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writes:i still love my ex boyfriend so much. we got together because i was getting hints that he liked me and he admitted to my friends that he did like me and at the same time, i was falling for him. we were together for three weeks. everything was fine but one day he didn't talk to me or anything. he still mouthed i love you and look at me so lovingly, but there was this feeling of hostility and distance between us for a few days. he told me that his parents found out about us and doesn't allow us to be together( we're both 14 but he's older than me). we said we would maintain the relationship, but we couldn't talk,call,sms or communicate in any way. it was so painful. finally we broke up because of that. he said he didn't want to but he didn't want to risk anything. he told me he still loved me at that time and i told him the same thing. we didn't talk for so long now. i still love him so much, everything reminds me of him and it hurts so much. i want to know if he still loves me.we barely talk or interact with each other. we would just turn away from each other and walk different ways. it's so painful to look at him and not being able to tell him how i feel.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (15 December 2008):
 His parents don't want him to see you and he is respecting their decision. Do you not know why they don't want him to see you. Maybe if you found out why, maybe you are both too young to date,etc. You may be able to cope better when you find out the reason then do something about that. If they say he is too young to have a girlfriend, then you must wait until he is older, or if they want him to concentrate on his school work, exams,etc, then that is a valid reason to hold back. You won't know which course of action to take until you find out the reason. Try to get a message to him if you can and see what comes back. hope this helps.
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