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Archived questions from: November, 2016 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I'm in love with my husband's cousin

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

30 November 2016 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 6 months, but have been together for 9 years. Throughout our relationship my husband's cousin, we'll call him Tyler, has always been close with us. We have all always been great friends until he moved out of ...

What can I do? I don't want to lose my relationship with my niece so soon

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

30 November 2016 (F) - Hi I know this is advice about love but I am writing about how much I love my niece and I think it is unfair that my brother in-law's parents get to see her on Christmas and I don't get to see her during Christmas at all. I help take care of her a...

My girlfriend made a online dating profile and when I confronted her she lied. Where to now, with this relationship??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2887 days ago

29 November 2016 (M) - So I found out my girlfriend had made a online dating profile and when I confronted her she lied straight to my face about it and after a little while she finally admitted she made it. When I asked her why she made it she told me she was bored an...

How do I deal with my controlling dad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

29 November 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I feel like my dad is very controlling and it's uncomfortable for me being that I'm a 19 year old woman. He is someone who doesn't like people and has something negative to say about everything. He works from home so he is ALWAYS home ...

Is she in the wrong more than me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

29 November 2016 (M) - I have been with C----- for 2 years, engaged for 5 month. Pretty solid relationship, love her to pieces but our communication is off, she yells at/threatens me to get her point across and I just plain ignore her to spite her. This situation is a ...

I'm 16, girlfriend is 14 ... I am thinking of breaking up because we cant find anywhere private!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2942 days ago

29 November 2016 (M) - Am a 16 year old teenager in High School. Am currently a junior dating my 14 year old freshman girlfriend. We've been together 2 months and its been working out. Me and her have kissed before a couple of times, but never making out. The reason being ...

They're saying I'm too harsh with her little brother who has autism! Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

28 November 2016 (M) - Hello everyone! I need a hand with something concerning my girlfriend's autistic little brother. So this kid is great, I love him to death I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 months and love her very much, I'd do anything for her. He...

I am his great big secret!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - I have been dating a guy 16 years older than me for the last 6 months. He has been divorced twice and have 3 teenage/young adult children with his first wife and a 3 yr old daughter with the second. He divorced 18 months ago. I have 2 teenagers and ...

My husband is divorcing me we have a severly disabled son

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for 12 years. We have a severly disabled son, he is autistic, with learning difficulties and he cannot speak. he is very aggressive at the moment. Friday he pulled me onto the floor by my hair and head butted me. ...

Why don't my parents listen to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

27 November 2016 (F) - Just had my retired parents(who live interstate) hang up a phone call in my ear as I criticised them for not listening,(which they dont!)? Im a shift worker and am only available to talk on phone certain times, they do not get this! and feel...

I think my neice is actually my father's child

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

25 November 2016 (M) - hi im 67 years old and have this niggling problem i dicovered when i walked in on my father haveing sex with my eldest sister this was when i was 14 my sister see me but dad did not and they carried on i am sure that her youngest child who is now ...

Should my partner go to a family function? They don't approve of our relationship and I cannot go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2948 days ago

24 November 2016 (F) - I am in a same sex relationship for three years now. When i met my partner i came out to my family and friends. My partner was in an abusive relationship and left it to be with me. We were friends for years first. When her family first me me thin...

My dad's new partner won't let him have a relationship with me. is she insecure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2949 days ago

23 November 2016 (M) - He cheated with her on my mother!!! Then he left her for my mother after 4 weeks of being with her and dumping my mum. Everytime me and my dad arrange to spend time together she seems to put a stop to it. My dad has to call and text me secretly ...

Should I have to beg this man to see me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2949 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - Hi. I would really appreciate some objective advice as I am feeling very confused and stressed. I started seeing a guy 4 months ago. It was going well until he met my 25 yr old daughter who took an instant dislike to him and made it clear ...

Stuck in the middle and not sure what to do with holidays and family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2946 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - This Christmas my boyfriend's family have very kindly invited us (me and my two children) to their house for 3 days. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and he is really great with my two boys,and he is a fantastic dad to his own daug...

She broke her virginity with my brother and friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2948 days ago

23 November 2016 (M) - Well this happened Saturday during her 18th Birthday celebration, after I left for the night. anyways she had a threesome with one of my best friends and my younger brother and lost her virginity as well. (they did it about four times that night), ...

How do I deal with my uncaring in-laws over the holidays?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - Just to spare you the medical details: A few weeks ago, out of nowhere my elderly mom had to be hospitalized for a medical emergency. After 5 days she was released to a nursing home, but on Hospice. She Can no longer walk nor hold a conversation, ...

