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Archived questions from: June, 2018 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

How do I stop getting erections around her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2363 days ago

30 June 2018 (M) - My second cousin (a female) and I spend a lot of time together. We are both 13 years old and we share a lot of hobbies. We are both cousins and friends. The problem is that I keep on getting erections around her. I will admit she is extremely...

Everything was perfect... until he lost his nan!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

30 June 2018 (F) - Hello everyone. My boyfriend and I had been together almost five months but have been friends for about a year. We had the most amazing relationship. We both had said that we had a stronger bond than we'd ever had with anyone else. We tackled any ...

Something's not right with my mother and I'm very worried about her mental health

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

30 June 2018 (F) - I think my mother has ADHD,I'm no professional so I may be wrong in diagnosing her but something is definitely not right..she's a wonderful mum but I'm starting to feel very frustrated with our relationship, I apologise in advance if this is long ...

I'm have an uncomfortable feeling about my girlfriend's stepfather who walks around in the nude and God knows what else is going on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2365 days ago

29 June 2018 (M) - Right so this all started one day when my girlfriend called me I thought nothing of it, she usally calls me 5 times a day but she mentioned her step dad how she feels “uncomfortable” with him cos he walked round the house naked or just in his ...

Is it for sure that I will get a green card?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2368 days ago

28 June 2018 (F) - I got a divorce 3 years ago because my husband was emotionally and physically abusive. I have a 4 year old daughter, and i always do my best to sacrifice the best for her. I live in the middle east, and i always have to go to Texas, USA for months ...

I have had an extremely stifled upbringing but I want to break free by going to a college of my choice. How do I convince my authoritarian parents?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2356 days ago

27 June 2018 (F) - In our family, it has always just been assumed that we'd all go to college. I've never been the best student, but I've basically been average. I liked "electives" the best and I got the best grades in music and Spanish. Actually, I won the John ...

My boyfriend seems like he's too busy for me and I'm not sure how to handle it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2364 days ago

27 June 2018 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I had posted a couple weeks ago, asking a question about my bf not saying "I love you" because he'd rather make me feel loved.(which is a good thing) But I guess I've been feeling like hes really been putting me on the back ...

I stole from my brother, how do I repair our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2372 days ago

24 June 2018 (M) - My youger brother, Justin, is 23 months youger than me. I am 35 years old and he is 33 years old. He have always been a good person (doing charity work, volunteering his time to different charities, est.). When I was in my late teens and early ...

How do I ask for a sex toy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2369 days ago

24 June 2018 (F) - I want a sex toy because, I'm a 17 year old girl now. I know after I ask I'm going to say, think of it this way, I'm still a virgin. Most people my age aren't anymore. But the problem is, I have to ask my dad. Not a mom. How do I do this? I'm ...

What if I fail ......

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2371 days ago

23 June 2018 (F) - Hello everyone! I am in the middle of some crazy studying because very soon I’ll be taking a competitive examination (if I pass I will have to take another three competitive examinations in the course of the next year) to upgrade my career and get a ...

Is my sister crossing a relationship boundary line? I

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2370 days ago

22 June 2018 (F) - First i want to start by saying that setting boundaries in relationships has always been confusing for me. Some background info on my gradual Relationship with my sister.. She's always gotten mad at her boyfriends for being friendly with me. Me ...

What do I do to get my brother to forgive me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2374 days ago

21 June 2018 (F) - I really made a huge and stipid mistake and now feeling guilty,hurt and embarrassed.I could not accept my past and move on.I have a brother and I'm really close with him.He has a close friend(jack) and he tells about him causually.I had seen him but ...

Is a B-cup too small?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2374 days ago

21 June 2018 (F) - Is B-cup too small? Everyone in my family has A-cup boobs, but I am a B-cup. I am not growing anymore, and all my friends and family make fun of me and call me flat. It hurts me a lot. So, on legitimate average? When is a boob size too small, or too ...

