was approached by my friends commonlaw husband and he said he has had feelings for me for a long time..He told me exactly when he started feeling this way and I remember the day I didnt even looked or even talked to him but he said that the way I ...

I don't know which one is stronger, my head or my heart, how can I get over this teacher crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - I'm so tired of being in love with this guy, that i can't have. I thought i would get over him soon, because it'll never work out...but yet, im still sitten here, love sick, and tired of it. I need help! I don't know how to get over him. Here's ...

Her husband knows about us and she still won't leave him! I'm in agony!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - I am from INDIA. Let me make an honest confession. Sheer frustration has prompted me to write this. I am a married man aged 48 years. I am in love with my cousin brother’s wife since last 4 years. She is 34. Has a girl child aged 7 yr. Her husband ...

Should I pursue things with my teacher?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

19 December 2008 (F) - I know what all your replies will be with this question, 'oooh finish it now, or he'll lose his job' or 'you'll both get hurt and left with nothing' but listen to my story anyway. Basically, i'm 16. I go to a private school in the north of the cou...

How can I stop thinking about my coworker, when I like her more and more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - hi, well where to start. i really like this girl at work, and i'm not sure if likes me back. we are quite good friends, flirt around, etc. however, i don't really want anything to happen between us because i'm very busy all the time at work, an...

One moment he won't be able to keep his eyes off me, but then another he doesn't even pay the slightest attention to me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need help! I know this person that "might" be attracted to me, but I'm not for sure. I've debated whether he does, for over 7 months now. This is really hard to explain, but he's kind of off limits, ok I'll just say it, I think wh...

I slept with my best friends boyfriend, and probably will again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I have fallen for my best friends boyfriend. I didn't think anything would happen, but last week we ended up sleeping together. He's joking that it is bound to happen again, and we're in constant contact but I feel like the worst person on the pl...

I would deny it to anyone who asks, but I am crazy about my teacher!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - Am I in love? I think about her constantly-I can't get my mind off her. Everything reminds me of her, and something inside me hurts when I realise I won't see her for however long. My heart flutters whenever I see her, and I agonise constantly over ...

We barely talk or interact with each other as we are not allowed to date!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5850 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - i still love my ex boyfriend so much. we got together because i was getting hints that he liked me and he admitted to my friends that he did like me and at the same time, i was falling for him. we were together for three weeks. everything was fine ...

I slept with my g/f's mom! Do I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

14 December 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for quite a long time now. but only last week, i slept with her mum. i regret it completely, we were both drunk and my girlfriend was too drunk to notice that we'd gone up stairs. should i be honest with my girlfriend, ...

Should I ask my married lover to leave his family for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - I'm 41yrs old and single. I have been seeing a married man 55yrs. We had been friends for about a year when one day he asked me if we could just have sex. He said that he was lonely he had no companionship with his wife anymore. I was lonele too I'd ...

What should I do about these feelings for my brother in law?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - he is my brother in law and i know i shouldnt feel this way but i find myself being attracted to him. i dont know why. theres just something about him i cant seem to let go. this started when we were both young and as we are growing up, these ...

How do I stop thinking about my teacher?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - I am a girl of 16 and I think I am in love with my teacher who is a lot older. Is this just a stupid crush and if so how can I stop thinking about him? We hardly talk anymore and he has never said outright that he likes me, but I read to much into ...

Is it too weird to have sex with my friend's mom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

11 December 2008 (M) - I need some help with my situation. Would it be wise to enter into a relationship with someone older. I am 20 and she is 45. The whole thing is kind of complicated. She is my friend's mother. She was kind of like my second mom growing up and I ...

Sex with his dad to get a baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - My husband wants children, and so do I, and we have been trying for a baby, but without success. Nothing we have tried seemed to work. Me and my husband were having a conversation about the issue one night, and trying to think of ways to have chi...

My boyfriends promise to stop watching beastiality porn is broken and I can't stand it.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - Hey there. I'm sure that you got many emails including weird sex questions. Here it is mine: My bf and i are together for a year and live together for 8 months. We had a great relationship until the time i found out that he is watching beastia...

We're both married to others but have feelings for each other!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I'm married with a young child but recently i've noticed i have feelings 4 someone else who is also in a relationship he says he feels the same should we just ignore this feelings ...

What is "Lolita Syndrome"?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - hi my moms new boyfriend told me that i have Lolita syndrome and i better fix it before he is alone with me. is that some sort of disease? could he catch it from me? should i tell my mom so i can get checked?...

May be wrong, but I think I am falling, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - I am thirty years old and married with two young children. I have, however, been having very strong feelings for a young lady that works for me. She is eighteen, and very beautiful. Most of all, I believe she has feelings for me as well. I f...

How do I know that she won't do the same to me some day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - She is on her way out of a relationship with long time boyfriend and he doesn't know it yet, we have kept things clean for the most part and I'm kinda waiting in the background to get with her but how do I know that she won't do the same to me some ...