I'm not sure of the meaning behind what my girlfriend's cousin is writing to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

22 November 2016 (M) - I am English, and my girlfriend is originally Polish. We went over to Poland in July to meet her family. She introduced me to her second cousin who is our age, who was pretty good at English. At first she said she was shy talking English and would ...

My boyfriend gets bullied and walked over by his family, and I don't know what I can do to help him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - My boyfriend (27) and I have been together for 3 months, and only recently I'm starting to see how he gets treated by his family. He is the kind of guy who is too nice, the one who will do whatever he can to not upset or offend anybody, and because ...

How can I help myself? I am so confused. Our relationship has problems, but I do love him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - I think my relationship is over.... I found out that my man is registered with a site called ^^^chat. I confronted him 6 months later, he swore on his mum's life and his children from previous marriage that it was not him. few months later in ...

I want to sort everything out with my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

21 November 2016 (F) - Sorry this is really long and kind of a rant but I need help sooooooo bad ?? Me an my boyfriend have been having a few problems latlely and it feels like I'm going to lose him. We've been together for 1 year and 3 months today and I need him like...

How can I make co parenting work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

20 November 2016 (F) - Does anyone have experience in co-parenting? I recently split from my boyfriend, and we have 2 children. Things ended pretty badly, but I've accepted that we're through. I think he's taking it a bit harder than I am, but as a mother, you don't have ...

Had enough. What now? I'm honestly so ready to run, but I truly love my husband.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

18 November 2016 (F) - My husband and refuses to stand up for me when it comes to his crazy family. I was harassed during my husband's deployment. I have been through hell and back and defended my husband but I can't get the same in return. I always thought he would...

Is this normal? Should she keep some distance between her and the ex's family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

18 November 2016 (M) - Started a new relationship with an old flame from my past. we are into our 6 month and very into each other. She now had a small child for a ex boyfriend and the ex is very unstable. lately the ex,s brother has started to show up visiting, at ...

What is wrong with me I want a relationship but I don't want sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

17 November 2016 (F) - Hey Cupids,I'm still a young woman who is truly in to sex with men but I have been single for years and now I want to get into the dating world but not ready to have sex with anymore.I'm ready to travel and just do me but I do feel lonely at times ...

I am infactuated with this single dad!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2956 days ago

17 November 2016 (F) - So there is this man at my church and he is a single dad. We've started to casually talk here and there. Two weeks ago he was saying to me how he would love to have more kids. Then last week he asks he personally if I ever wanted kids. This might ...

Everytime I turn around she needs money.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

17 November 2016 (M) - I am currently in a LDR and it has become frustrating how financially dependent she has become. We were in this situation when we lived in the same town, however, I was living at home and didn't pay any bills while working. Now I am living on my own ...

Whirlwind love ? Have we only bonded due to our circumstances? Her ex still constantly sends her texts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

15 November 2016 (M) - Ok so let me start from the beginning. About four months ago I separated from a 10 year marriage where it was not a good place and my ex was not a nice person to be around. Then about a month later I started with online dating apps and met a f...

Facebook jealousy is making me resentful and bitter

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

14 November 2016 (F) - I saw a question posted a while back similar to this, as I seem to have the same problem. I recently had to deactivate my Facebook account because everyone posting constantly about their wonderful lives is making me really jealous and resentful of ...

Boyfriend's family is refusing to let me stay with them.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

14 November 2016 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 18 months now. He is Indian and his family is Muslim. We intend to get married in the next year (not engaged yet) and they know we are serious, but because I am a white blonde girl they treat me completely ...

I read my sister's old life planning journals and I am shocked at what I found!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2959 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - My sister graduated university last june and as a result had a whole box of old stationary/notepads in her room at home which my mum said I could borrow since she left them behind when she moved out (she's currently renting a flat for a year as ...

Can I ever get my thoughts under control?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2959 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - I wanted to write this to see if anyone has had any success in dealing with this or if there is no hope for me to resolve my issues. I have been in therapy and with medication since I was young I'm 31 now. I was diagnosed with OCD at 12. The last ...

I am worried about my family's reaction when they see my test results.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2955 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - Hi there... So a little about me.. I recently moved to a different school and in a different country and Im turning 18 very soon.. So recently, I flew home to visit my parents even though I had tests coming up. And my holiday was just a week, the...

My friend thought I was in pornographic pictures.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2959 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - MOD NOTE: I believe the asker has a male friend who is close like a brother. They are both married. Her friend ignored her for two weeks, and when she insisted he say why he sent by text pornographic images which he believes to be her. He is ...