I am simultaneously unsatisfied and satisfied with my life, I need direction!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2373 days ago

20 June 2018 (F) - I am simultaneously unsatisfied/satisfied with my life. I have a bf whom I love, who does a lot for me and our 3 kids. But, sometimes he has a temper. He gets verbally abusive, not in a nasty way, but in a snippy sort of critiquing way. I've tak...

I’m conflicted on what to do or feel about my parents!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2375 days ago

19 June 2018 (F) - Hi all, I posted some time ago. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-over-committing-to-him-.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-19-years-old-an-age-where-it.html In my previous questions, I basically had an argument with my parents ...

Should I say I was annoyed about the way he set up meeting his children?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2349 days ago

19 June 2018 (F) - Should i tell him I felt annoyed? My boyfriend of 5 mths recently invited me over to meet his children of 21 and 16. They were having a takeaway night so thought it would casual. We arranged a time and I went over. I knocked the door but got...

My boyfriend ignores me at times.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2378 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - im with my boyfriend for 5 years and he ignores me at time when he is in his facebook and takes awhile to answer me when im talking to him and i feel he takes advantage of my kinds and times i dont think he appreciate alot of things i do for him ...

I worry so much about my baby, I just need a balanced view.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2378 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - Hi All, I've posted a number of times before and you've always provided me with great advice. My child's dad and I split before he was born ( 16weeks pregnant). Our son was planned - tried for a year to conceive him..split after ten yea...

He said we were moving too fast, and that he had bigger plans.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2377 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - I met this guy about a month ago and everything was going great. We were so genuinely happy with each other, always laughing and having fun. I met his friends and family. It felt like we were moving towards a relationship. We would see each other ...

I'm talking all the time to my ex girlfriend who is crying about her life. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2378 days ago

17 June 2018 (M) - Well guys m confused how to think about something , i had a relationship with a girl for almost 5 years everything was great but we had to break up because she left the countery to study far away but we keept contact as good freind few months later ...

I want a baby but time is running out fast!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2375 days ago

16 June 2018 (F) - IM not sure what to do , Im a single woman and dont have time on my side children wise. I want to have a child before its too late. I have never met 'the one'and im starting to feel down because time is running out. With adoption it can take a long ...

Me and my dad's friend want to take it to the next level

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2378 days ago

14 June 2018 (F) - Me and my dad's friend have been texting for a while and we've talked about taking things to another level... Im not sure what to do about it, i mean i'm 21 an he's about 30, I have always like older guys and we are into each other but you know he's ...

How do I learn to stop caring so much about other people's opinions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2382 days ago

13 June 2018 (F) - Hello aunts, I wanted to seek advice on how to stop caring about how other people perceive me and how to gather strength on the inside. I am a woman in my thirties that (not trying to sound vain) has been told I am very pretty - skinny and beaut...

Should our relationship be more connected than this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2384 days ago

12 June 2018 (F) - My partner and I have been together for three years and I feel like our lives aren't as "connected" as they should be. We lived together and spend a lot of time together in the flat, but outside we don't do anything. I have a few close friends, b...

How do you know if you're meant to be together forever?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2384 days ago

11 June 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years, lived together for almost 3 years of that. He's my best friend and we've spoken openly about marriage and kids. Anyway, my question is, how do you know if you're really meant to be together fore...

After seven years I find myself becoming detached.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2382 days ago

11 June 2018 (M) - I'm in a 7-year relationship. We're both divorced, both have children, but mine are older (hers are 11 and 14). It seems to me that we used to be "closer" and talked about future dreams, things we liked about each other, flirted with each other, ...

Is my long-distance husband using me?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 2381 days ago

10 June 2018 (F) - Hi and thanks I have wrote on here before but I wasnt able to find my question. I have married a man from Africa, I'm Canadian. We met on Facebook and we have been married for 16 months. Doing a long distance relationship isnt easy ...

