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51-59,
*night200
writes:I am a 40 year old single man that has fallen in love with a married woman. She is in a very troubled relationship and has often confided in me. We share our innermost feelings but have had no physical realtionship. I feel we have something special but have never confessed our feelings. Should I say something and ruin our friendship or are we beyond that.
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reader, blahblah666  +, writes (1 May 2009):
 i am gonna be honest with you, this woman may just like the fact she has a friend who can listen to her. she may not like you any more than that. how important is your friendship with this lady? she is in a relationship and unfortunately i would advise you not to go there. its really your choice but im a girl and im telling you its nice to have someone to confide in and tell your secrets to and be able to trust and talk to but if one of my friends turned around and confessed that he was in love with me whether i was in a bad relationship or whether i was happy, i would find it irritating. if shes in a bad relationship i dont think she would want to break up with him and have you as her rebound boyfriend. people have to have time to mend their broken hearts and she may still love him. this is a very difficult situation and unfortunately its up to you but my advise is... be her friend but nothing more.
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