Should I try to seduce my brother's wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2961 days ago

10 November 2016 (M) - I'm 19 year old and have a huge crush on my brothers wife she's around 28 and I've been in a relationship with her sister she's 23 and whenever I have sex with her I couldn't stop imagining my sister in law and ejaculate thinking of my sister in ...

My heart belongs to another and I want out of my marriage but I won't be able to support myself/kids

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2960 days ago

10 November 2016 (F) - I am married and have been for 10 years. I have three beautiful children that I love more than anything. I stay home to care for them, as one of them is too young for school. Here is my dilemma. I am not in love with my husband. I haven't been for ...

Does he have too much baggage?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2955 days ago

9 November 2016 (F) - I'm dating a guy that is a 100% gentleman, is God-fearing, has a great job, is goal-driven and has committed to being celibate with me..But, he is divorced (for 5 years now), and has two children (10 years old and 7 years old). He's 33, so I can ...

How does a single mother heal after a break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2964 days ago

8 November 2016 (F) - So, I know what I've done wrong and I know what I've done right. What hurts the most is losing family, the connections you have, the memories, the what could've beens, the lingering feelings, etc. We have a toddler and a baby on the way. He's said ...

When is the right time to introduce my boyfriend to my parents and how do I do so?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

8 November 2016 (F) - Hi. When is the right time to introduce my boyfriend to my parents? I have never brought a guy to meet my parents but with the one I am dating now, I feel the need to do so. We have been together for six months but knew eachother more than three ...

Not invited to boyfriends childrens events

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

7 November 2016 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years the last year living together. He has been divorced for 16 years his children are now 19 and 18 . As of yet I am not included in any of there events graduations football games bday dinners.. He has a ...

I don't want my mom to be pregnant I like being the only child!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2964 days ago

7 November 2016 (F) - I think my mom mother is pregnant she told my we are having a baby but I thought she was joking and I'm scared to really ask her cause I don't want another child I'm the only one and I like it like that...

My parents are not happy that my boyfriend is back in my life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

7 November 2016 (F) - When I was 18 I got pregnant by my bf who was also 18. We had been dating for just over a year when it happened . I found out I was pregnant on our high school graduation day. With the help of both of our parents we were both able to go to ...

I love my stepdaughter is that normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

7 November 2016 (M) - Is it common for stepfathers to fall in love with their stepdaughters. Should i tell her she is a grown woman, and im not with her mother anymore.Iam going absolutely insane. I love her so much.what do i do? Am i a pervert for even thinking that....

I'm a 19 year old girl and I'm in love with my stepmom!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2938 days ago

7 November 2016 (F) - Should I tell her or Not? I'm 19, and it's sad to say, but I'm in love with my step mom. It's a bad thing because I'm also a female. Every time that I'm around her, I stutter, smile a lot,etc. It's getting to the point to where I can't even hug...

Why aren't my parents happy for me and my boyfriend? I feel like I just can't win with them

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

7 November 2016 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 and a half months and things are going great. For the first time in a long time, I havnt been so happy. And my whole family can see that and have all told me that they are happy I found a decent guy. ...

I'd like a gap year, is that so bad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

6 November 2016 (F) - Hi. So I know this question isn't really about relationships and sex but this sites by far my favourite and I figured you guys would be helpful. Im 17 and supposed to be starting university next September - I say supposed to because I'm completely ...

Jealous of my boyfriends cousin, is it even normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

6 November 2016 (F) - Okay um.. Is it weird if I get jealous of my boyfriends cousin? They're really close since they were kids. But when my boyfriend and I were still friends, he told me a couple of times that he wanted someone like Sofia (his cousin) as his girlfriend! ...

My sister in college is in a LDR spending all of her time trying to be with her boyfriend. Family is worried about her!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

5 November 2016 (F) - My sister is younger than me and just started college. Just before she left for college she got a boyfriend. I've never met him but he's met my parents and they say he is very nice. Now she is at college they are about hundreds miles apart and ...

Should I accept that my ex is going off for 3 days with her ex and their daughter or say something about it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2966 days ago

5 November 2016 (M) - have been dating and being in a serious relationship with a woman since 2010 and she has just told me that during the Christmas she will be going on holiday to a cabine for 3 daysa with her ex husband and their 15 years daughter who lives with her ...

How can I tell my wife that her sister has started to appear in my fantasies?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2966 days ago

4 November 2016 (M) - My wife and I are generally very open with eachother about our fantasies. They usually just come out during intimacy. Lately, however, I've been having a fantasy that I want to be a bit more subtle when I tell her about it. My new fantasies have ...