Why did he throw the gifts in the trash?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2386 days ago

10 June 2018 (F) - ok my ex boyfriend of 6 years when we met we were both 45 it’s weird cause I just had a broke up wasn’t looking and he was on Facebook I didn’t wanta like him I had just lost a lot of weight cause I had my first child only child so I was very ...

My boyfriend says if I don't lose weight after our baby's birth he will dump me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2386 days ago

9 June 2018 (F) - I am 24 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend is constantly calling me fat. He says he is teasing. He also said that if I don't lose the weight after the baby is born he will dump me. I have taken all these things to heart. I was really skinny before I got ...

My partner doesn't know how to parent our child

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2388 days ago

6 June 2018 (F) - Hi I’m in a relationship for 5 years we have a 3 year old daughter I have started a new job 8 months ago so now my partner has to bath our daughter and put her to bed something which he had never done till I started this new job due to changing my ...

How do I end this pathetic relationship without him turning it all around on me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2385 days ago

6 June 2018 (F) - Hi I’ve been in a relationship for 6 years we have a 3 year old daughter together the relationship is pathetic between us there’s no affection he sleeps on the sofa does everything to avoid spending time with us it’s always me doing everything for ...

Everyone around me seems to want to sabotage me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2389 days ago

6 June 2018 (F) - Hello, this is less a romantic question and more of a coping question. Due to some mistakes I’ve made and struggles I keep having, I had to move into a homeless shelter. I’m going to call it The Haven and I want to make it clear that any names and ...

We've been together 6 years my boyfriend's mother doesn't like me and goes out of her way to show her dislike. I can't take it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2390 days ago

4 June 2018 (F) - Any advice would be really helpful as I don’t know what to do. My boyfriend’s mum hates me and she makes me feel worthless and useless and actually has really upset me. My boyfriend has spoken to her several times in the past 6years and told her ...

Tales of attraction, games, betrayal and the wifes condundrum

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2389 days ago

4 June 2018 (F) - Seeking some guidance around my husbands relationship with a highly promiscuous, devious and highly NARCISSISTIC Slor€ (that's her appropriately allocated nickname btw from her own family - which I was told in advance meant slut crs whore because ...

What can I do, I realise now me and my baby moving in with boyfriend and his mother was a big mistake.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2391 days ago

3 June 2018 (F) - So long story short I lived with my boyfriend and his mom after we had our daughter at 3 months she is now 5 years old so I really thought we would of had our own place by now but my boyfriend (her Dad) has been on/off job I'm just so tired of my ...

Is it really a big deal that I didn't call?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2389 days ago

2 June 2018 (F) - I’ve been dating this guy (no official relationship) for a few months. We were old friends who got really close and started a romance. He did the chasing and I finally caught feelings after a while. We would hang out all the time. He would call me ...

My family are always having digs, and my husband wants me to cut contact with them.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2394 days ago

2 June 2018 (F) - Why does my family always try to drag me down! I go to visit my Mum and my older brother and sister with my Daughter. My family are always having digs at me and putting me down. I have tried to let it go over my head, but yesterday I told them how ...

My sister and my boyfriend lied about having sex while we were courting.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2385 days ago

2 June 2018 (F) - So my sister was having some marital problems and she met this guy who she confided in and he gave her some advice well atleast that's what she told me. I was single for approximately for years. She introduced this guy to me after some months and ...

Do I keep believing him after his string of lies?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2390 days ago

1 June 2018 (F) - Long story short, over the past month, my husband has been caught in a string of lies. First lie is when he told me he called his buddy but later found out he called a female coworker to congratulate her for this cover she got for a magazine. Odd ...

Do I continue in this relationship despite our differences?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2395 days ago

1 June 2018 (F) - Hello Everyone, I really hope you can help. Little background; I have a little boy whose two in July. His Dad and I separated when I was 16 weeks pregnant, we'd tried over a year to have our Son, engaged, had been in our 'forever home' a little ...